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Drink a small amount of hot water to moisten your throat before going to bed, and sleep not on your back, but on your side, and then the lower edge of the pillow should not exceed the vertical side of the jaw, which can effectively inhibit sleeping snoring. Also*** have enough sleep every day (napping is especially important), work and study and entertainment, no matter how busy you are, don't make yourself too tired, you must know how to relax properly to avoid dreaming and talking in your dreams.
Also, don't change the dormitory. If you change that person, you will be more proud, you will think that you are afraid of him, and it will be awkward to meet in the future, and even you will be more presumptuous and say frivolous things. Encountering this situation is a kind of helplessness for anyone, you have to change as much as possible (you may as well try according to the above explanation) It seems that you are an introvert and afraid of causing trouble, in fact, you don't have to be afraid of him, the more Emma people roar loudly, the more fragile the heart is, and he doesn't dare to do anything to you.
If he dares to do it, don't be tied up with him, which will boost his prestige of bullying you.
You say that his popularity is better than yours, but he is not. People like him are irritable, hands-on, and have little energy. What kind of people make what kind of friends, things like each other are like-minded, and they shirk each other's responsibilities when something really happens.
But then again, it's also an opportunity to hone your social skills, and you have to change your introverted personality. Under the same roof, if you can get along well, you can live better. It's okay to talk to the other two people in the dormitory more, pull the relationship, invite classmates to dinner, make an appointment to go out shopping and chat, at least there are a few people on your side to help you when something happens.
Next time you clean up, remember to clean the whole bedroom to make a good impression and don't be too troublesome. If you make a good impression, people will be embarrassed to say that you deliberately didn't tell them about the cancellation of the morning exercise.
Don't change the dormitory, the status quo has not changed, even if you change to another dormitory, you will be ostracized.
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The most important thing in life is to be happy when you are big and the friends you make are definitely not comparable to the one before It's not so easy to make friends The so-called long-term seeing people's hearts and confidants is even more difficult to find In fact, you don't need to care about this kind of thing University is a small society Everyone has it It's not good to be stiff Just live your own good will always adapt The most important thing is to look open and look down It's best to turn around and meet new friends.
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It doesn't matter, there will be several such people around everyone. It is advisable not to change the dormitory, and it is best to have a good talk with him to see where the conflict between you arises. If it's his personal reason, don't worry about him, if there is really any misunderstanding between you, try your best to adjust.
Be tolerant, and it's better to have one more friend than one more enemy.
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I don't think you should change the dormitory, because if you do, it will still affect others, unless you fix this bad habit of yourself. Sleeping as much as possible is a reminder to yourself.
Because of your personality, you don't have a good relationship with the people in the dormitory. You should try to communicate with the people in the dormitory, otherwise you will not be happy in the dormitory for so long, and you will have no memories of this school.
Sometimes it's better to be bold!
I hope you will have a good life and communicate more with your classmates.
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It makes me feel bad to see you so much. I remembered my previous class life from junior high school to high school. Since I was a child, I was a partial student, I preferred liberal arts, I was good at writing, and I won awards.
This is the kind of self that when I was awarded by some of the girls in the class, I scolded me, and the eighth woman won the award again, true or false! In fact, it is false to say that it is not uncomfortable, a girl's mind is not so strong. But I gritted my teeth and endured it.
In fact, in this world, unfair and tragic things happen every day, but it can't stop our kind hearts from continuing to live. If you change dorms because of this, can you guarantee that something similar will not happen after you change dormitories? If you can't even handle these interpersonal relationships, then what will you do when you come out of society?
It is recommended that you take the initiative to have a good relationship, take the initiative to reconcile with that roommate, and do your best to influence the other party. Sometimes taking a step back and forbearance does not mean that you are cowardly, but letting people know that this is your tutoring and literacy. For the sake of avoiding and changing dormitories, may I ask, is he worth the trouble you have to go to such trouble?
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It's not uncommon to have a bad relationship with someone, so there's no need to take it too seriously. Like you in junior high school, I was very introverted, and I was often alone, and I didn't have a good relationship with a roommate for a while. He snores when he sleeps at night, and I grind my teeth when I sleep at night.
One day my roommate said that he snored, and he couldn't report me for grinding his teeth, but we didn't hold anything in our hearts like you, but said it in front of all our roommates, and then we all started to find ways to slowly start correcting ourselves from sleeping. I think you can tell him what is in front of all his roommates, and I believe he doesn't want to have a cold war with you all the time. Otherwise, you can also ask him directly on QQ, without face-to-face, why he is so prejudiced against himself.
If that's all he does, leave him alone, but I still advise you not to be too introverted.
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Yes, you can change it. Anyway, it's already the end of the semester, and you can ask your parents to report it to the counselor or school related personnel during the winter vacation, but I don't know what the school will arrange, and if it goes well, it can be done at the beginning of the school year.
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If possible, go outside and rent a house. At the same time, I think you both have a responsibility for your relationship, and you should find the reason in yourself and try to change your personality. I wish you a happy day.
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Hehe, I will only express helplessness, renting a house is the best.
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Take your time with the problem of sleeping! It's better to change to a classmate who can accept you, can't you sleep with your wife when you get married in the future, or slowly improve your dormitory relationship, you can't be too introverted, it's not okay to go to society, let alone a man sweating.
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Buddy, it's all men who can't communicate, it's good to say it, things gather like things, people are grouped, how others are someone else's, just be yourself, living together is fate, there is nothing that can't be said between friends, integrate into the dormitory, you have to accept everyone's different personalities, come on, the college dormitory is all buddies, iron buddies, nothing to drink, chat, nothing.
