How to get back a man who doesn t love you

The basis of redemption is love, there is love between two people, and if there is no love, it is difficult to redeem.

You need to analyze what the other person wants:

If it is love, then you should not use the word redemption, but should use pursuit, pursue a man who does not love you, learn to do what he likes, show his strengths, and attract him to be close to you;

If the other party asks for money, then you give enough money;

If the other party wants power, then you give enough power;

If the other party wants to save face, then you give enough face.

In this way, it is possible to redeem it, but you have to think for yourself, if this is really the case, then is this kind of relationship what you want? If it's true, just be brave and don't care about other people's eyes, if not, it's a good choice to give up.

In the vast sea of people, it is really not easy for two people to meet and know each other and love each other, this is really the fate of the previous life, it is not easy to meet a loved one, sometimes they break up, maybe because both people are stubborn, they are unwilling to bow their heads first and admit their mistakes, resulting in two people missing a lifetime, I think it is not a very shameful thing for two people to apologize first in love, after all, love is much more important than face, many girls may be broken up, they regret it, they want to get their boyfriends back as soon as possible, for fear of being snatched away by others.

This is very difficult, of course, everything is not absolute, if this man is a man who cares more about his family, you can use the child to use family affection to win back this man's heart, if this man.

Find a point he can't refuse. For example, in his ideal industry, you can achieve a certain status, such as having a common ideal with him and moving forward together. For example, give him 5w fast money every month.

If you don't love you, what's the use of redeeming it? Since I don't love you. Just give up.

How can a man who doesn't love you be saved? Maybe when you feel that the other person is getting colder and colder towards you, you start to constantly look for a sense of presence and want to prove that the other person still loves you through some behavior, but most of the time, the more anxious the situation, the worse it gets. Today, Hua Zhen and you discussed how to get back a man who doesn't love you.

1. Reduce your sense of need

And people who have a strong desire to save each other will constantly tell each other how much they love him, what you have done for him, how many sacrifices you have made, and so on. The more you try to prove to the other person that you love him, the more you give him a lot, that it is worth it for him to continue to love you, and that you are increasing the other person's antipathy towards you. In fact, no one will think that you love him in this way, but the pressure exerted in the name of love makes people feel very uncomfortable, and this kind of love is unbearable.

When you have this behavior, you are already dominated by desires, and the other party is getting farther and farther away from you.

2. Emotional expressionIn reality, we may also be the one who is abandoned by love.

Just because we don't know how to express our emotions, we often don't know how to do it well. So, when others show us kindness, we naturally accept it, but we forget to reciprocate. Such a cycle will only discourage the other person and feel that you are a stone without heat, so he will eventually choose to leave you.

3. Reshape self-worth

But in fact, I don't know how to express it without feeling. He can't find what he wants in you, so he will choose to leave you. If you don't love, how to recover?

If you want to save another person, you should first know what makes him feel that you have lost your value. Too bad-tempered, with different interests, or too sensitive to mess with him? These are the problems between you and what prompted him to leave you.

Find out these problems, and then, it's your own, and correct them as much as you can. If a man can fall in love with you for the first time, he can also fall in love with you a second time. The premise is that the second time you know how to hide your shortcomings and let him see the better you.

You have to use your sincerity to redeem such a man. The first way: be the woman that men like. You have to change yourself according to the other person's requirements. The second way: be brave enough to communicate with such a man. Slowly build a relationship with such a man.

You can chat with him every day, buy him things, accompany him when he is sad, help him solve problems when he encounters them, and show him your heart, so that you can move him.

Personally, I think that only by improving yourself, making yourself better and better, becoming more and more excellent, enriching yourself, letting him see your changes, and letting him be attracted to you, so that you can redeem him, which is a very good way.

You can move each other, you should be a good wife and mother in life, you can also meet each other's requirements in life, you can buy gifts for each other, and you can also give each other a sense of ceremony.

There is a certain chance of success in redeeming a person who doesn't love you, but it can't be 100% successful, if you still love him and like him, you can try to save the socks ruler branch, at that time may not be 100% successful, of course, as long as we don't regret it.

