What is emotional maturity?

maturity and no clear definition. Whether you are mature or not is only a self-judgment, plus the outside world from how you behave. There is no maturity in the absolute sense, only relative maturity.

Relative emotional maturity is to understand that the other person is not the whole of your life, but it is with you all your life. The other party's sudden indifference and concern can be treated with a normal heart. When a conflict arises, it is always resolved in a mature way.

Know how to control your emotions and empathize. They will not be suspicious of each other, and they will act irrationally in a hurry. Mature feelings, two people will know:

A suitable partner is one that has been run by two people together; Instead of giving up easily once there is no understanding and misunderstanding.

The Chinese Chinese dialect can be taken literally. Ripe. Cheng is used to describe ripe.

So let's talk about what cooked is. As far as food is concerned, it means that the dish is ready. As far as people are concerned, familiarity means that they have a certain degree of understanding and understanding.

So what is emotional maturity? Our Chinese characters are actually very interesting. Literally, it's pretty popular.

Emotions (this dish) are on fire, and the consensus of emotional cognition is higher. You can think of this question as a combined translation of 1 and 2. So now I'm going to talk about a really important issue (I don't tell the average person) that everyone's level of emotional maturity is different.

It's like someone likes a medium-rare steak, someone likes a fully rare, once you're at your favorite heat. You have to eat. It's sublimation!

For a person's emotion, from simple love and possession, gradually transformed to give the other party freedom, simply hope that the other party is happy, is a kind of emotional maturity, at the beginning of the emotion, everyone will do everything possible to possess each other, control each other, but after a long time, this emotion will go to maturity and flatness.

The transition from liking to loving deeply. If you like it, you will be presumptuous, but love is restraint. Liking is to start from yourself, give the other person what you think is the best, and instill them in the way that you think is good or right; And love is to consider from the other person's point of view, to understand the other party, to understand the other party, and to restrain yourself from those things that you think are good but the other person doesn't like.

This process is a sign of emotional maturity.

There are actually very few emotionally mature people, because it requires not only a lot of life experience and experience, but also a high level of wisdom. The premise of emotional maturity is to know what true love is, understand what true love is, and be able to control your desires and emotions as you like, and be able to take it and let go of it in terms of emotion.

The biggest aspect of emotional maturity is that it will not be swayed by emotions, there will be a little collision in the emotion, some people will go to buy drunk late at night, and give up on themselves the next day as if there is no hope in life, and then slump, in mature emotions, you can go to buy drunk late at night to adjust your mood, or try to be depressed for a few days, but you can't be depressed from now on, because he chose to leave then it is not your right person.

Be able to express your likes independently, not be affected by the outside world, family environment factors, etc., and clarify your direct purpose is because you like a person, not because of interest entanglement.

Treat your feelings rationally, don't cry or make trouble, so that others will feel that you are very mature in your relationship and suitable to continue walking.

I think that emotional maturity means that people will become more rational, and will no longer cry out for a little bit of pain, but understand what they want, what they don't want, and how to do it.

If the emotion is mature, there is no unswerving love in the world, so real love is actually immature, and if it is too mature, it becomes particularly rational, and rational people do not believe in love.

The maturity of emotions is interactive, half a pound and two with each other, if one grows with the other, it will be very tiring, it is a one-sided maturity.

Independent and self-disciplined, not easy to be happy and sorrowful, clear about their own preferences and needs.

Don't be surprised, smile and look at the clouds.

Fully respect each other, do not interfere in each other's lives, do not accuse each other in the name of the other half, and point fingers at each other.

I think that emotional maturity is not early love at a young age, but that I can really find happiness in love.

In a relationship, what is emotional maturity? The details are as follows:

First, know how to accommodate, know how to be humble Feelings are a combination of contradictions, it is a thing that you desire to get when you don't get it, something that may be very troublesome when you get it, and something that will be tormented and even regrettable if you lose it. No one's relationship can be smooth sailing, as beautiful as a fairy couple. So what is considered emotional maturity?

