How to become as confident as Bruce Lee and Lu Xiaofeng

1.Learn to look into other people's eyes.

Facing people up to you is telling you that I am honest and above board. I believe that what I am telling you is true, and I have no false heart.

2.Learn to speak in public.

Regardless of the nature of the meeting, it is important to take the initiative to speak every time, perhaps in the form of comments, suggestions or questions, without exception. And, don't be the last to speak. To be an icebreaker, be the first to break the silence.

Don't worry about you coming across as stupid. No, it won't. Because there will always be someone who agrees with you.

3.Use an affirmative tone.

The criteria for value judgments are very subjective and vague. As long as you think it's beautiful, you look beautiful, and if you think it's annoying, you don't like it when you look at it. In particular, feelings of inferiority complex are often affected by language, so negative language can do more harm than good to a person's mental health.

4.Walk faster with your head up, chest up.

Psychologists associate lazy posture and slow pace with unpleasant feelings about themselves, their work, and others. But psychologists also tell us that by changing posture and speed, we can change our state of mind.

5.Learn to confess.

Vipassana is one of the main methods of studying psychology, which is to observe one's inner situation very calmly, and then shake out the results without concealment. If we can imitate this method and express in words the psychological secrets that are changing all the time, then there will be no energy to cause trouble.

6.Do what you can.

When you do what you can do, your personality will come through. The important thing is to find out what you can do in the moment instead of desperately trying to restore your self-image. Knowing what to do and then doing it can liberate you from your self-image.

In short, try to write down what you can do right away and then put it into practice, it doesn't have to be a great, extraordinary action, as long as it is within your ability. Because we just want to get to the sky in one step, we can't find anything to do.

7.Self-confidence fosters self-confidence.

When you lack self-confidence, you should do something full of confidence. When you lack self-confidence, instead of saying that you are not confident in yourself, you should tell yourself that you can do a good job. In order to overcome negative, negative attitudes, we should adopt a positive, positive attitude.

If you think you can't do it, and leave things around you behind, the situation will gradually become as you think. **When talking, if you speak in a smiling voice, the other party will be comfortable listening and you will feel happy. Having a bitter face or cold words will not only make the other party uncomfortable, but also make you unhappy.

When you use words to collide with the other party, you are using words to collide with yourself, and your attitude towards the other party is also your attitude towards yourself. We should build it up one by one like bricks, piling up our positive, positive attitude towards life.

I believe everyone almost knows what kind of person Bruce Lee is in reality.

When he spoke, he did not have the slightest modest expression and tone, why?

Because he is confident, to be precise, not complacent.

Bruce Lee, whether in the movie or in reality, is never pretentious, have you noticed?

He always gives people a sense of affinity, except of course when facing bad guys.

You may think that where did he get so much self-confidence, but in fact, this is his outlook on life.

I also think that if a person clearly has the strength to do something, but he has to say in front of others that he can't do it (modest), then I will also think that this is a sign of hypocrisy.

Usually on the Internet or TV, when I see a certain star performing a show, it is so contrived, and I want to vomit.

If you think about Bruce Lee again at that time, you will find out what a serious person he is.

Maybe some people can't get used to his arrogance, but people have the strength to be arrogant! Can you?

Bruce Lee is not modest, but he is very good at doing things. Especially when he works so hard and seriously about what he likes.

You can find in him a very rare domineering, and affinity.

You know, it's very rare and difficult.

Come on! At that time, it was the most backward period of China's science and technology! How is it possible to have a camera, and even if there is, the lens is still very blurry.

Because people have that capital.

Overcome rigidity with softness, overcome rigidity with softness, and overcome rigidity with softness.

If you want to become more confident, you must first understand yourself and accept yourself. To accept oneself is to understand oneself. Most people only recognize the negative side of themselves, and their self-assessment includes too many shortcomings, mistakes, and incompetence.

It's good to recognize your own shortcomings, but it's hard to improve. But if you only recognize the negative side of yourself, it is easy to have an inferiority complex. The root cause of an inferiority complex lies in the inability to understand oneself correctly.

Life, to go according to the way you like, perhaps, to go through wind and rain, difficulties, perhaps, will be bumpy, joys and sorrows, whether you are happy, or unfortunate, do not need to be proud of anything, because, this life is a long journey, you take it as a tour, you will see the beautiful scenery, you take it as a torment, you will only lose happiness. Behind everyone, there is unspeakable suffering, endless sorrow, is it possible that we will not live if there is disobedience? Whoever dies the sun rises as usual.

A person, no matter how powerful he is, has a weakness, a person, no matter how strong, there are tears, anyone, anything, will become your past over time, don't put the rest of your life in memories, and waste the remaining time little by little.

Instead of reminiscing, it is better to work hard; Instead of complaining, change; Rather than give up on yourself, you should rise; Instead of dwelling, it is better to let go. Your life is very expensive, don't waste it, talk about the past, and bravely continue to walk on the next journey!

At 14 o'clock on July 20, 1973, Zou Wenhuai came to Li's house, and the two exchanged opinions on "Game of Death". At half-past four, they came to Ding Pei's house. The three of them talked for two hours.

At 19 o'clock, when they decided to dine at the Japanese restaurant downstairs of the Hyatt Hotel, Bruce Lee suddenly said: "I am not feeling well, and I have a headache." Ding Pei immediately gave Bruce Lee an aspirin, and after taking the medicine, Xiaolong lay down to rest.

At about 10 o'clock in the evening, Zou Wenhuai still had something to discuss with Bruce Lee, so he called Bruce Lee, but Xiaolong didn't react at all, Zou Wenhuai felt that the situation was not good, so he immediately called the doctor, but it was too late, and no one could crack the cause of death. Bruce Lee's box office myth ended like a meteor.

This section of the cemetery. 1] Bruce Lee's grave is located in the Lakeview Cemetery in Seattle, USA, which is considered a sacred place by martial arts enthusiasts all over the world. Bruce Lee's tombstone is crimson with his **, English name Brucelee and Chinese original name Li Zhenfan. The tombstone also states that he was the founder of Jeet Kune Do.

Underneath his tombstone is a black stone sculpture resembling an open book. On the left page is engraved a Taoist black-and-white Taiji diagram. On both sides of the picture are engraved in Chinese these two sentences:

The impossible is the law, and the infinite is the finite". Bruce Lee died young, and his son Li Guohao, who inherited his father's business, also died unexpectedly, and Li Guohao's tombstone is on the right side of Bruce Lee.