Why does love need to be tormented? What is the most tormenting thing in love?

Updated on amusement 2024-03-08
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Love is by no means looking for it when it is missing, and it is not changing it when it is tired.

    Find someone who can endure hardships together, rather than enjoy them together.

    Find someone you can bear together, not one you can run away with.

    Find someone who can be responsible for you, not for love.

    Love is blind, life is realistic.

    Because love is nothing more than human beings trying to escape from reality

    and derivative products.

    In order to escape from reality, I looked for love In order to find love, I lost my true love and lost my true love, only to find that I had already fallen into a false relationship.

    Love is by no means looking for it when it is missing, and it is not changing it when it is tired.

    What do you think love is?

    A little bit of emotion, a little bit of impulse, a hug and a kiss?

    Naïve people, I have watched too many Japanese dramas, and I have read too many articles of the ruffian Cai.

    This may be part of love, but definitely not most of it.

    The subject of love is life, living together.

    Can you accompany her to be sad for a while, but can you accompany her to withstand all the pressure?

    Can you give her body temperature, but can you give her direction in life?

    Have you ever imagined that when the enthusiasm fades, hugs no longer have any attraction to you?

    How do you go along?

    Distance is the test of true love, and time is the answer.

    For the sake of the person you love, please make some sacrifices and keep your love, otherwise how can you talk about true love.

    You can forget your previous vows, but remember your true heart.

    Ask yourself, do you love so much?

    Are you willing to hurt both?

    Love is by no means looking for it when it is missing, and it is not changing it when it is tired.

    Life is not a good life for one person.

    It's how two people live well together.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There is no fate between you and me, it all depends on me, I understand. I used to think that this was straight to tears, but now I feel that, to put it bluntly, loving someone is really my own business, and I have to show the same attitude as I live. As long as you want to continue, it's a big deal to cry and love hard.

    What fate in the world is not fate, it is all supported.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because love that has not experienced wind and rain cannot be called love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Looking back, it was a blue sky, a touch of blue.

    If you don't take what you see, you will lose a thousand miles.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Love without being able to do it is pain; If you want to see it, it's the most painful; Let go and give up, the most tangled. You don't understand the bitterness in my heart!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The most painful thing in love is that you can't see each other every day.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The most painful thing in the world is not the most distant distance, but the feeling of being particularly painful and the expectation of not responding。I've spent too much time and energy on you. I paid the most for my feelings, but I didn't get a better response.

    It is foolish for one to wait for another, but the other is always indifferent.

    It looks like you'll never understand what I want. You will never understand my loneliness, nor will you understand my thoughts. Even if painful tears fall into my heart, I can't cry out loud because I am not qualified to cry.

    In your eyes, maybe I'm not good enough, maybe you love someone else, or maybe you've never loved me. But no matter what, what I have paid for you will always be the deepest feeling, and you will have endless tears because you will always live in my heart.

    The most painful feeling is this unresponsive anticipation。In every sleepless night, loneliness and anticipation fill the whole mind, waiting for your information and **. I especially don't like this feeling because it's so hurtful, and it's probably one of the most painful pains in the world.

    I really hope that this relationship will have a good outcome, because this way, my mood will not sway with yours, and I will not be so painfully expecting a long love.

    Emotionally, the heart that loves one person can repeatedly tolerate the mistakes of another person, and it can also constantly bear the scars brought by the lover, but feelings are always tiresome, and one day I will have the idea of giving up. If I had a choice, I would never want this painful feeling again. I don't want that unresponsive expectation anymore.

    I want to know someone, two people are a good match, I love him, he just loves me. At least this kind of relationship doesn't make you feel too sad. I hope love will come easily.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Yesterday I posted a message in Wukong's Q&A: What feelings have you experienced that have made you suffer the most? We live in a stressful society, and our desire for love also makes me afraid.

    Afraid of spending time in the wrong love, afraid of not getting the corresponding return for paying, and even more afraid of living a lonely world in the end.

    In a relationship, whether a person loves you or not, in fact, your heart knows better than anyone else, but you still have a trace of expectation, expecting that the other party is also liking you.

    I met a female classmate before, so I sat down and talked about the current situation. She said: The family has arranged a lot of blind dates for her recently, and the conditions are also good, and she looks okay.

    It's just that when you meet, you always feel that it's wrong, you can't talk together, and both sides are too polite and polite. I said: This is the case when we met for the first time, after all, we are not familiar with it yet, maybe it will be better after a long time?

    She smiled, I thought the same way, but everywhere I saw the familiar movements, I would always be inexplicably depressed, and I remembered him.

    She didn't come out of her last relationship, even if they were separated. A lot of things also maintain the habit of two together. The most fearful thing in the relationship is that she holds one person but thinks about the other, so she can't accept a love again like this.

    It is said that how to get out of a relationship that says goodbye to the past, only new love and time. In fact, these can only slowly make the memories hidden deeper, and cannot be completely erased. But we can't be alone in the past love and come out to accept a new life.

    The most tormenting thing in love is actually the same. Originally, love was a matter of two people, but in the end it became the love of one person. You are alone in love, but the other person seems indifferent.

    Therefore, in the relationship, we should not be too humble and let love be enslaved. We have to learn to be free and easy, even if we pretend, we have to pretend to be pretty. A relationship that has no result will only stick the knife deeper, learn to let go, and find the right person.