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The crux of the matter is not the personality of the two of you. At the same time, you have to think carefully about whether the habits he proposed are true, and the bad ones are to change, after all, you have to try to adapt to this society!!
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I think you can solve this problem by having a meal together and having a good chat...
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It's inevitable that there will be friction between this roommate, after all, you are both from different places.
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Turn around decisively, this person can't deal with it.
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Can you stay in this dormitory?
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Turn, can this place still be lived?
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I think because your roommate has made public about your bad feelings with other roommates, and he has made public that you have bad things about them, if the other roommates don't mind, but you have a conflict with her, then you and him should be treated as if they don't know each other, and you can continue to live in your dormitory, but if your other roommates except you reject you and don't understand you, then I think in this case, you have to change the dormitory, if you are the only one who is prejudiced against him, and other things are not prejudiced against him, Then I think it's you and your roommates don't agree with each other, then it's best to change the dormitory again and start a new life, and I listened to your statement, I feel that his personality is not straightforward, and his personality is straightforward, and it can't be used as an excuse for direct verbal attack, I think his words and three views are very problematic, and his tutor is also problematic, because he shouldn't disclose other people's privacy, and pry his parents to scold his former best friend, don't stay with this kind of person, Not only can it affect your mood, but it will also affect your quality of life.
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1. Indicate that you want to change your bedroom.
2. Explain the reason.
3. Show that you will cherish this friendship.
2. Speech. Hello roommates, I need to change dorms for personal reasons, and I will miss you very much.
First of all, my personal time is a little different from everyone else, and our classes and assignments are different after the class, and I am worried that it will disturb your rest. In addition, there will be differences in homework after our liberal arts and science majors, and I also felt that I could not help you in your studies, so I came up with the idea of changing dormitories.
I have already communicated with the teacher, I will change to a girl in the same class as you, I hope you can get along well with your new roommates, I will miss you and cherish my friendship with you!
Basic principles for getting along with roommates:
1. Be polite and enthusiastic.
Take the initiative to greet classmates warmly, a positive attitude helps to make friends, behave generously with classmates, and at the same time should take into account each other's interests, hobbies and customs, no foul language in conversation, pay attention to civilized language, participate in more group activities in spare time and holidays, and strengthen mutual communication with classmates.
2. Care for each other and help each other.
In this case, being able to get the sincere care and help of classmates is likely to be the starting point for the establishment of a good relationship between good classmates and good friends.
3. Be humble, honest and trustworthy.
Modesty is a virtue, no matter how capable a person is, don't be arrogant, we come from different places, life backgrounds are not the same, experiences are different, everyone has something worth learning, so we should learn from each other, improve together, be honest in our interactions with each other, abide by our promises, be trustworthy, and don't talk big, so as to win true friendship.
4. Be tolerant and learn to be considerate.
We come from different places, there are differences in interests, hobbies, personalities, temperaments, living habits, cultural accomplishments, etc., and classmates get along day and night, sometimes look at the problem from different angles, the level of thought is different, there will be some behavioral friction and psychological conflicts, which requires us to be humble to each other, strict with ourselves, lenient with others, deal with problems, seek common ground while reserving differences, so that there is a fundamental guarantee for friendly coexistence.
If you can, please give it a thumbs up! Thank you, dear!
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You should not change it, you can first try to ease the conflict and find a way to get along together.
1.Trick 1: Change Yourself When a problem or conflict arises, you stop trying to change others. It's about changing your behavior, demands and expectations, and the other person will become what you want them to be because of your change.
2.The second trick: take the initiative to communicate When communicating, first show that you are friendly and not antagonistic, and then express objective facts and your feelings.
3.The third move: transfer the battlefield If many efforts are ineffective, then transfer your own battlefield
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If one party does not want to resolve the conflict and does not even have basic communication, it is advisable to change it early. Under normal circumstances, a dormitory is a class, and if it is a small conflict, there is no need. It will give the rest of the class the feeling of seeing a joke, not to say that you want to die to save face.
But many girls will have this feeling, that is, superficial sisters. Sometimes there is still work to be done in the adult world. The second is that it is still based on small contradictions, after all, this is the beginning of college and life.
If this little interpersonal problem can force you to change bedrooms, you need to know that in the future, interpersonal relationships in society will be more complicated. You can't just have a conflict with someone and think, "I'll just leave this person." "In fact, it did not solve the problem at the root.
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You can put more time on studying and researching, in fact, in a situation like this, you don't need to quarrel with her, talking is not in the same channel, and the friendship will not be maintained forever, she may be because of the loss but don't want to admit that it triggered this series of things, because you still have to study, such a dormitory relationship will be a little awkward, which will affect your mood, but after all, most of the time you study is also in the library, if you want to stay in this relationship, After a long time, your relationship will slowly return to the original track, but this is also the best situation, but the interpersonal relationship must also be maintained, after all, you don't know if she will continue to say anything after changing the dormitory, and the words behind her back will always be the most deadly, I hope it will help you.
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Depending on the situation, if the contradiction is not big, after the run-in of time, the contradiction will still disappear, and the relationship between the two people can still be reconciled, after all, there is no deep hatred; If it's really hard to get along with, then you'll have to change dormitories.
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If I have a conflict with my roommate, I think I should change the dormitory, otherwise it will be very uncomfortable to see him every day.
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