As a person who has come from the past, how have your views and longings on the nature of love chang

I used to think that the essence of love is giving, but now I know that the essence of love is companionship.

When I was young, I experienced the ups and downs of love, and at that time I always thought that love was giving, there was no need to keep, there was no need to love yourself; Looking back on the year of establishment, now I think that the essence of love is companionship, as long as it is still by your side, this is love.

Work hard to give your love, and happiness will come. This is my former concept of love, when I like someone, I try to be good to him, try to give everything I have, I firmly believe that the other party will be moved by me.

But the facts tell me that this is not right, when you pay for a person, your contribution will only move yourself, and the person who doesn't like you still doesn't like you.

Even if you are covered in bruises, even if you have given everything for this love, your efforts will not be rewarded at all. Although he may not have the luxury of expecting a return, he will still be sad and desperate in his heart, and he will still die of this love.

Inseparable companionship, this is the most essential color of love. In love, no matter how many bittersweet and bittersweet two people have, as long as he doesn't leave, as long as he can hold hands with you to the end of the head, I think this is love.

Vigorous love and a bland life don't need you to choose at all. When I have experienced the wonderfulness of love, when I have experienced the dullness of life, I have found that it is actually a necessary way to go from wonderful to dull.

The person who loves you is always by your side, maybe you don't feel happy, but when he takes your hand and slowly walks towards the white head, looking back, you find that the way you came is love.

Time does not stand still for anyone, and over the years, my view of love has changed, but my vision for the future has never changed. I hope to have a good life with the people I love, and I hope that we can face the hardships of life together.

When the people you love are around, life will always be happy.

Love, to put it bluntly, is money and desire.

There is nothing big about it.

Without love, I'm not from here.

It's still the same as before.

I don't know the nature of love yet, but of course I have.

What does the ideal love look like? Today we're going to talk about it. In fact, feelings are also consumables, so every relationship is worth taking seriously.

In fact, there will be some problems when two people have been for a long time, such as relying on each other's love for themselves to speak without thinking or considering the consequences, but in the end, the result is that they will regret it and their feelings will be consumed. Therefore, communication is really important, leave a certain space for the other party to think about the communication problem, and it is not a shameful thing to bow your head for the other party occasionally, because you will quarrel and get angry if you care, and the more you love each other, the more dependent you will be on each other.

The most commonly mentioned sense of security in a long-distance relationship is actually because you care too much about the other person and grasp it too tightly, and eventually deviate from the original direction, and when you grasp it more and more tightly, it may not be a simple liking or liking, but love. Of course, don't talk about breakup or divorce easily, because you don't know what kind of wound these two words will leave in the other person's heart, and at the same time consume feelings in vain. Really, love is to be able to liberate the other person's urgency, love what the other person loves, and like what the other person likes.

No matter at any time, we can advance and retreat together, share weal and woe, share honor and disgrace, and never abandon each other.

I prefer to understand the freshness between the two as follows: it is to let the love between two people slowly transform into a just right stage of family affection, and then on the basis of family affection, two people do something fresh together, which is a good closed-loop cycle. Rather than what some people understand, without freshness, there are only all kinds of dull and boring, or that the feelings without freshness in some sayings are the grave of love.

So a good relationship, a relationship worth looking forward to, is to cherish the people around you who really care about you. In fact, two people don't really spend a lot of time together, just like life is really short, and the people who accompany you in the end should be people who have experienced a lot of people who still make you excited, not people who live a suitable life. I hope you will always believe in love! Looking forward to love!

Two people can get along with each other, go home and do housework together, face difficulties together, share joys and sorrows, share hardships, watch the sunrise and sunset together, and the sunset together.

The love I imagine is that two people are very compatible, and the relationship between the two people is very good, otherwise they will cook together after work, and they will go out to eat or watch movies together on holidays.

The love I imagine is that I hope that I can marry someone I like very much, and the two of them are very happy together, and the other party can tolerate me.

I'm still cautiously optimistic about marriage and love:

1.Believe in true love. Sincere feelings and love still exist, but they are difficult to find and maintain in modern society. People now have more choices and a greater sense of self than ever before, but true love is still one of life's most precious experiences to discover and cherish.