I don't love you, redeem. First of all, you have to know why he doesn't love because he has someone he likes or because he rejected you for other reasons, so the first step to redeem is that you have to understand what is the reason why he doesn't love you, what causes him to not accept you, once one party chooses to redeem, then this party has to make changes, who wants to redeem who must first tell Min to change, only their own continuous progress and improvement, from the new attraction of his attention only is it possible to save his heart.

Getting back your boyfriend is not an overnight thing, this recovery process takes a certain amount of time, you need to be ready, it may be a month, it may be two months or even three months, the time is a bit long, so you need to be prepared, whether you really love him and like him, if so, then go to redeem it, don't wait until the future regret, I don't know much about the specific method of redemption before in Qiuyang Emotional Station.

Good luck little girl!

The difficulty of this breakup is that there is no core conflict between you, all emotions come from the friction in daily life, and the accumulation of dissatisfaction with you, but the side of the nerve has not noticed it for a long time.

For example, you have a quarrel, and he patiently apologizes to you, and you think that the matter is over, but you don't expect him to be extremely unhappy in his heart, and thinks that you are simply unreasonable.

For example, you've argued many times about a thing, and he has expressed his dissatisfaction, but you think it's a trivial matter, so you don't take it to heart, but have you thought about it? If he really doesn't think it's important, can he remind you repeatedly?

These problems, alone, do not seem to be the reason for the breakup, nor can they be put on the surface to fight with you about who is right and who is wrong, but the long-term accumulation is enough to make him feel that the contribution between you is unequal, he gives you emotional value, but you do not bring him the same feeling of dependence, so the core of this disappointment is: since you don't love me so much, why should I love you unconditionally?

So he began to say frequently: "I've been busy lately", "I'm in a bad mood", "Don't bother me"...He slowly lost his interest in getting along with you, and even began to make a lot of new plans, career, life, figure, etc., the only thing in common is that there is no you in these plans.

Hello, the loss of your beloved is indeed painful, but you have to think clearly, a man who doesn't love you anymore is worth it for you to recover? If he doesn't love you at all, does it make sense for you to redeem him? You must think clearly before making a decision, because you love him, and it is a painful thing if he doesn't love you.

If he still has feelings for you, it's okay for you to redeem it. Saving love sounds very complicated, and there are so many different ways to do it, so when to do it? Why?

What can I do if I do that?

In fact, the process of recovering love is to like someone who no longer likes him, and then let him fall in love with him again.

He, why should he be separated from you?

Although there are many ways to save love, no matter what method you need to use to save love, the first thing you need to do is to know why you are separated and why he doesn't like you anymore.

When breaking up, he may say to you, "I'm sorry, our personalities are really not suitable for being together, let's separate", "I don't have feelings for you anymore, let's break up", and other similar words, but in fact, these are just excuses, not real reasons for breaking up.

In fact, all the reasons come down to only one reason, which is the lack of attractiveness.

Why doesn't he like you anymore? It's a very simple truth, at the beginning of the relationship, you are still in love, and your attraction to him is great, so even if you do some willful behavior, he can still tolerate you if you are unreasonable, and he will be cool to you, but in the long run, you are still the same, no improvement or change, when your attraction is no longer enough for him to rationalize the behavior of continuing to be with you, he will choose to separate from you.

I don't like you just because you're not good enough.

He doesn't like you anymore, just because you're not good enough, and the dust doesn't appeal to him enough, so all you have to do is attract him again, instead of telling him, "I'll change, please don't leave me," and then keep begging him to get back together with you.

There is a saying that "a better self can usher in a better love".

Therefore, if you want him to fall in love with you again, you must find a way to improve your self-construction, correct his shortcomings that he doesn't like you, make yourself better, and achieve a second attraction to him.

If you want to achieve secondary attraction, you need to completely change yourself from the inside out, improve your appearance construction, and internal cultivation.

Winning back a person who doesn't like you requires more patience and thought than pursuing a person, and using the right way to accompany you at the right time will make your way back to love smoother.

