Why am I often overlooked? Why are some people always overlooked?

So it seems that you are the same to everyone, bland. There are no deep friends. You need to make good friends and don't go it alone so that you don't feel neglected.

Because you don't value others.

It can be seen that you are a very careful or sensitive boy (girl), of course, the right relationship with classmates is helpful for study and life.

First of all, you should pay attention to whether your own habits and ways of doing things are quite different from those of your classmates. This does not mean that you have to give up some of your own principles and blindly please other students. For example:

Buying food and drinking for other classmates is beyond the behavior of caring for each other among ordinary students.

Second, there are things that can be done and things that cannot be done. For example, if you are asked to isolate, attack, or snub other classmates, you don't.

It should be done. Grasp a basic principle: integrity, kindness, helpfulness, and diligence. Let the rest be his, and there will be what should be. What you don't have is not yours, and you can't force it.

I wonder if I can relieve some of the troubles you grew up with?

You yourself will say the reason, hehe, you won't talk too much about yourself, then everyone will think that you still have secrets, if you don't open yourself, then everyone is not willing to tell you all his things, isn't it, this is mutual, it is recommended that you try to open yourself, what are your worries and troubles and want to talk to everyone so that they will feel that you believe in them very much, they are very worthy of your trust, so that it will be good slowly,

Xiaohong and Xiaobai entered a company at the same time, the two are in the same position, whether in terms of ability or education, Xiaohong is slightly better, sincere and friendly, Xiaobai's ability is slightly inferior, and the relationship with colleagues is also average. But what is very strange is that if the company has any important tasks, it will consider Xiaobai first, and Xiaobai will not be willing or complete the things that cannot be handed over to Xiaohong.

Later, in the gossip of colleagues, I learned that Xiaobai was a relative of a certain leader, and now everyone understood, Xiaohong also understood, and he also thought about resigning, but after all, this company came in after layers of screening, and it was one of the top companies in the industry, so it was not worth it to run away in anger.

As a result, Xiaohong put all her extra energy on studying, learning various skills, and practicing English to the point where she can communicate fluently with foreigners. Once in the company's meeting, for a problem within the company, has been difficult to solve, the company's middle-level leaders have been denied by the big leaders, when the situation is a bit deadlocked, Xiaohong stood up, he not only analyzed the problem very thoroughly, but also listed the solutions in an orderly manner, so that the big leaders' eyes lit up. In addition, Xiaohong's English is very good, and Xiaohong's career development since then can be described as a fish in water and smooth sailing.

Xiaohong said that in the year of being ignored, he carefully studied the company's various problems, and he thoughtfully considered how to solve these problems, and at that time he didn't know what the use of doing these things was, but he felt that time could not be wasted, even if he did not do it in this company in the future, other companies would have similar problems, and it was not a waste of time to study these by himself. Sometimes things that seem unfair, who knows what kind of fruit? Seon lost his horse, but he didn't know if it was a blessing.

In fact, the unfairness of the workplace is not terrible, what is terrible is our mentality, if we encounter some unfair situations, we complain and give up on ourselves, that is the most terrible. Unfairness in the workplace is not a purely bad thing, it is these good and unfair limbs that will give us a reason to continue to struggle, and we will make more efforts to seek new development opportunities in the unfairness.

What is neglect? It means: not paying attention, not paying attention.

In my opinion, the reason why some people are easily ignored is because you are worthless to others, there is no benefit for others, and instead of wasting time on this person who has no interests, it is better to use a bright smile and words of praise to meet the people who are useful to you. Maybe everyone has been neglected sometimes, and the neglected person is not even a green leaf that sets off the red flower, but can only be said to be a speck of dust in the air.

There are many specific reasons for being overlooked. Some are because of your family (your family members are not useful to them), some are because of your ability (including knowledge ability, work ability, friendship ability, speech ability, etc.), some are because of your appearance (it may be that your appearance is generally not attractive to others, or it may be that you are very beautiful and cause others to be jealous) and so on.

I have been ignored countless times since I was a child, because I am not good at words and have a slightly introverted personality, so I feel deeply about the feeling of being ignored. In this world, sometimes only your parents will not ignore you most of the time, and other people, no matter how close they are, are unreliable. If there is a conflict of interest or unprofitable, they will immediately leave, and they will not even leave you a chance to complain.

