My girlfriend used to have a lot of boyfriends

Now we both love each other dearly. It's already talked about getting married", you both love each other deeply, why bother with her past, everyone has her past, haven't you had? Haven't you loved a woman who wasn't her deeply in the past?

Let the past pass, okay? The most important thing is to cherish what you have now, happiness is to be cherished, if you don't cherish it, it will leave you and make you regret it, there is no regret medicine in the world, remember? Don't wait until you've lost it to realize that it doesn't matter, what matters is that she loves you now.

Cherish it! Contentment is always the truth!

If you love her, don't dwell too much on her past. It is actually very precious to be able to truly love someone for a lifetime, since you have chosen and loved, nothing else matters. As long as she is completely yours in the future, it's fine.

Tolerate and care for your love with a tolerant heart, so that she will love you for a lifetime with a grateful heart. 525255273 we can talk about it, in fact, if I were you, I wouldn't want this kind of woman. The brothers downstairs are all right.

I think if she hasn't experienced any setbacks, it shouldn't be like that, you think, how do you know that she hasn't developed with her boyfriend to the point where you are now, but if she told you herself, maybe she really sincerely changed, then don't care, after all, love can contain everything, I hope you can treat your bride as the most beautiful and purest in the world, the most loved, otherwise you really have to think about it, I just hope you don't regret it, you can live your life happily!

I have the same situation, what I can't accept, and what I'm trying to accept, is that she is a person who values feelings very much. She used to hurt her deeply. But she still had the idea of forgiving him.

To be honest, I admire you.

If you can tell from the facts, from your heart, from your performance, and from your inner thoughts that you love each other. Then you accept her!

Bringing up the past again will affect your relationship, since you chose her, you should accept his past, and the past is also painful for her, so don't think about it.

Know how to seal some feelings and experiences, and don't mention them often. A person's growth process is almost all spent in the continuous sealing of feelings and experiences, the past is gone, and only by never forgetting the future, your life will be full of hope.

Faint, the past has become history, just let it pass, why think so much? The only thing that matters is the future Don't you both love each other deeply, if you break up just for the things that have passed, you will live in pain I hope you can walk into the wedding hall happily!

You can't pursue the past, why bother, you love her now, cherish the present.

How to accept it, or whether you can accept it, only you know the answer. No one can help you with this problem.

As a man, you should be able to pick it up and put it down. Figure out what's important to you.

She is only 26 and has a lot of boyfriends, should you be glad that you are the last, or should you be sad that you are the one who cleans up the mess, you can choose by yourself, pick the right one, and your future life will be happy.

It's already in the past, and you can't change it no matter how hard you investigate, why don't you try to face it bravely, if you really can't accept it, why should two people start.

If you really can't accept the old thoughts, it's better to let it go now, so as not to regret it later.

Don't be good or bad, that woman is not principled, and your life will not be happy. Please go through more experience before deciding.

Be careful of being cuckolded after marriage, this kind of woman is easy to be unwilling to be lonely, and it is hard to guarantee that one day you quarrel, she will go to her ex-boyfriend.

You're all young, go with the flow.

I advise you not to have this kind of woman!! It's not clean! Don't you have a shadow in your psyche?

To be honest, I admire you.

Let him pass the past! You love her now, don't you? Who can be infallible in life!

Can you accept that your girlfriend has an ex in her heart?

I think no one can accept this kind of thing, love is selfish, men like to conquer and possess, this is a kind of nature. Every man is the same, only the degree of performance will be different.

The more a man cares about a woman, the more he minds if the woman has had an ex.

Love is selfish, but sometimes love also needs the tolerance of two people, because if she falls in love with you, then it is impossible for her heart to accommodate other people.

Some people will be very shocked when they hear that their girlfriend has had many boyfriends before, so the two quarrel; Although some men reject it in their hearts, they won't say it, they just feel sad in their hearts, and everything is the same as before after being sad, acquiescing and accepting the girl's past.

I have a friend who is extremely possessive, and I can't stand my girlfriend who has had a lot of boyfriends before. I remember that once he had a new girlfriend, and in the process of chatting, he knew that she had had many boyfriends before, and he was very angry in his heart. But this friend still likes her very much, and the two are together.

But whenever the two disagree and quarrel, this friend will talk about her ex-boyfriend. He usually comes to me and tells me that he always thinks about his girlfriend getting along with his previous man. I have also persuaded him many times, but this often hurts his girlfriend and makes him tired, resulting in a lose-lose situation.

Of course, this is only a special case, and only extreme people, extremely possessive people.

Although this society is already very open, I still want to tell you here that if you are a woman, you must take care of yourself, choose the right person, and choose the good; If you are a man and really love her, don't care about her past, everything looks forward, and the future life needs you to create together.

First of all, it needs to be clear that everyone has a past, and emotional history does not represent a person's character and qualities. Therefore, if you are a little concerned about your girlfriend's emotional history, you can first reflect on your emotional state, whether there are emotions of excessive possessiveness and jealousy, and the level of trust in your girlfriend.

If you think your emotional state is relatively stable, but still have some mind about your girlfriend's emotional history, consider the following:

1.Communication: Be honest with your girlfriend, tell her how you feel and think, listen to her explanations and opinions, and try to understand and accept her past. In communication, respect each other's privacy and rights, and don't overly ask or criticize her past.

2.Rational thinking: From the perspective of Liling's openness, analyze whether your girlfriend's emotional history will affect your relationship and the extent of its impact. If the impact is not great, you can try to let go of the past and continue to enjoy the happiness of the present.

3.Self-reflection: If you mind that your girlfriend's emotional history is caused by your own psychological problems, such as a lack of confidence in your sense of value and security, then you need to reflect on yourself and seek psychological counseling or other ways to improve your emotional state.

Ultimately, it needs to be clear that a person's emotional history does not represent her character and qualities, and we should respect everyone's past and choices and cherish the happiness of the present.

First of all, it is important to be clear that everyone has their own past and experiences, including emotional experiences. When you are with your girlfriend, you also need to accept her past and respect her personal privacy and feelings.

If you mind your girlfriend's imitating relationship history, try to communicate openly with her. It's okay to express your feelings, but you need to avoid excessive criticism or accusations. You can tell her about your worries and upsets, listen to her perspective, and try to find common solutions.

Also, you can try to understand and accept her past, as well as the reason and significance why she is with you now. You can also strengthen your relationship by building a deeper level of trust and communication.

Most importantly, you need to accept the past of the girl and her friends and learn to get along with them. If you can't accept or live with her past, then it may be necessary to consider reevaluating your relationship.