My dad is mentally ill, my mom can t speak, and I m still looking for my dad what should I do

Updated on society 2024-03-13
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Mei Mei I said you listen to it, what are you doing on leave now, I have to do things calmly now, I will not abandon the promise of love, nor will I go to any other woman, I believe you, you have been handing me over for the past few days, I have recorded all the records, the example of the patient being discharged from the hospital to drink Coke, the example of breaking the foot, why don't I often want us to be together, the story of choosing one of the two perfume books, Mei Mei I now want to make the store all from the supply process, the surrounding market planning to understand clearly, after the land money is built, the shopping malls around the community must be clear, these two years are the most difficult, It's hard to work harder to do a good job, and you and my family, we don't want my sister to be greedy, I've told her many times, and even when I put some songs, she posted and posted in my message, Meimei, do you want me to take you to see your father-in-law, mother-in-law? My dad is ninety-two years old, my mother is eighty years old, my parents are reorganized into our current family, the same father and mother, our three brothers and sisters, there is a brother with the same mother outside, there is a sister with the same father, you say that the story of the gang I know, don't think so much, my brother and sister-in-law mean to say that the teacher is still living in the Holy Garden for the past three years, we will do a good job in the store, let my brother have more time to write, I don't want to make the family things ,,, house those are all trivial, parents and my brother two, three months back to live for a week with them, if you want to see in July, I will take you back,

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Answer: First of all, it depends on all aspects of the father's situation, if the parents are there, to do a good job of mutual communication between husband and wife, "husband and wife are the same forest birds, disaster is coming, each flying" this sentence refers to the mutual wife has no true love for people, in many places the concept of hardship is very serious, finally have a son, and it is mental illness, resulting in the man's spirit is hit or life pressure becomes greater, and then will lose confidence in life, ignore the family, borrow alcohol all day to eliminate sorrow and sorrow, encounter problems first of all, add more communication with it, Establish confidence for him, face it together, men also need a sense of security, looking for money outside, the wife should care more about the man's heart, of course, as a man, to play the pillar of the family, mentally ill children, more need more care, parental love, can make children better! Men, it's a responsibility!

    Do you have your mom by your side? Or other loved ones.

    It is the father's responsibility to take care of his son and provide for his living expenses, and if his son is still a minor, especially if he suffers from mental illness, he is derelict in his duty not to take care of him, and if the situation is serious, he should be prosecuted.

    But no one wants to see such a situation, which can only make the situation worse and worse, if there are relatives and friends in the family, who can convince the father, it is better to reason with him, let him wake up, and take the responsibility for the child.

    In this case, there is usually a premise that the father's living conditions are not good, and of course, there are many people who really have no conscience. Then if the conditions are not good, then you should apply for help from the local ** department, and if you have no conscience, then use legal means to enforce constraints. In the end, it is true that it is very laborious to manage a mentally ill person for a long time, and if there is a relevant shelter, then it is actually best to place such a child.

    You can go to court to sue your father, who has abandoned his mentally ill son, and if the circumstances are aggravated, he should be convicted of abandonment.

    In accordance with Article 261 of the Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China:

    Crime of abandonment] Where a person who is old, young, sick, or otherwise incapable of independent living has an obligation to support but refuses to support, and the circumstances are heinous, a sentence of up to five years imprisonment, short-term detention, or controlled release is to be given.

    1. The crime of abandonment refers to the refusal to support an old, young, sick (including mentally ill) or other person who is unable to live independently, and the circumstances are heinous.

    2. The standard for filing a case for the crime of abandonment is "heinous circumstances", which mainly refers to serious consequences such as serious injury or death of the victim caused by abandonment; Repeated abandonment; or the means of abandonment, the circumstances are particularly heinous, and so on.

    3. The crime of abandonment is a private prosecution case, and it is necessary to collect evidence by oneself and directly prove that the circumstances are heinous before going to the people's court at the place of household registration to initiate criminal proceedings.