    The above is a personal opinion.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The most painful thing in the world is not the farthest distance, but the kind of particularly tormenting feelings, the kind of expectations that have not been reciprocated. I put too much time and energy into you, and the most I pay is affection, but I can't get a better response.

    One person is stupidly waiting for the other, and the other is always indifferent.

    You never seem to understand, what I want, you never understand my loneliness, you never understand my thoughts. Even if the tears of pain fall into my heart, I can't cry loudly, because I don't even have the qualifications to cry.

    In your eyes, maybe I'm not good enough, maybe you love someone else, or maybe you never loved me. But no matter what, what I pay for you is always the deepest feeling, and there are endless tears in you, because my heart will always live with you.

    The most tormented feeling is this kind of unresponsive anticipation, in every sleepless night, loneliness and anticipation, full of the whole heart, looking forward to your information, looking forward to your **. I especially don't like this feeling, because it's so hurtful, and it's probably the most painful torment in the world.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The husband and wife had nothing to say.

    The most important thing in married life is to grasp the boundaries and keep the bottom line of respecting each other. I don't know when it began, many people are more and more convinced that "marriage is the grave of love". The pace of life is getting faster and faster, the single group is gradually growing, the divorce rate remains high, and sometimes even persuading friends around them to marry seems to have become harmful.

    What's the problem? Is it true that love dies just because of getting married? In fact, there are not so many hypocrisy and things to care about in marriage, if we have to fight with each other for every conflict, this life will not go on.

    What we need to grasp is a sense of boundaries and bottom lines, not endless struggles.

    When two people live together, having nothing to say is the most terrible, and the old husband and wife should have a tacit understanding with each other and have a topic. Sometimes it is a trivial matter whether we do housework or not, but the good relationship between you and the interaction is the foundation for the gradual stability and harmony of the relationship. Even if you are already an old husband and wife, your willfulness and casual venting must be relaxed, depending on the situation, depending on the conditions.

    Because no one wants to revolve around us forever, this is true for chatting, and even more so for maintaining relationships. If you want to get the attention of the other person, the premise is always that you are paying attention to him in the same way.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The most painful feeling is that I am in a long-distance relationship, is it right to live apart, I can't be together, I think this kind of relationship is not as painful as divorce, right.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The most tormenting relationship is that after a breakup, they live like years, and they can no longer be together with each other.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I can't take it, I can't let go of the feelings, I can't be together when I take a step, and I can't give up when I take a step back.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you are in love, I think it's a long-distance relationship, it's really too difficult, two people are not together most of the time, and it's not easy to get through it. I'm still holding on, painting our dreams, and you've given up.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The most tormented feelings are like girlfriends of the opposite sex. The so-called girlfriends of the opposite sex together are actually one party who has not achieved the goal, and the other party deliberately does not break this relationship, and has always maintained a special relationship like a friend and a lover.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The most tormenting relationship is to love each other but can't be together, and I want to see you every day!

    Every day I want to know what you're doing?

    I want to know if you want me or not, and I want to know if we can be together.

    It's always too short and too short when you're together, it's always too long and too long when you're apart, I want to be by your side all the time, but reason tells me that it's impossible, although I can't see the result, I still choose to be together without hesitation!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In waiting, I look forward to the fate of feelings, and waiting without a date is accompanied by loneliness.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The most tormenting relationship should be that two people in love have to be separated for a period of time due to work problems and can't talk often due to work problems, which is the most torturous at this time.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The most painful relationship is that there is no emotion and is reluctant to give up, and they are together under the slogan of responsibility.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It is that the two parties no longer have feelings, but they have not divorced for various reasons, and they still maintain the name of husband and wife, but there is no husband and wife.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The most tormenting relationship is a long-distance relationship. Or the temper and personality of two people do not match, and they often quarrel, which is more tormenting.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    What is my relationship like recently, that is, I don't love each other, men don't love, women don't love, it's a pity, it's the saddest thing to be bound to live together for the sake of children. It's uncomfortable. There's really no way, it's really hard to be together for the sake of the child's emotion.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    1. For one purpose, two people whose hearts have long been apart are struggling to maintain their marriage.

    2, obviously two people are together, but their hearts are very distant and strange.

    3. There is only one person who keeps giving and does not get a response.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I love you, and you love me, but we can't be together, either the time is wrong, or the location is not good, or it is human interference, and finally we can be together, and we meet a coincidence of chance and separate. I've been worried about each other in my heart, and I don't know when I'll see you again. I hope this is more like a film and television drama, after all, the ending is very good, but unfortunately this is reality, so we are all helpless.

    Represents personal views only.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think it's because the other party doesn't believe in each other, they quarrel every day over a little thing, they don't care about each other as much as they used to, and their temper has become bad and they don't understand each other.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The most painful relationship is that they are obviously in love but can't be together, and they silently bear the pain of lovesickness.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Everyone's ability to bear is different, so the most tormented love does not have a unified appearance.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.

    There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

    They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who really love you may not say many things that love you, but friends will do many things that love you.

    If you find.

    If there are such people around you, please cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that are ready to rent and slip away from the spring locust are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

    the world. on, each.

    Everyone has one. Those who want to look for it, once they miss it, they will not come back.

    If you fall in love, don't let it go easily.

    Abandon. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. Experienced love.

    The life of love is beautiful, and the love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

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