How to talk to the person you like, how to talk to the person you like

Chat with people you like1Correct joke.

Joking is a technical job, and the scale of joking is important. A little too much is an insult to others. It's a little light, but it doesn't feel funny at all.

In particular, there are some words that always make people feel uncomfortable when they sound like they are others. When we are chatting and joking, we should pay attention to the following points. First, try to speak ill of yourself and don't speak of others.

This guarantees that the other party will definitely not be angry. Second, pay attention. Don't say bad things about others that they really care about, or things that are trying to change.

We should say things that others don't think matter. Only by mastering this scale, when you are joking, can everyone laugh happily, and no one will hate you because of it.

I also used to think that I could win her down by learning some flirtatious jokes, love words, etc., and then telling the girl a few more times. It wasn't until I hit a wall again and again that I fell into deep thought. Later, I saw a book about flirting with girls - love attack heart manipulation technique, and I completely understood the true meaning of love, it turned out that everything was based on attraction.

According to the method in the book, step by step to create its own attraction, and now I am surrounded by a lot of sisters, it is not an exaggeration to say that I am singing every night. Some brothers who want to get rid of the single suggestion to see and learn to improve themselves, up and down to find it.

Chat with people you like2There was back and forth communication.

In other words, you must not talk to death during the chat. You can't say something that the other person can't answer. This requires you to learn to observe while chatting.

Talk about something that the other person can talk about. You need to know what the other person likes or what they are good at, and then chat based on those. For example, if you talk about national politics with a girl who likes Ming, Xing, and likes to watch Weibo, then this girl probably doesn't know anything.

Then she will often ignore you. This is a common mistake in chatting. So I should find out what topics girls like and talk about them.

For example, if she is a girl who understands politics very well, then you talk about national affairs. She is a girl who understands gossip alone, so you ask her whether the celebrity gossip is true or false, only then can you chat back and forth.

Chat with people you like3Understand the other person's point of view.

Everyone has a point of view that she insists on. You can't talk about this when chatting, you will hurt her inexplicably. For example, a girl hates Japan.

She doesn't use any Japanese products, which is a bit naïve, but it's best not to contradict her outright. Because it's something she's holding on to and believing to be right. It's good to talk to her about Japanese stuff during the chat, but it doesn't matter if you use Japanese stuff.

Then it often turns into hitting her gun. She'll think you don't understand her.

Chat with the people you like4Pay more attention to her social**.

In today's society, social** can reflect every aspect of a person. When you are chatting with her, the first thing you have to do is to think about what she has posted on social **. For example, work, daily life, food, favorite food, etc.

Find some good topics.

Correct joking There are also skills in joking, there must be scale, don't talk endlessly, correct and muffled jokes can make the other party think you are humorous, can make the other party laugh happily, and no one will hate you because of this. 2.There is back and forth communication Don't talk to death when chatting, let the other party be able to talk about your topic, so that the chat will not be without topics, I don't know what to say, you can also talk about the topic that the other party likes, such as the other party understands gossip, then you can talk about this matter, I believe the other party will be very interested.

3.Understand the other party's point of view When chatting with the other party, you can insist on her point of view on a certain matter, and don't refute her directly, because this is something she insists on and believes is right, if you object, then she will think that you don't understand her. 4.

Pay more attention to her social** You can pay more attention to her social**, see what she likes, and then chat about the things she likes, so that you can judge her previous experiences based on what she has posted, and you can also like or comment on her.

When he walks into love, he finds that love is not what he imagined, so there will be a strong sense of gap, in order to avoid this sense of gap affecting the development of feelings. First of all, before entering a relationship, you can't have too high requirements in the face of the person you like, and you can't have too many expectations for this relationship, the higher your expectations, the greater your disappointment is likely to be.

For example, if you want to eat a pack of braised beef noodles, you can see a large piece of beef on the packaging of instant noodles, but when you open the bag, you will find that there are only bare dough cakes and a few seasoning packets inside, this is the gap between reality and ideals, and the same is true of love, only when you really go to love.

In the face of the person you like, you don't imagine the other party to be too perfect, and don't think about this relationship too perfectly, because there is no perfection in this world, only close to perfection. In the face of an imperfect thing, you are often able to relax your mind, instead of forcing yourself to worship the other party as a god, if you have become a humble person in this relationship, then it is difficult for this relationship to come to the end, the reason is that you have lost all the charm due to your own humility, but love is destined to be a process of mutual attraction, and it is definitely not a one-sided humble process.

To sum up, there must be two mentalities in the face of the person you like, the first is not to have too high expectations, love is not as beautiful as you imagined, and the second is not to imagine the other party too beautiful, the perfect person does not exist at all, and your excessive imagination can only make you lose your charm.

Guess that you should ask such a question because you have not established a relationship with him, otherwise the question should be: What should I do if I have less and less topics to talk about with my husband or girlfriend?

Then I'm going to assume that if there are fewer and fewer topics to talk about with the object of my favorite, what should I do? Actually, it's a kind of thingNormal. After all, from the very beginning of the acquaintance, you are unknown to her, from 1 to 10, which is equivalent to a tenfold increase; But when you learn from 10 to 20 for her, it's just a two-fold increase, and so on.

