How often do you perfunctory your man, and you are not the only one in his heart?

It's really not just me, maybe I'm a time management master, and there are too many spare tires or lovers and the like, so I am often perfunctory.

It is often said that he needs a while to think about the relationship between the two of you, and the man who is reluctant to enter into marriage may not be alone in his heart at all.

I'm busy. The man who often says this kind of thing doesn't really have time, he just spends his time and energy elsewhere.

Generally, men who like to perfunctory you in chats have you alone in their hearts, such as always being unable to contact you, and replying after a long time in chatting.

I always make you feel happy through words, but I never do anything that makes you feel happy. You are not alone in the heart of such a man.

When two people are together, a woman will always want to get a positive answer from the man, asking if the man really loves her. It's really just a sign of love, and a man who pretends to love you won't answer himself that he loves you. Rather, it is a flickering statement, or a straight away from the topic.

2. Forget your big day

A man who really likes you will be very careful, no matter how big or small things are, he will always think about them for you, and of course some important days will be remembered. If he doesn't care about your days, or remembers them without saying anything, then he may be trying to be perfunctory to you. In their minds, these are irrelevant, so they may not take you too seriously.

3. I don't have time to accompany you

The man said that he liked you, but when he really wanted him to accompany you, he had many excuses to shirk it, saying that there was something that could not come. In fact, he may be perfunctory to you, there will always be time when you are busy alone, if you really want to accompany you, there will always be time. He doesn't want to be with you, he just thinks that he doesn't want to spend time, so he has to perfunctory you like this.

4. There is no commitment

A man pretending to love you may have some rhetoric to make you happy, but there will be no real important promises to give you assurances. Because he doesn't really want to be with you, he won't make promises and will have to perfunctory you. Because if you make a promise that you will remember and remind him from time to time, but he will not fulfill it at all, then the best way is to perfunctory you.

5. I won't talk about marriage with you

It is said that marriage is the grave of love, but marriage is indeed an important guarantee of love. When a relationship really comes to the point of talking about marriage, it is an important time to verify whether two people are suitable. And if a man is silent about it, or when you ask the question, he will run away.

So why is he perfunctory to you, or doesn't want to be with you. If he really loves you, then he will be happy to talk about it and even can't wait. He didn't ask you that question, so he was just perfunctory to you.

It shows that he probably doesn't have you in his heart.

In real life, it is obvious whether a person has you in his heart, after all, love cannot be hidden, and it is the same if you don't love. Many times, through a person's attitude towards you, it is possible to get a general idea of what he really wants about you. Those who can care about you and worry about you are generally people who have you in their hearts, on the contrary, people who are perfunctory to you have more people in their hearts.

Loving someone will take you to heart and will be enthusiastic about you in everything you do, but if you don't love you and don't have you in your heart, it will naturally become perfunctory, and all enthusiasm and patience will disappear. Therefore, a man who is perfunctory to you in these things is actually without you in his heart, and he can't hide his love.

Specific performance. 1. When you are in trouble.

2. When you're sick.

When you are sick, the first person you think of must be the one you care about the most. If he cares about you enough, then he will naturally take you to the hospital in time when you are sick and give you enough companionship and care, which is a manifestation of having you in his heart.

However, if he only shush you and say a few warm words to you when he learns the news that you are sick, and will not come to you, it proves that you are not that important in his heart at all, which is also a manifestation of not loving you so much.

3. When you're in a bad mood.

When something doesn't go your way, you're probably in a bad mood. If he has you in his heart, then he will definitely try his best to make you happy when you are in a bad mood, such as telling you jokes, making faces, etc., which is a manifestation of making you happy with his heart. However, if he is always indifferent to you when you are in a bad mood, it proves that he mostly does not love you that much, which is also a sign of not having you in his heart.