To win back a boy who doesn't love girls, you have to think calmly, think about it with a rough face, and think about why you disappoint the boy.

Be willing to change yourself, be caring, gentle and considerate and empathetic, patient and tolerant, respect the boy's way of life, and take into account his feelings and dislikes.

The relationship broke up, the boy didn't love the girl, it was the boy who had saved enough disappointments, and his heart gradually became cold. Too much disappointment has accumulated, and thus despair.

Girls only have the chain to turn the boy's disappointment into hope, and the boy's most effective communication, sit down calmly, communicate face-to-face, express their own views, ideas and attitudes, empathy, stand in the boy's perspective to see the problem, analyze the problem, so as to find their own reasons. It is possible to close Sun and save the boy's heart.

Since a person has never loved himself, how can it be called redemption? I guess I want the other person to fall in love with me.

Then cater to his tastes and become the type of girl he likes, so that he slowly cultivates his feelings, and maybe the other party will fall in love with him.

However, if you don't do it, you will be very wronged by your brother.

Change your appearance, improve yourself, make the other party feel refreshed, if you can't change to a man, there are so many men

If a man doesn't love you, there's no need to redeem it, it's better to find someone who really loves you.

Hello! There is no need to keep a man who doesn't love you, the relationship between two people is not simply redeemed but by heart.

A man who doesn't love you clearly, what are you doing to redeem him, Shixun has redeemed it, are you willing to go on like this for the rest of your life in a marriage without love? Let it go, you'll find the better of searching earlier.

A man who doesn't love you anymore won't give you happiness even if he is barely together, so it's a matter of giving up to pay back the silver, don't get entangled, find someone who truly loves you to be happy.

It is said that the man who doesn't love you is a slippery person, why do you want to break the year to save it, and block yourself by your side?

I don't quite understand the logic.

Of course, the most effective way to win back a man you don't love is to turn him into a man who loves you.

Since the other party doesn't love you, I don't know why you have to redeem it! Isn't that a strange idea?

First, learn to show weakness.

As a woman, you must learn to show weakness appropriately. Although more and more strong women appear and become a stronger party in the relationship, in fact, men often have a macho mentality with pants, and they will be strong for women who are too strong, and it is easy to empathize with gentle and weak women.

In the early stage of the conflict between the two, if Xiao Su dealt with it strongly, it would lead to the intensification of the problem. At this time, her boyfriend has already developed a certain psychological distance from her, and being strong will only push him further.

Properly showing your weakness will make your boyfriend sympathetic, easy to recall the warm moments when you were together, and the defense line of the soul is easy to overcome. Therefore, it is necessary to seize the opportunity and be good at using the sympathy generated by men to achieve the effect of quickly picking up dates and renting close to the other party's heart.

Second, make good use of the pure contact effect.

In interpersonal relationships, we can easily find such a phenomenon, the more times a person or something appears around us, the more we are more likely to have a liking emotion for it, which is the pure contact effect.

This is also the reason why we are in love, both parties need to meet often, eat and chat together, the more times they appear, the more they love each other, the more stable they are.

Therefore, when her boyfriend's heart is a little softer, Xiao Su can choose the right time, and take the initiative to ask her boyfriend out for dinner and watch a movie when she has nothing to do, which can not only exchange feelings, but also make it easier to warm up the feelings that have just melted the ice, and at the same time, this pure contact is easier to generate new likes, and the effect will be twice the result with half the effort.

Finally, love also needs to be cooled.

In fact, we all know that there is a limit to everything, and even if you need to touch the stool more often, you can't be with us 24 hours a day, and all your free time is occupied.

If you are in a hurry to rush forward, it will make people feel offended, and feel that the other party is in a hurry and not calm enough, which will have the opposite effect. The ancients said that "if you are too late, you will be able to complete it if you are slow".

In addition, the man who does not love you begins to warm up his feelings for you, and at this time the two are prone to make impulsive choices, which leads to more unstable factors in love.

Therefore, a well-timed cooldown is necessary, whether it is in the judgment of the number of dates or when making decisions together, give yourself and the other party some time to think about it, and the results will be more accurate after careful consideration.