But if you are worried about the cultivation of the code, if this continues, there will be no fate with her in the future, then we can do the following:

The first point is that I have become an increasingly interesting person. When you become interesting, you can also be interested in other people's topics. You can also get in touch with more and more topics by reading, making friends, participating in activities, etc., but the main thing is to keep a curiosity and be interested in everything.

The second point is to keep a certain amount of space. Because people really don't need to maintain a high frequency of interaction with each other every day. Sometimes you leave for a while because you are busy or for some reason, and then come back, so that you may have new thoughts, find new topics, or have new opportunities, and you can talk about it again.

The third point is to keep a normal heart. Because in fact, two people can be together, and having a common topic is on the one hand, and on the other hand, it is also self-confidence. It's just that you don't have to rely on having a common topic to maintain a relationship, just like many people who have a very tacit understanding, they will feel very comfortable even if they don't talk together.

When you feel that it is not too embarrassing to talk about less topics, maybe that is when the relationship between you is at its best.

On the big stage of life, each of us is looking for the secret to sharing a good time with that special someone. When you meet someone you like, how can you keep the conversation going? Below, I'll share some practical tips to help you feel natural and comfortable talking to someone you like.

First, understanding the other person's interests is key to starting a long-term conversation. Everyone has their own unique topics and interests, and by observing and asking questions, you can gradually discover each other's preferences. When you bring up these topics in a chat, the other person will feel noticed and respected, leading to greater interest in you.

Second, keeping an open mind is the cornerstone of building a good conversation. This means avoiding assumptions and prejudgments as much as possible in conversation, and instead getting to know each other in a curious and inclusive manner. Keeping an open mind allows you to better listen to and understand the other person's point of view, which can lead to more interesting topics.

In addition, avoiding awkward silence is key to maintaining the continuity of the conversation. In conversation, sometimes silence can feel awkward, but don't worry too much. You can use this silence to think about the next topic or ask a new question.

Of course, it is also appropriate to use some humor or anecdotes to break the ice.

At the same time, paying attention to non-verbal signals is necessary to maintain a good conversation. In addition to verbal communication, our body language, facial expressions, and tone of voice are also important ways to convey information. Maintaining eye contact, smiling, and appropriate body movements can show the other person that you are genuine and interested.

Finally, expressing your feelings honestly is the perfect end to end the conversation. Whether your topic is pleasant or serious, expressing your feelings sincerely can let the other person know how important and grateful you are for this exchange. Not only does this add a sense of intimacy to your relationship, but it also opens the door to the next exchange.

In conclusion, it is not difficult to maintain a pleasant conversation with the person you like. By understanding the other person's interests, keeping an open mind, avoiding silence, paying attention to non-verbal signals, and expressing your feelings sincerely, you can build a good communication protocol. On the stage of life, let's weave beautiful memories with sincere conversations and share the infinite possibilities with that special someone.

Ignore the fact that you won't talk.

It's not just that you're chatting with people you like, it's that you're chatting with almost everyone and you don't know how to talk about it. It's just that when you talk to people you're not very interested in, you don't think it's that important, and you don't realize the fact that you can't chat.

Heartbeat so nervous.

When confronted with the girl you like, your emotions and mindset when chatting will be disturbed. Will be careful for fear of saying the wrong thing, and thus be hated by girls. Your mentality will be apprehensive, which will cause you to be nervous throughout your whole body, (don't think it's an exaggeration, there are really such boys in reality) and become forward-looking, not knowing what to talk about, and even stumbling and not being able to say a complete sentence.

**。No experience. You yourself live a relatively simple life and have no experience. Because the topic is not out of thin air, but based on one's own life and experience.

You don't have goods in your stomach, you don't have experience, you can't think, and naturally you don't have so many topics. Just like when you write an essay, you haven't learned writing techniques, you don't know Chinese characters, how do you write, you don't accumulate famous sayings and sentences, how can you write well and get a high score! You can't have something in your head that you never knew before, you know?

The girl is not cooperative.

The girl is not cooperative. This is a situation where the other party is not very interested in you. Because of the girl's non-cooperation, even if you say that your topic is good, you will not get good feedback from the other party.

A girl's non-response will cause your topic to be unmalleable and divergent. In this way, there will definitely be fewer and fewer topics, and in the end you won't know what to talk about, which is embarrassing.

Pay attention to your attitude and be amiable. 2 6 Let yourself speak well, and do not let people listen to it with words that make it uncomfortable for people to hear. 3 6 Learn to say what you see to others, and pay attention to the mood of others.

4 6 Learn to speak things that please others, so that people will be happy to talk to you. 5 6 Develop your own strengths in speaking and communicate with different people. 6 6 Talk to others, look for entry points that make others happy to talk to you.

As long as you seek truth and speak sincerely to others, you can not be hated.

You don't have to please anyone, just be yourself.

Don't finish chatting with girls all at once, leave some topic introduction, so that it is convenient for the next chat.

One trick to teach you how to chat with people you like.

Just tell it what you think and let it know you like it.

Goddess, you have to be thick-skinned.

Every day, I shush the cold and ask for warmth, I have nothing to do with Lala's homely routine, and talk about some yellow jokes.

Let the topic of the chat have suspense and surprises.

Be careful, less routine, and more sincere.