Gather because of profit, disperse after profit, this sentence does make sense. This benefit can be the common interest of you and others, or it can be your interest to others or the benefit of others to you. This is a society of human feelings, and at the same time, it is also a society of interests.

Without interest, any human relationship will be diluted. No one will ever be unconditionally good to you, and when the benefits you generate are attractive enough, others will naturally not ignore you.

All in all, if you don't want to be treated like dust and dirt by others forever; If you don't want to sit alone forever; If you don't want to see the compassionate eyes of others towards you; If you don't want to be dimmed in someone else's brilliance all the time; If you don't want to change your personality to meet this world you don't like, then you have to work hard.

Money, power, and power are things that people chase all their lives. If you choose one of the three, you will have a place for one to settle down, and someone else will naturally leave a place for you. Power and power are far away for me, and what I am most closely connected with and most desperately need is money.

I need money to live the life I want, I need money so that my parents can enjoy the next life, I need money in exchange for the social status I want. Money needs to be earned, making money requires a craft, a kind of ability, and the acquisition of skills and abilities requires continuous learning and practice, and I am learning now.

Just because you are "usually low-key and rarely speak", this is your label: "indifferent" who has a relationship with you, everyone is afraid of rejection, you are the kind of person who makes others feel that they will be rejected.

Look at you, you won't react when others ignore you intentionally or unintentionally, just sulk in your heart, what's the use, this will only make you have more negative emotions and send a stronger "danger do not approach" message, and others can not contact you without contact!

First of all, have you shown enthusiasm and a desire to participate? Enthusiasm does not mean that you mix with what people say, but pay a little attention to it, and look at others kindly from time to time, so that under normal circumstances, people will smile and look at you when they chat, and you will insert a sentence or two in due course, if you really don't want to say it, you should also hold kindness, don't see it like a dead fish and don't react.

Secondly, in that case, you can express it if you are missing, you can jokingly say: Okay, is there my share... Something like that, what are you afraid of, you are colleagues who get along day and night, so you won't lose your dignity!

You have to remember that others are not simply utilitarian to pull relationships with others, people need emotional connection between people, what attitude you use towards others, what attitude you have towards others, and if you want others to walk into you, you have to let down your guard first. Only when you relax your heart can you gain friendship and people will be happier!

Eh, you're a girl, hehe, look at your question, I'm curious, why do others target you?And if you don't speak, others will ignore you Originally, I was wondering if you were an introvert, but it didn't look like it. It should belong to people who are introverts in real life and extroverts on the Internet.

So, in reality, you should belong to the people who are not good at expressing themselves, so I guess that many times when you speak, you are not accurate enough. So people are always noticing you, and you find out about it, and you stop talking, and people don't pay much attention to you

Actually, I think, first of all, you are too inferior, because you yourself feel that you are easy to bully, so you will feel that others want to bully you. However, you really want to have a lot of friends to play with, and you want to be noticed, but you don't know what to do, so you just think about it and don't know what to do. Or do you have someone you like, and you want to be noticed by someone you like, but you are ignored?

A girl's charm does not necessarily come from appearance, personality is also very important, if you are not good at expressing it, you will not express it, prove your strength from other aspects, you must have excellent places yourself, but you didn't find it yourself. I used to be like you, but I didn't like to talk to people, and it turned out that a lot of people noticed me because I didn't like to talk, and they thought I was mysterious. So I found that if you don't speak, you have to have connotation, and if you have connotation, it's easier to attract others.

First of all, from the mentality, you have to be strong, kindness is also a charm. When others think you are a very good person, they will also like you very much.

If you develop in the way of "people are inferior and invincible", they will definitely not ignore you.

This is called the difference between being rich and handsome and being short and poor!!At first glance, it's short and poor.,At least the last two.。。。 Ha ha.

Maybe it's because you're a little indifferent, you'll be mistaken for being unsociable and high-minded, and I'm in the same situation, but I'm not targeted, I want to talk to my classmates but I don't know what to say, and I'm completely ignored. I think the most important thing is to let your classmates notice you, give full play to your eloquence, if you are not good at this, you have to make them feel it, you don't say that they don't know, a little advice, I don't know if it will work.