This makes the marriage more stable and also leaves room for extramarital affairs, and the two need to be balanced in reality.

3.Greater sense of freedom. Modern people are more self-conscious, no longer automatically accept the restrictions of traditional marriage concepts, and pay more attention to personal freedom and development.

4.Life is becoming more stressful. The pressure of life in modern society is increasing, and the pressure of busy work and survival is easy to disintegrate feelings and affect the quality of marriage. But the more the relationship and marriage are maintained in the face of adversity, the more prominent its value will be, which requires the joint efforts of both parties.

5.The mindset needs to be calm. In the modern environment, marriage and relationships need to be faced with a calm mind.

Neither too dx, nor too desperate, maintain positive confidence and open-mindedness. Life has its ups and downs, and relationships also need to go through hardships and then mature, which needs to be experienced and dealt with with with calmly.

So, in general, despite the complexity of the modern social environment, sincere feelings and a stable marriage are still worth pursuing. It requires a more pragmatic attitude, a stronger sense of tolerance, and a more relaxed attitude to explore and face. Under the right conditions, marriage and love remain important ways to achieve happiness and meaning in life, and this will not change.

The key is to have a correct understanding and reasonable expectations of relationships and marriages.

My view on love is that we need to understand each other, otherwise it is easy to have conflicts.

A person is very independent and very self-motivated, which has a lot to do with her childhood environment. Many times, the pressure of her parents and friends around her can infiltrate and oppress her. So I guess the girl you're describing has a feeling of wanting to get, and you want to get that feeling through your own efforts.

If that feeling is a sense of accomplishment, then I think you have to help her plan and work on it with her. If this feeling is a sense of security, then I guess you should be nice to be there for her and not stress her. If that feeling is superior, then I think you have to think about whether you want to continue pursuing her.

I feel that enviable love is not two people and temperaments, never quarrels, and opinions are the same on all issues. On the contrary, the two people have some minor troubles and have different opinions on some issues. There will be some friction and quarrels, but this quarrel will cause both sides to think.

I know the most in my life. All others see is what you want to show them about your life. So you see two people with peace, but behind this peace I don't know if there was a quarrel or a fight.

The longing for love is actually sometimes illusory, the most important thing is to be pragmatic, in real life, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea are the most important.

As a person who has come over, although love is beautiful, if you want to preserve it for a long time, you still need to have a material foundation.

My vision of love is that no matter how far I go, I will think of her, and I want to share it with her in time, no matter how good or bad.

I used to think that it doesn't matter if you don't have money, two people can work together, and life can also be beautiful, but now I feel that this kind of thinking is simply stupid, and I can't eat enough food, how can I have the strength to talk about love.

As time goes by, love will definitely become more and more dull, no matter who it is.

Now I think it's better to be realistic, love exists in the call. Not around.

It's just that love doesn't come so easily, and fate doesn't come just as it comes, cherish it.

So in general, this kind of love is intertwined with reality and the future, there is an incomplete compromise effort on reality, and there is a vision of never giving up on the future, this is the love of young people, this is normal love, if you feel that the future can not come, then you have no confidence in the relationship between two people, and you have no confidence in your other halfIf you don't face the reality, then you may really not be able to reach the future, because the reality does have a lot of difficulties, and it takes two people to work together to overcome them.

In this way, it is a beautiful vision for the future, and you can achieve it through hard work to achieve your own goals.

There will be different characteristics between the two, but there will also be places of intersection, this kind of love is very beautiful, he does not lose the joy of longing, but also the troubles in reality, it is a good way of love.

This kind of love should be very beautiful, because romance can also be felt in real life.

I don't know what you want to do, but for me, life is free enough, happy for yourself, and happy for the people around you. Therefore, the vision of life is nothing more than being able to go along with your heart, which does not require you to be successful, rich, or great, just to satisfy your ambitions.

In my opinion, the so-called love is just a kind of consciousness of yourself, you have that cognition, you have that preparation, and then you find that you are excited about someone at a certain time ...... a certain day

When the other half of the love becomes a partner, the expectations will slowly change without realizing it. At this time, I want him to inadvertently say that he loves you and do something that moves you......Make yourself feel that you won't change because you are married