After a breakup, what should I do with my boyfriend s letters and previous gifts?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-13
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Maybe many people will burn it, but if it were me, I would keep everything he has, including gifts, because although I broke up with him now, I also had all this before, so why erase such a beautiful thing? Time can dilute everything, what you want to forget must always be forgotten, and what you won't forget will never be forgotten, you burn it all, so what? It's just a superficial way to get rid of someone, but there will always be that person in your heart, so why not keep this good memory?

    When you take it out and look at it when you are old, can you still make yourself smile?

    I once read a sentence:"Don't be sad that you've lost, but rejoice in what you once had".Love is a must experience in your life, so let it be a memory.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Keep it as a souvenir.

    Otherwise, you will regret it later.

    If you are worried that you will be sad, put it out of your sight.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Keep it valuable, put it if it's not valuable, and have it is the most beautiful.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Let it go up in smoke, the important thing is to make yourself happy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's all yours, keep it.

    There's no need to destroy your own things without others.

    Imagine that if he gives you a house, will you burn it down after the breakup? At most, it was sold.

    Keep it if you can, or sell it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Keep it was also a memory of youth.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The psychology of children, this kind of man must be a very selfish person, after breaking up, he feels that the other party is worthless, so he wants to get back the money spent on the other party, in this way to reduce his losses.

    Such men feel really inauthentic, they feel that they have not received affection, or they have not continued with the other party, and they have to claim back their so-called investment.

    First of all, the boy spent money for the girl for love at that time, and even said that he spent money for his own woman, but now she is no longer his own woman, so isn't this money in vain.

    Different boys will have different practices, and some boys may choose to get the money back, especially some valuable items, which must be returned to me, and this part of the boys belongs to the kind of boys who are more concerned about things.

    I can't say that boys with this kind of character are not good, but they will leave a not very friendly impression on girls, I think it is a couple who are coincidentally blind, or they should leave a good memory for each other, whether they come together or not, after all, there have been good memories, and they have the right to pay for their mistakes.

    At the stage of love, many boys will send some valuables, and I have to say that these items should still be tactfully returned, after all, this is not only a gift, but also a bet.

    Use this kind of valuable item to express your determination to love, but since you are not together in the end, you have to return the gift, at this time, there is another problem, that is, some girls who love money may not be willing to return this valuable gift.

    There are no laws and regulations at present, and you can only look at the negotiation between the two sides, if you really don't give it, you can only persuade yourself to open your eyes in the future.

    Different people have different choices, I hope our choices are from the heart, on the basis of not hurting feelings, the beauty of the past is good, is the memory you cherish each other, although it is said that they have broken up now, but that year and that month are grateful that she is accompanying herself, after all, items and money are outside the body, don't hurt the harmony.

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