Second, having an assertive mind will consider things and the feelings of the other halfSecond, one party can be assertive when two people discuss things at the same time, and can consider every word that has been said, what kind of consequences everything has been done will have on the other party, or what kind of feelings the other party will have, and it is relatively able to be thoughtful. A person who can make two people face it together and be more considerate of the feelings of the other half. Such a person is very mature in the relationship, a person who blindly only takes into account his own feelings is selfish, and a person who blindly only considers his own position is mean, you know, emotions are very complex things.

Third, be able to care and care properlyEmotions differ from feelings in that emotions can be directed to others or to oneself. A person can do the love of life, be able to deal with all aspects of life, and be able to do just the right amount of care and proper care in various emotional relationships, and can care about the people he cares about, such a person is very pleasing in the emotion. Whether the emotion is mature or not is also closely related to a person's behavior and emotional intelligence.

Mature feelings will leave a certain amount of personal space for each other, and the two people are particularly happy to get along, the relationship between the two people is particularly good, and they respect and understand each other.

You can have things that you are more interested in in getting along, and you can also have your own social circle, and you are also very independent, which is emotional maturity.

Both parties trust each other very much, and can help each other when they encounter problems, will not blame each other, and can also appropriately create some small surprises for each other, that is, when the relationship between two people encounters something, they can rush to each other's side to protect her as soon as possible.

Clause. 1. Mature emotions will not want the other person to become what they want, nor will they turn themselves into what the other person wants.

This is an equal relationship, which allows the other party to exceed the scope of one's own cognition and tolerance, and can also put away one's own personality and take care of the other person's character and posture on the premise of maintaining oneself. Implement the most daily bits and pieces, and withstand the torture of oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea and the baptism of time.

Clause. 2. To truly realize that the world of emotions is only a part of the everyday world is a position, a position about truth. Only by understanding that the emotional world is an integral part of the everyday world can we truly treat emotions with a normal heart.

Third, "respect" is the most demanded quality in the emotional world.

No matter what stage of our emotional development, "respect" should always come first in the form of high-quality emotions. Being able to understand when others don't want to say it, listen when others are speaking, understand when others are silent, and understand when others are noisy and noisy is a high-quality emotion.

Mature emotions are not to use their own thoughts to bind each other. Two people are in love with each other and two independent individuals. They can be beautiful in each other, and because of love for a person, they can be exposed to a better and wider world from him.

In short, I love you, and you are free.

Mature people will know how to control their emotions, when they fall in love, they will not lose their temper and make trouble, and they will be more stable, think more about things, consider things more carefully, they will not always be nervous and grinning, and when they are alone, they will like to think about some things. They may not easily let others see their deep side, but sometimes they are lonely.

It takes time for emotions to mature, and feelings seem to be complicated, but in fact they are very simple, and many times we just have a point and have not figured it out. True emotional maturity must have experienced growth. Mature people will learn a lot of experience and have a lot of lessons, so they will not run into thunder everywhere like naïve people.

And I think that real maturity is not to be sleek and greasy, but to be able to see through a lot of things. It won't just look at the superficial phenomenon and be used by others casually. Mature people can also be very sincere, very delicate, and know how to think from the perspective of others and think about others, so sometimes they seem very gentle and loving.

And a person who is mature but not greasy, and has simple ideas, is someone who can truly deserve the word "good".

There is nothing in the world, mediocre people disturb themselves, and truly mature people will not cause trouble on their own. When encountering things, they will not let their emotions vent casually, but work hard to solve the problem, find the key to the problem, and hit the nail on the head.

Mature people will not only know how to blindly give, they will be good to others, and at the same time they will not forget themselves, they will protect themselves, take care of themselves, be very independent, have their own principles, have rules for dealing with the world, and will not be casual. They also want to live well, do something meaningful in their ordinary life, let themselves have something to do, and not be easily decadent, do nothing, and waste their time. Such a person is a person with real personality charm and a person who deserves to be praised by others.

