What do you think of your own parents, and how do you feel about your parents?

Your parents are not afraid that no one will take care of them when they are old They are afraid that you will abandon them The old people are originally nagging, and some people want to honor their parents, but their parents are gone, I have to say that this is really sad Your parents are still sick What is this asking Isn't it all for you What do they live for all their lives? Aren't they all for their children They can ignore you when you were a child and be happy to be at ease But look at the other way you are under such pressure to run away Complain to your parents Are you worthy of your conscience? Even if you have all your troubles, don't bring them to your parents, let them live out their old age in peace.

Sounds pathetic. Don't run away from it, give your parents a little hope, and be filial to yourself. It's also very hard for them to raise you so big, think about it!

You are a good person who is filial, I recommend a set of Mr. Cai Lixu's "Happy Life Lecture", which can be put to your mother, and I believe that she will change soon after listening. I think the reason why she is pestering people now is because she has no sense of security, try to divert her attention, learn Buddhism, listen to the scriptures, etc.! It would be a lot better!

Trust me.

I think it's a matter of mentality, no matter how nagging parents are, they also want their children to do better, that's why it's like this, if you want to be old when you're old, you will be like this, understand your parents, they are really not easy, don't let your parents be sad for you.

I want to live my life on my own terms.

1.Family is the first school of life. When we have not yet come into contact with the outside world, what we know and feel about life comes from our family and our parents.

The shaping of our outlook on life, values, and worldview is inseparable from the words and deeds of our parents. In the same way, our thoughts contain the thoughts of our parents to a certain extent, but they are different from the blue. We inherit it, continue it, take its essence and remove its dross, and add our own thoughts to form a unique idea.

2.Fly like a bird to your mountain. Parents have no doubt that they have grown up with us, but our parents cannot accompany us in a complete life, we cannot be completely dominated by the will of our parents, and our spiritual world always has a territory of its own.

In the past, my family's education was repressive. However, there is one thing that I am quite touched by recently after the epidemic. I have been on a business trip to other provinces for a while, and my physical condition and mood were very bad before, one night, my mother just sent a WeChat message saying that she had received the clothes I bought for Mai Duo, and she would bring them tomorrow.

So for the first time in my life, I took the initiative to tell my mother that my physical and mental state has been getting worse and worse recently, and I always feel that there is no point in living. My mother sent a message after a long time: Rest early in the evening, come back to recuperate, and cheer yourself silently.

I said - in fact, I know very well that it is useless to tell you, I have always taken care of myself, but the state of people is too bad, just when you send WeChat, I just said this casually. You don't have to spoil the feast to comfort me, because I know that you don't know me at all, just care about me. My mom:

I'm sorry I can't help in a different place. Me: I don't need to help Kaiyin, just care a lot.

I think my mom actually took what I said to heart. What I want to say is this: when we are younger, our parents will have a very big influence on us.

Because we only have them in our eyes. I often feel that my apathy, distance from people, reluctance to take the initiative to get close to people, and severe self-aggression have a great influence on my parents' attitude towards me since I was a child. But, I can't change that.

I can only grow up, live well, and try to have more energy to be "my own parent". Later, as I had my own work + life + family, the influence of my parents Yu Qin also decreased, I knew that they were there, and they also knew that I was there, and it was enough to help each other well and when needed.

The child is now December 2022, and in a few days 2022 will pass.

Say goodbye to the many unfriendlies that 2022 has left us.

Hope for a good start to 2023.

Time flies so fast, and I always feel like you're still the babbling child in your arms. Holding your little hand and walking together seems like it was yesterday.

After dinner that day, your father suggested that our family go out for a walk, and you said you should go! I suddenly felt that you have really grown up, and you are no longer the little follower who can't get rid of you.

You grow up day by day, and we grow older day by day. I don't know when wrinkles climbed into the corners of my eyes, forehead, and hair gradually turned gray.

You're no longer the crying kid. You grow into a young man. You have your sky, you have to go through the wind and rain.

You are no longer the child who obeys your parents' words, you have your own thoughts, and you start arguing because you think differently from your parents.

Take this high school entrance examination as an example, we hope that you can apply for a key high school that is not ranked high. That way you won't have to study so hard, but if you insist on applying to the top ranked key high school, we all suspect that you may not be admitted, and to our surprise, you will be admitted.

I thought that after the holiday, you would go to the long-awaited school, but the epidemic community was closed and could only teach online, and you were not very suitable for online learning and the rhythm of school.

It's the midterm exam in a flash, your grades have plummeted, it's a big blow to you and us, we're really anxious, I think you're definitely more anxious than us, for this, we also had a fierce quarrel, every parent wants their children to become a dragon, and so do we, but your grades really make us very discouraged, watching you write your homework every day, writing late and hard, I don't want to say anything, just do your best.

I hope that in 2022, it will pass quickly, the epidemic will pass quickly, let life return to normal, and hope that your grades can also improve.

My parents were honest farmers, they were very kind-hearted and very kind to us, but very strict, so our brothers and sisters were very filial and polite, and they also worked well when they grew up.