What do you gain and lose in love?

I got care, pampering, and love, but I also lost something very important, that is, myself, because people in order to pursue love, unscrupulous means, lost the original value, and meaning, in fact, in love, everyone gets different, and what is lost is different, take me as an example, what I got was a chance to love. Lost time, energy and youth ...

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun... Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude.

Just think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up. Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...

When I find that the love I get is not the kind I want, I will choose to end it early, because delaying one more day is a waste of the other party's time and my youth, so I will tell the other party as soon as possible, and then choose to separate.

I think a relationship, when we find that we don't want it, we should say it early and end it early. Some people may say that this relationship is what I finally asked for, if it is easy to say separation, is it some to be sorry for their own intentions, or some people think that they seem to have said how much they love each other before, and it didn't take long for them to say that they don't love each other, and then ask for separation, whether it shows that they are not affectionate enough, whether it will hurt each other.

But have you ever thought that when you find that this relationship is not suitable, when you find out that this is not the love you want, you are destined to separate, and when you find out, you have already begun to prepare for the heart, but what about the other party, the other half of the person, he may not know what you are thinking in your heart, he may be in your future relationship, invest more love, the longer you invest, the more things will be invested, and in the end, you can get out of the whole body, but what about the other party.

I think that when you find that the other party is not the person you want, you should communicate clearly with the other party as soon as possible, maybe he doesn't love you so much at this time, he may not invest a lot of energy, but because of your embarrassment, or because of your selfishness, you didn't tell the other party early, this is not what you want, so you watched the other party fall deeper and deeper, and in the end looked at the other party and couldn't extricate yourself, and at this time you proposed, I'm sorry, this is not the love I want, do you think it will hurt the other party more.

Inappropriate love will eventually be a tragedy, you can't continue to love each other knowing it, so the tragedy is doomed, why not end it sooner, it's good for everyone.

Personally, I think that if I find that my love is not the kind I want, then I will change this fact and do my best to make this relationship my ideal love.

You must break up decisively, and you can't compromise. You can express your guilt for the other person and thank them for their efforts towards you. But don't sacrifice your love because of gratitude.

In this case, I will choose to break up, emotional things cannot be compromised, and I can't compromise for my future happiness, I must find the right person for myself.

Then give up, and giving up decisively is also a relief for others and yourself.

True love is acceptance, not endurance; It is support, not domination; It's a condolence, not a question.

True love, to thank but also apologize; Be considerate and considerate; We must admit our mistakes and correct them.

True love is not to stare at each other, but to look in the same direction together.

Perhaps, love, is not the search for a perfect person; Rather, learn to appreciate an imperfect person with a perfect eye.

If you hold hands, don't do it, just say break up.

Perhaps, love is to give willingly and share joys and sorrows.

Don't wait until you lose it to know how valuable it is; Don't wait until you're hurt to beg for forgiveness; Something is lost and will never come back.

If a person confesses to you, please cherish his love for you no matter what, even if it can only be an ordinary friend; Perhaps there will not be a second time for a person's innocent confession.

Because of kindness, so cute; Because it's cute, it's beautiful; Because of beauty, so yearning; Because of yearning, so in love.

It's not because you're lonely that you love each other, it's about making those who love each other not feel lonely.

It's love, not time, that is able to ** all the trauma.

In a person's life, there will always be a large period of blandness, interrupting unsatisfactory encounters, it is love that makes us think of beauty, and there is still hope.

With love, you don't feel that hardship is a burden.

It is far more important to cherish what you have now than to pursue what you don't have.

What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.