    Hello, first of all, I would like to express my sympathy for your plight. Secondly, if you really can't afford to feed, it is recommended to find relevant departments, charities, communities, etc. to solve the problem, you can find a professional lawyer to consult about specific matters, I hope it can help you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you find out that your grandpa has a mental illness but is being ignored or ignored by your mom and dad, here are a few things you can consider:

    1.You can talk to your mom and dad about their specific attitudes and thoughts about the situation and help them understand your grandpa's condition and needs.

    2.You can seek more specific help and support from other family members or relatives and friends, including sending your grandfather to a medical professional for acceptance** and assistance.

    3.Consider reaching out to your local department, community-based organization, or relevant nonprofit to find out if mental illness-related services and supports are available and how you can get more help through these resources.

    Either way, you need to have in-depth communication and communication with your family members, respect their choices and decisions, and protect yourself according to the situation. At the same time, attention should be paid to the emotional experience and needs of patients with mental illness, and provide them with a harmonious, comfortable and safe living and environment.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    First of all, do ideological work with them, and I don't care what happens to you if you get old. Secondly, report to the local village committee or ** to deal with.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Your grandfather is mentally ill, his children should treat him first**, and should support him, and now your father and his brothers don't care about your grandfather, you should talk to them, and if it doesn't work, help your grandfather go to court and sue them.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't know what your financial situation is? If you can, settle the elderly! Communicate well with your parents and uncles, and if you work together, it is estimated that the problem will be solved. It is better to send the elderly to a nursing home. Just do your best. Bless you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Your father and a few of his brothers are not doing personnel, if you are mentally ill, you will be sent to a psychiatric hospital**, how can you just ignore it, this disease is also troublesome, if you have to have someone to guard at home, you have nothing to do, this kind of thing is the mediation of the village committee, and there is no way to mediate if no one cares about mediation, mainly to rely on consciousness.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    A sad scene, with your grandfather's current situation, he is no longer able to ask his children to fulfill their filial piety, and you can't bear to see your grandfather suffer, and you can't change the status quo by yourself, so you can only sue the court in the name of your grandfather, asking your father and uncles to take on the obligation to support the elderly.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You can ask the community for help and ask them to help you, or you can go to a funding station and ask them to come forward and solve the problem.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Then you can find a legal aid for your grandfather, and let your grandfather's children take care of your grandfather's good care through the law.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Filial piety comes first. If the grandfather has a subsistence allowance, he can be sent to a nursing home. Then go to the court to sue these unfilial descendants.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you have the conditions, go to the court to sue your parents and support the elderly.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Many people in China have this kind of experience, and the best way now is to go to the police station to report the incident.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I understand your feelings too well, stay away from your father, live your own life, if you start a family, don't let him know where you are, don't let him affect your family. If you also have such a mental illness, or are influenced by him, you have to learn to let go and slowly adjust your mentality. Don't think about improving your dad, it's impossible, if the conditions allow, send him some living expenses.

    I wish you happiness.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    My dad was the same, he always said strange things, and every day he said that when I saw him, I would quarrel with him, and I would always cry. He wasn't sad either. I want to study psychology now.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Brother, we all have the same fate, I'm worse than you and tired, accept your fate, my mother is sick and 20w is still gone, my father is neurotic again, and he quarrels with his neighbors every day, to be honest, I want to buy some these days, the pesticide is over myself, and I hope that I will not be a human being in the next life.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Elders are like this, you must know that the generation gap with your parents is very long, you can get angry appropriately and then communicate with him may be better. You can't just let him say it, if you don't resist him, it will become a habit.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Parents can't choose, bear with me.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I have a mentally ill father, he also has pedophilia, stalking other little girls, violating his own family, if it weren't for my cleverness, it would really be. It's over, you know what? So the farther away the better, get to the mental hospital as soon as possible, and tell you not to destroy yourself.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Being caught in a psychiatric hospital is not necessarily mentally ill, and one out of every 20 people in a psychiatric hospital is a normal person. I think you're a psychopath.

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