What are the confusions of life when I was a student?

When I was a student, I was puzzled by how to improve my academic performance, how to get along with my classmates and teachers, what to do if I encountered difficulties in my studies, what to do if I had someone I liked, which university I wanted to go to, and so on.

Everyone is an independent individual, with independent ideas, and confusion is born when you take it for granted to apply your parents' life experience to your own life path

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Confusion in student days:

Maybe no matter how hard you study? I still can't improve my academic performance.

Maybe I have a crush on a classmate of the opposite sex, and I don't have the heart to study at all.

The confusion in life when I was a student was why my grades couldn't be improved, how to deal with my classmates and make them like me.

In fact, there are many main life confusions when I was a student, that is, many people will feel very confused about which major they want to do in the future and which aspect they want to engage in, right?

There are many difficulties when I was a student, such as my family conditions are not very good, my academic performance is not improving, or it is difficult to socialize with my classmates.

I'm afraid that my grades won't be looked down upon in my studies, and I will be looked down upon by others in my poor family life, but I can only work hard to do it, and my grades will go up, no matter what the state is, others will take you seriously, so I can't get out of the confusion.

There are many reasons for this dilemma, which may be due to too much reliance on academic performance and neglect of other aspects of ability and quality; It may be because of too much focus on self-standards and neglect teamwork and communication skills; It may also be due to a lack of career planning and self-awareness, which makes it impossible to accurately assess one's abilities and career development direction. Whatever the reason, we need to recognize the existence of this dilemma and take timely measures to solve it.

1. Know yourself and clarify your career plan.

Good students usually excel in their school days because they are very disciplined and organized, but this is not necessarily an advantage in the workplace, where innovation, cooperation, and communication skills are needed. Therefore, the first step is to recognize your strengths and weaknesses, clarify the direction of career development, and formulate a long-term career plan.

1.Know your strengths and weaknesses.

Through self-assessments, 360-degree assessments, and other methods, you can understand your strengths and weaknesses, find out where you fit in the workplace, and find out the abilities and skills you need to improve.

2.Define the direction of your career.

According to your interests, personality and abilities, clarify the direction of career development and hand-made goals, formulate a long-term career plan, and also choose the abilities and skills you need to learn and improve according to your career plan.

Looking back on my 18 years as a student, I feel that I have a clear conscience. Although there are no achievements, I have learned everything that should be learned, and I have also cultivated the spirit of independent thinking and logical thinking.

In my impression, there are a lot of emotional changes in my reading career for more than ten years, and I feel that there will be different moods and different things happening every day, but naturally there are also the most unforgettable, happy, and sad things, but I think the most of these experiences are in my three years of high school, and I have no memory of the three years of junior high school, because there is nothing special.

I remember the happiest time when I was a student was in the third year of high school, when I felt like a salted fish every day, the kind of salted fish that was stirred up every day and decadent and had to be a desperate Sanniang, especially in the second semester of the third year of high school, there was a night of self-study in the classroom I couldn't stand the oppressive atmosphere, so I went directly to the office with my friends to find the head teacher, and told him that it was too boring to stay in the classroom and asked to go outside to wander and relax.

Of course, the head teacher must not agree at first, but we finally agreed that we should walk around the school, so we helped a math teacher in the science class in the class teacher's office to sort out a class paper, went out to hang around for two evening self-study, and went back to the classroom in the last evening self-study, and finally the head teacher came to check the class when he saw us and showed a relieved smile.

Maybe I don't think it's anything to be happy about, but for us who are in a depressed atmosphere every day at that time, it's really a special thing to be happy, after all, the days of the senior party are really boring every day, but the happiest is mainly because we go out to hang out with the consent of the head teacher, not to say that we have to worry about being discovered by a teacher all the way to hang out for any reason, so the whole body and mind feel comfortable and happy.

If I want to say that I was the most confused when I was a student, it must be the time for me to fill in the college volunteer after graduating from high school and learning the results of the college entrance examination, because there was an accident before the college entrance examination that caused a fracture of the back spine, so I returned to school on the first day of the college entrance examination, which is the college entrance examination center, and then the whole exam completely collapsed, and I took a very embarrassing result, which was more than a dozen points higher than the three main lines, so it became a very difficult and confusing thing to fill in the volunteers.

Because my family didn't know much about this volunteer, I had to think about the whole thing of filling in the volunteer, and I was really confused at that time, I didn't know where I was going in the future, the score was too embarrassing, and the school was even more difficult to choose. It wasn't until the first day of the deadline for filling in the volunteer that I submitted the volunteer, and finally gave up filling in the three schools, but filled in a normal college with a relatively good certainty, which is the school I am in now.

In a year's time, I will graduate from college, and I will officially step into the society and step into the school and step on the podium.

The happiest thing when I was a student was to travel to the suburbs with my friends, and on the days of mountain climbing, the beautiful scenery on Tianma Mountain was very charming, in order to listen to their legendary beauty mountain and through the cave, we tirelessly got up early in the morning, and then set off with dry food on our backs.

Along the way, I took the bus, chatted boringly on the bus, and there was nothing to talk about, so some partners proposed to sing along the way, and took out a very valuable microphone, and everyone was very happy to sing all the way, "Don't dare to sing too hard, and then the physical strength will be exhausted" This is the ridicule of those who can't sing, and they won't feel tired if they really sing, on the contrary, they can make themselves more happy, even if they don't have enough physical strength, they have dry food.