4. When you are coquettish and have a small temper.

A man who truly loves you will definitely think you are cute, even if you are vexatious and messing around. When you are coquettish and have a temper, the man who has you in his heart will definitely think you are cute, spoil you, and love you. But if when you are coquettish and petty, he will think that you are unreasonable, impatient and perfunctory to you, then you must understand that he does not have you in his heart at all.

5. When you're bored.

In today's fast-paced society, everyone has a lot of work to do, even overtime, but when they get home at night, they also feel lonely. When you are bored, a man who has you in his heart will definitely give you enough greetings and will chat with you patiently. But if he doesn't have you in his heart, even if you are very boring, he won't do anything.

6. When you are confused.

Everyone doesn't know that they will be very confused at a certain stage in the future, and at this time, we especially need people we care about to patiently help us guide the way. If at this time, he is always very perfunctory to you, it proves that he mostly doesn't like you that much, which is also a manifestation of not having you in his heart.

He doesn't love you anymore, or he's really too busy to pay attention to you.

Sometimes he's really busy! Long live understanding!

Summary. Hello kiss, a man's perfunctory performance There are these: 1. Impatient to listen to your nagging If a man has you in his heart and takes his feelings with you seriously, then he will definitely listen to your nagging patiently.

Although he will also feel a little annoyed, and the same thing will be said to him endlessly, but he knows that it is because you love him and care about him. A man who doesn't love you, he doesn't have any patience for you at all, and often he starts to complain about you before you can speak. 2. If you are not willing to spend time with you, you must know that a man who is not willing to spend time with you must not really love you.

You have also loved someone, you know what it is like when you fall in love with someone, you will unconsciously want to stick to his side and accompany him to do everything he wants to do. The man who keeps saying that he doesn't have time and time to accompany you doesn't actually care about you as much as you think.

Hello before kissing, a man's perfunctory performance There are these: 1. Impatiently listen to your nagging If a man has you in his heart and takes the relationship with you seriously, he will definitely listen to you patiently after nagging. Although he will also feel a little annoyed, and the same thing will be said to him endlessly, but he knows that it is because you love him and care about him.

A man who doesn't love you, he doesn't have any patience for you at all, and often he starts to complain about you before you can speak. 2. If you are not willing to spend time with you, you must know that a man who is not willing to spend time with you must not really love you. You have also loved someone, you know what it is like when you fall in love with someone, you will unconsciously want to stick to his side and accompany him to do everything he wants to do.

The man who keeps saying that he doesn't have time and time to accompany you actually doesn't care about you as much as you think.

3. Unwilling to change himself for you If a man really loves you, then when he is with you, he will involuntarily start to change himself. Although there is nothing you can do, you will find that his life rules are gradually consistent with yours, and he likes to eat what you like, and slowly becomes what you like. But a man who doesn't love you, he will never accommodate you for anything, you are together, you are always accommodating to him and catering to him.

4. Unwilling to spend money for youIn fact, I think there is a saying that makes sense: a man who is willing to spend money for you may not necessarily love you, but a man who is unwilling to spend money for you must not love you. Although we don't advocate measuring a relationship by money, you should know that if a man loves you, then he will definitely want to give you everything he can.

If a man is always thinking about money with you, he really doesn't love you that much, he is just perfunctory to you.

The first manifestation of my dear, if he has been talking to you for no more than ten minutes now, he is definitely perfunctory to you. He doesn't feel like he has any common language with you, so he doesn't feel like he used to. If you don't have anything to say, or you don't have a lot of time to talk to, it means that he has started to perfunctory you.

Every time he promises you, he won't keep it, and when you mention you, he will say that he accidentally forgot. You know for sure that he is perfunctory to you, and if he really loves you, he will not forget about you. If he forgets, it means that he doesn't care about your business at all.

The third manifestation is that every time you hang out with him, he always stays in the room and won't hang out with you. This means that his mind is not on you at all. Don't think he's protecting you, he's just trying to protect you.

Don't make excuses for him that you don't want to believe.