So a lot of successful people are emotionally mature people.

Emotional maturity refers to a high degree of appropriate emotional control and emotional expression.

Emotional maturity is a valuable trait in intimate relationships. Emotionally mature people can create loving, recognized, and secure relationships for their partners, and help them learn better emotional ways.

An emotionally mature partner can provide a safe and stable space for the relationship, allowing both partners to grow more comfortably in the relationship.

Profound emotions are intellectually nurtured for a long time, and they are permeated by the shallow stream of the deep valley, drop by drop, whether it is love or hate, it should not be abrupt, it should not be rash, it should not come strangely, it will not go away, it will have long resilience and sufficient length, this is mature emotion.

Love and marriage are not equal, love is not the same as marriage, and marriage is not the same as love. Because the two parties in love and the two parties in marriage are not only different in their feelings, but also in their relationships and psychology.

First of all, the two parties in love are not related by blood, that is, two strangers of the opposite sex are attracted to each other, so the love will be very warm. Both parties in love have never been in contact, and their hearts are mostly "curious", not only about their love life, but also about each other's personality and emotions.

Compared with love, marriage is to determine the blood relationship between the two. From two strangers to building a family, and then to reproducing, in fact, love has become family affection, which is an emotional progression, and it is also a kind of birth of a sense of marital responsibility.

Not only that, but the parties to the marriage have long been no longer curious, but support each other to live an ordinary life, less intense when in love, less impulsive in love. Being in a relationship is like tasting a cup of tea, it is very bitter when you first drink it, and you have to go through the tempering of life, but when you drink it again, it is very sweet, because it is sweet in the middle of love, and it is "light" in the end, and this "light" is a symbol of marriage.

What is the biggest difference between love and marriage? It is the change in the relationship between the two parties, as well as the change in the inner emotions. But in any case, this kind of change is an inevitability, and it is a classic mode of getting along with people.

If there is heat, there will naturally be cold, and if there is taste, there will naturally be light, which is a kind of life and the normal state of marriage.

A person's emotional maturity is reflected in how he deals with emotional relationships. Since it is a relationship, it naturally includes oneself and others. The embodiment of emotional maturity is how to deal with oneself.

If you want to get along with others in harmony, you must first learn to get along with yourself. Dealing with oneself is not solitude, but dealing with oneself in harmony with oneself.

Many people often blame themselves in life for not letting go of themselves, and this situation is reflected in the relationship with others, and they will not let go of others. Only by constantly reconciling with oneself in oneself can one reconcile with others in one's dealings with others. So, learn to reconcile with yourself and let go of the very important side of how you deal with yourself.

Emotions should be respectful of each of their feelings. Whether it's together, or we've been together. Knowing how to cherish and let go, knowing how to cherish the people in front of you, and knowing how to collect the emotions that should have been, this should be a kind of maturity.

It is very difficult to be able to think about the consequences of doing things, to be able to think about problems for others, and we sentient beings are generally from the perspective of standing, and many situations are thinking about problems for ourselves.

Our own state determines how we see others, and when we are not mature enough, we will always accuse them of not being mature enough; When you become mature, you begin to let go of your tense self and are willing to complement each other with your true self. A mature lover is someone who can understand himself and see the other person. This means that we can be close to our hearts, see our own needs, respect each other's differences, and understand how others think about us.

Such a person is soft in his heart, does not blame others or blames himself, talks to others with a respectful attitude, and does not cross the boundaries of others at will. Zhang Ailing said: Because I understand, I am compassionate.

In intimate relationships, true maturity is to see oneself in one's dissatisfaction with others, and to understand each other in one's own vulnerability. In this way, when we no longer change each other according to our own requirements, love will flow naturally between two people.