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In the coming life, you must choose a good ideal. Ideal is the goal of life, and it is also the meaning of life. But don't be too ambitious in your ideals, and learn to weigh yourself.
Too great an ideal that looks good, but is out of reach and exhausts itself. If your ideal is smaller, it will be realized quickly, and then you will determine an ideal that is better than what you are now, and just like that, little by little, you will move your life forward and gradually shine. As the saying goes, if you don't accumulate steps, you can't even reach thousands of miles.
To start your life all over again, you must choose a good friend. Everyone cannot be an individual, and they have to be in the vast sea of people. A friend is a person who has a good relationship with you in the sea of people, an assistant in life, an opponent at work, a helper in thought, etc.
What kind of friends you have, what kind of you are, friends will subtly change you. For example, when you meet someone who insults you, and you happen to have a good friend around you, you rush up, and the scolding becomes a beating, and you take advantage of the situation to go up, and in the end, both lose and lose. If, at this moment, you are surrounded by a lawyer friend who knows how to protect you with the law, then not only are you not injured, but you also get an apology from the other party, and the relationship has also subtly improved.
To start your life again, you must choose an era of peace and live in a country where there is no war. If the country is in turmoil, the home will be adrift, and you will be a weed. All the choices you have made in front of you have been in vain.
A good external environment is a prerequisite for you to choose these or those when:
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If I could do it all over again, I don't know if I would ever live the way I do now. Because I find that people only miss those lost moments, and everything is unforgettable. When we are really in that situation, we forget what we feel and realize now.
I'm no exception myself, and now, I often miss my high school life. I miss the hard work at that time, the simplicity at that time, the carefree at that time, and the ...... of me who only read the books of the sages at that time
However, I knew that it was impossible to go back to my old life. Because the last second of me and this second I am no longer the same, there is no room to turn back even for such a small moment, let alone return to the past that has been gone for a long time. When I remember those times that I can't go back, I will be sad for a long time.
But when I was sad, time went away. Its pace is always so fast, I don't even have time to think, I slowly grow up, slowly get old. Looking at the face in the mirror that is no longer immature, there is no joy of growth, some are just sighs about the past!
In life, passers-by come and go, and some people are bound to meet, as if they are bound to be lost. It came quietly without making our own choices, and finally quietly left. It was only when I looked back that I realized that the wrong encounter was also very beautiful.
Because, when everything has gone away, when the mood has calmed down, when the mind is no longer drifting away. All I have are memories—no matter how painful and nostalgic I was. In the end, those past events went away step by step with a touch of sorrow, a touch of sadness, a touch of joy, and a touch of warmth.
Only leave our favor and humiliation not to be shocked and go to stay unintentional, quietly watch the clouds roll up, and appreciate the flowers blooming and falling peacefully. When life can be restarted, I will still choose that beautiful encounter by mistake.
I still hope that after graduation, I will look relieved when I look back on my current life, even though I am not very satisfied with my current life. I'm also going to do my best to keep myself from feeling sad, even though I'm still feeling depressed. Everyone else says that "people who stumble in the same place are stupid".
I know I'm not stupid, I'm stupid, and incorrigibly stupid. But I am a fool without regrets, and although such foolishness has cost me a lot, I still insist on my foolishness to enjoy the joys and sorrows that life gives.
Seeking happiness, joy, freedom, happiness, and enjoying the happiness, joy, freedom, and happiness on the journey of life, so as to love life, love life, love life, love nature, and be grateful, is the morality of being a person, and it is also the main value and meaning of life.
If I could do it all over again, I would be unreservedly stupid. Because I want the memories I have to be colorful, brilliant ......
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Piece 1: God made me choose my parents, although I was born in an ordinary rural family, my family is not wealthy, and my parents are not talented. But they gave me a worry-free life.
Piece 2: I chose my husband, although he is not rich and handsome. But he is diligent and takes care of his family, loves his wife and children. Let our family of four have a great time.
Number 3: I gave birth to two daughters, and their heavens gave me the best gift. Although there are many hardships on the road to parenting, they are well-behaved and cute, and they can always bring me infinite joy.
Piece 4: I chose to come to Shenzhen, where I met my true destiny and met a lot of friends.
No. 5: Buying a house in Shenzhen, eight years ago, in order to allow children to successfully enroll in Shenzhen. My husband and I smashed the pot and sold iron to make a down payment and mortgage a small house. Now that the children are in school, the family also has a warm nest.
No. 6: Moving into Shenzhen household registration, so that children can choose a better school when they go to school.
Item 7: Learn to use a computer, when you go to school, you can only type a few words about computer knowledge. After coming out of work, I studied systematically for half a year after work, and learned the comprehensive basic application of computers. In my later work, I have always been inseparable from computers.
Item 8: Self-examination for Chinese language and literature, ten courses, all of which are self-taught, and all of them have passed the exam. The self-examination has greatly exercised my willpower and self-learning ability, so that I can pass almost every exam in the later big and small exams.
No. 9: Learning yoga, practicing yoga can not only exercise the body and slow down the body, but also let me learn how to empty myself and talk about myself and release stress.
Piece 10: Learn to cook, I have two babies since I started tomato, and I like to study all kinds of dishes. In the coming years, nutritious and delicious meals are often made for the children.
Piece 11: Learning to drive and getting a driver's license gave me another skill.
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I will work very hard to earn money, improve my education, think less about meaningless things, and find someone who is very good to me to marry.
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For such a situation, I will personally devote myself to the career transactions that I am interested in according to my own interests and hobbies, help my friends who happen to be very good to expand their circle of friends, improve Kaimin's personal ability, and make their lives more exciting.
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Find the direction you want to struggle, work very hard every day to improve your comprehensive strength, and find people who have the same three views as yourself.
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