What does a man not do to his wife is a good husband who is competent?

A husband who does not beat and scold his wife, can help his wife share housework or work, can listen to his wife's distress or help his wife solve difficulties, can take care of his wife's physical and mental state, can keep pressure out, and does not let his wife know is a competent and good husband.

will not yell at his wife, and will not slam the door after a quarrel, nor will he have a cold war with his wife, especially in front of his wife's best friend, he will not let his wife not get off the stage, and a man who will save face for his wife is a competent and good husband.

A good husband who is competent will not dislike his wife's appearance and figure, but feel that there are different beauties in each period, and he will not often complain that his wife is not doing well, and will comfort her with high emotional intelligence.

A good husband who is competent will know how to be considerate of his wife and take care of his wife. Such a husband will not leave all the housework to his wife alone, will not let his wife bear the hardships of raising children alone, will not let his wife be treated harshly by her in-laws, and will not talk about extramarital affairs.

A man who does not accuse his wife at will is a good husband who is competent, because the accusation will make his wife sad and feel not understood.

1. Give you every month's salary for safekeeping.

Love is selfish, but also the first or great, when a person really loves you, there is only you in his eyes, he just wants to be good to Qingqin, you will coax you when you are unhappy, you will accompany you when you are lonely, and the person who does not love you, even if you stick to you every day, will not smile at you, let alone spoil you and coax you.

2. When there is a conflict, no matter who is right and who is wrong, he will admit his mistake first.

There is a saying that where there are people, there are contradictions, and it is true, even if it is a husband and wife, it is difficult to say that they will not answer and quarrel for a lifetime, but the person who loves you will turn big things into small things and small things into nothing, and will not have a stiff relationship because of a small contradiction.

3. Take you home to meet his parents and introduce relatives and friends to you.

For many people, meeting parents often means that they are about to get married, so generally speaking, few people will casually take the opposite sex home to meet their parents, let alone even introduce the eighth aunt to you, in fact, meeting parents generally wants you to know more about this family, so that you can integrate into this big family.

Often take the initiative to care for his wife, will be very good to his wife, regularly take his wife out to pay his salary, will praise himself in front of outsiders, his wife will share the housework for his wife, and will take the initiative to apologize after arguing and fighting.

will care about his wife, will cook for his rotten wife, will solve problems for his wife, will make celery for his wife, and will buy gifts for his wife.

First, he likes to lose his temper with his wife at home.

A few days ago, a reader wrote to me that she felt like she couldn't survive in this house, and she said that she had never seen such a two-faced boy. Her husband was kind to him before he got married, but after he got married, he felt like he had changed. As soon as something goes wrong at work, he will go home and lose his temper, saying that the leader is deliberately embarrassed, and that friend will know how to play tricks and make his hands and feet, forcing him to carry a little bit of a day; The important thing is that this kind of thing is all about work, and it has nothing to do with me, so I comforted him by fighting and renting, saying don't be angry, just work hard next time, and conclude that her husband came and said, "You don't care about my business!"

When he ate at night, he kept saying that the dishes were not appetizing, but these dishes were originally the things he said he loved you to eat.

The more incompetent a man is, the more he likes to send all his day's resentment on his wife's family. For example, if they are scolded by the leader today, or are teased by some kind of friend, they are afraid of losing their temper outside, so they will bring all their temperament home as their wives and children. Let them listen to their own complaints, listen to their own anger, and keep the good side outside, and the bad side at home.

Second, I don't want to listen to my family's advice and insist on going my own way.

I know an eldest sister who has been married for more than ten years and has worked hard for the family every day, but she is always not highly valued by her husband. Frankly speaking, the eldest sister is a person who has a fast brain, very smart, as soon as she teaches her anything, she was originally working in the factory, and the leader wanted to promote her exceptionally, and she resigned from her job after she got married. But after getting married, she is not easy to speak at home, her husband is a low-level employee of an enterprise, and he understands how to please the leader on weekdays, follows the leader, does not do anything diligent, and is happy to shoot the sycophants outside, and pretends to be an uncle when he goes home

You are a woman, what do you know? "The more incompetent a man is, the more he likes to assert himself at home.

They like to please leaders and friends outside, listen to everything from others, and when they arrive at home, they pretend to be uncles and pretend to know everything. I don't like to listen to my wife's advice, and even like to start first, but I don't ask my wife's advice, and I don't know how to respect my wife and family. Such a man, not to mention that it is difficult for the leaders and colleagues he pleases to stand her alone, even the people around me will stay away from him.

Blaming his wife and spreading his temper on his wife, a man who has no ability will do these two things to his wife.

The more incapable the man is, the easier it is to do some domestic violence to the woman in the marriage, and he will also belittle the other party.

In marriage, the more incompetent men are, the more they like domestic violence, and they scold their wives, and they will suppress their wives and not let them work with their wives early.

Summary. Dear, this phenomenon you mentioned is still quite a bit in our lives. The real reason is because the two have been together for a long time, and then lack of communication, so they have an inexplicable dislike for their wives.

Dear, this phenomenon you mentioned is still quite a bit in our lives. The real reason is because the two have been together for a long time, and then lack of communication, so they have an inexplicable dislike for their wives.

I don't like to get divorced.

Dear, don't talk about divorce at every turn, divorce is not the only way. If there is no way to solve it, then even if you find someone in the future, you will still deal with it in this way. So it's better to communicate more.

This situation also has a certain relationship with the fatigue period between husband and wife. So as a husband, it should be your responsibility to reconcile.

To anyone in her family, as long as I encounter the things and people of his family, I am an outsider, just like I owe them.

Dear, you might as well try to change your life. For example, traveling, occasionally going out for a meal and going out for a walk, etc., these will be helpful.

Dear, I see, it's just that she doesn't understand you very well. You might as well care more about her, let your wife feel your affection, and in the long run, your wife will be towards you.