There is also a random intrusion of funny people, anyway, there is laughter along the way, and later, we finally reached the destination, there is actually a swan lake near the park, such beautiful geese, playing freely in the lake, I want to become those geese, so that I can enjoy the fun of swimming.

Further on is a quiet path, on both sides of the road are accompanied by wild flowers and wild trees, along the way, I saw a lot of wild plants, very strange, some can still recognize what plants, some are difficult to know the name, I will record them in my mobile phone, come back to get acquainted with it.

Finally we climbed to the top of the mountain that we haven't seen for a long time, I didn't expect that the top of the mountain is still a very wide place for free activities, there are a lot of snacks on it, as well as sports equipment, and there are some people who take pictures, I stand on the mountain and instantly feel that everything under the mountain is so small, I am in the highlands, that feeling is refreshing, the air on the top of the mountain is also very fresh, suddenly there is an urge to hold a bonfire party, haha, think about it is very beautiful, but unfortunately, the venue is not allowed, look forward to such an opportunity in the future.

The student years are our happiest and saddest times, youth passes quietly on campus, and the sound of writing writes on the white paper with the oath of youth. The gentle smiling faces on campus are like the sun in winter. During the graduation season, there were many wishes, although I knew that I couldn't achieve them, but I burst into tears before I turned around, and the names that I had been silently reciting for a long time in my heart eventually became a gray area in my heart.

In the campus of youth, the playground under the sun, everyone's smiling faces, everything is just like yesterday, the green time has crossed the left face, gradually drifted away, and slowly moved towards the future, but forgot to say goodbye to yesterday. Only endless memories are left to slowly recreate in the mind.

Once upon a time, we were happiest when we laughed and played together in the classroom, sweated in the playground, and secretly cooked some small things to eat in the dormitory, but on that rainy day that I can no longer remember, everything went away with the wind...

The age of youth is always in a state of confusion, with endless test papers, endless tutorial books, endless math formulas and chemical formulas...We think we can be the biggest heroes, but how can life make you do it? You think you're going to soar into the sky, but you just can't turn over.

Confusion spreads throughout adolescence, like a ship sailing on the sea, without the guidance of a lighthouse, then we can only get lost in the vast sea, how lucky, we are still together, friendship guides us out of the boundless sea, and finally can realize our dreams.

Whether we were happy or confused in our school days, my greatest joy is to be able to meet and be in the same boat with you, through the most difficult period of life together, and now we are all going to the end of the world, are you okay?

I'm still studying, but I don't think my remaining two years of college will be happier than I was in high school.

In fact, we didn't have any hobbies in high school, and the only common hobby was playing games, and the happiest time was the past when we played games together.

During the Mid-Autumn Festival in my sophomore year of high school, we all said that we would not go home during the holidays, and we would have fun together, and then I remember that there seemed to be a brother who had a birthday, invited us to have a meal first, and then went to sing songs for an afternoon, and then began our crazy Internet journey.

At that time, we had a "revolutionary base", and then a group of our brothers were all online here, and at the beginning we played CF, and we also formed a team at that time, and I was the captain of the team. Later, League of Legends became popular, and we began to switch to League of Legends. <>

On the first night of the Mid-Autumn Festival, we went to an all-nighter, and the ten of us played 5v5 battles there, and we kept roaring all night, and we played like this for nearly 40 hours in a row, except for eating and going to the toilet, we basically sat there and played games.

By the time I got to the first all-nighter, my voice was hoarse and I couldn't even roar. There are also a few brothers who fell asleep with their heads smashed on the keyboard while fighting, and I also filmed **, which has become their black material to this day. When I went out to the Internet café for the second night, everyone was depressed to death, and the most terrible thing was that after a few of us finished breakfast, there were less than fifty yuan left, but a few of us opened a three-person room in a guest house, thirty a day, and then put three beds, and we had seven people left, and then seven big men squeezed on it and slept until night.

When we woke up, I wanted to vomit when I saw the computer, and although it was very uncomfortable at the time, but now that I think about it, it was really the happiest time of my student days.

The most vivid memory of my student days was the college days, because the way I thought about problems at this stage, and the people and things I met a lot, I had a certain ability to solve things and my own ideas. At this time, the happiest thing for me is that when there are no classes, I can participate in some extracurricular activities, play badminton, basketball, volleyball, and running, etc., because sports can really make me very happy, and I am sometimes nervous to study my cranial nerves every day, and it is best to relax at this time, the school library is very large, there are many books than I imagined, and sometimes I will borrow a few books to come back and have a look, and my school life is very fulfilling. One thing that makes me very happy is that there will be some very strange and strange clubs in the university, so I entered a club that is very unfamiliar to me, the animation club, and some two-dimensional people are together, and I have a better understanding of some two-dimensional worlds, and sometimes some club parties will be held, which makes me very excited, I can see live performances, everyone gets together to have fun, and completely forgets some of the pressure on learning.

But gradually the happy time is always very short-lived, what makes me most confused is when graduation is approaching, whether it is the pressure of the family, and the pressure of the teachers, a topic every day is to let us think about our own future, what to do in the future, how to do it, to support ourselves first, before we can have the experience to do some other things, however, China is a large country with a large population, and the number of college graduates every year is increasing unabated, so you will face a major problem, your employment problem. Because there are so many industries and people in need, there will be a surplus of talents, which will lead to a phenomenon of college students queuing up and crowding when they are looking for jobs. Therefore, the pressure of graduation will make me feel very lost.