With the attitude of life as the topic, talk to your parents or friends to exchange ideas with each

Very good to let parents know and reassure.

But sometimes it is clear to the bystander that your so-called discussion may be able to solve the problem for others.

Any plans? ,No,Do you have any ideas?"Eh, there's nothing.,How do you plan it...

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It's a bit too much for parents to say that, about what they mean:

It's time for you to get married, and don't think about going against your parents.

If it were me, I wouldn't have had trouble with my parents, and I wouldn't have been able to hear it. The key is to be considerate and filial.

Every parent expresses it differently.

Listen to it if you like.

I don't like to listen to it, so I go to blow the wind after listening.

To put it bluntly, it is an ancient idea of inheritance.

You're going to have to give a range first.

I was with my parents.

Happiness is like quicksand, the tighter you hold it, the faster you slip away, everyone's happiness has its destination, where is my happiness? Inscription.

Hanghang, Zhuo Zhuo, hurry up and come out to eat, Mom made your favorite dishes, don't forget to call Dad! "A week's real picture has now become a dream-like picture, and I dare not hope for it anymore.

On Friday, I walked with heavy steps to the "little nest" river where I could confide, and my little feet beat against the beautiful cool waves, and I couldn't help but feel a piercing pain that spread to every part of my body, and made me worse than dead.

Time whipped me and forced me to go home. As soon as I got up, I heard the sound of "bang", and the next second the raindrops hit me mercilessly, the weather in June is really unpredictable, just sunny and sunny, and now it is pouring rain, even God has mercy on me, crying for me! I came home like the living dead, and my parents were still arguing.

Suddenly, my eyes went dark, and the next second I didn't know anything, and I faintly heard my mother's anxious voice.

When I opened my eyes, I smelled a smell that was both unpleasant and familiar. The first thing that caught my eye was my mother's wrinkled face, and in the blink of an eye, my mother's gray hair seemed to have increased a lot, which surprised me. Seeing such a haggard mother, I couldn't help but cry.

My mother saw it and asked me with concern. I finally stopped crying, and saw the dazzling thing in the corner of my father's eye, I don't know if it was rain or ......

Halfway through, the silence was finally broken, "Since she's awake, I'm leaving." Yes, this unwarm sentence was said by my father, who had always been cold. Dad has always been a dislike to talk and loves to lose his temper, and this time it's because of his dad that my mom wants to divorce my dad.

I hated myself so much, I obviously had something to say in my heart, and I wanted to persuade them, but when the words reached my throat, I swallowed them alive.

After the injection, I went home and saw a table full of delicacies, as well as a bowl of ginger soup, my father came out, and apologized to my mother with sincerity, at this time, my mouth was big enough to stuff an egg, "Mom and Dad, there is a rainbow".

The days with my parents are full of joys and sorrows. But they always surrounded me with a lot of love. Mom and Dad, I love you!

As I grew older, I gradually noticed that there seemed to be less and less communication between me and my parents, replaced by the soul-stirring sound of the door closing after eating. Why is this happening? I don't understand it myself.

Is this what the teacher usually says?"Generation gap"?

Every day, when my parents dragged themselves home exhausted, they fell on the sofa, lifted their legs, and closed to recuperate. In my memory, the scene of my childhood playing with my parents seems to have long been frozen, and it has become an object of nostalgia.

Today, I sat down face to face with my mother, ready to go"Heart-to-heart communication"。My mother said that I usually don't study hard enough, and I only know how to watch TV all day long, and I don't know the importance of reading. It made me very sad to listen to it.

Mom, I'm not what you say, I'm sensible now, I know how to learn, but you, but you don't give me any free space, I always think that I'm still the little child who hides under the eaves and sheds tears and never grows up!

Looking out the window at the birds flying with their wings, I wish I were one of them. A carefree life, when thirsty, drink the water of the rushing stream; When they are hungry, they eat the wild fruits of the mountains. Flying in the air, there is a beautiful blue sky and white clouds as a foil, and there are envious eyes underneath.

Mom, you always say that I don't have the motivation to study, and... Every time I hear such words, I will hide under the covers alone, secretly sad. Shed tears.

I'm trying, but you don't notice it; I'm worried, but I don't show it on my face, I just don't want you to worry about me.

Although I am still some way from the goal you have set, I will work hard and prove it to you with practical actions!

Child, you have this determination, I'm glad that we blamed you before, it turns out that you have been working hard, but I didn't pay attention! Ha ha... "

Open the window and breathe in the fresh air outside the window, and you will find that the original communication feels so good and wonderful! The flowers turned red, the grass turned green, and the birds on the branches were there"Chirp"Keep calling. Now, I have realized that communication will not disappear because of age, and the most important thing is to have a pure heart!

Communication is really more important than anything else. Through communication, you will find that the starry sky of growth is so gorgeous and colorful! It's really beautiful!

I suggest you take a look at an article by Lin Qingxuan - "Night Talk with Father".

For example, you don't usually understand the behavior of your parents, and through conversation, you find that they really care about you and love you.

It's all inspirational, and I won't sweat.

Dear, your idea is very good, the starting point is also very good, there are ideas, there is technology to do it, this is indeed a problem that every generation will encounter, there is an estrangement with parents, it is normal, it must be a generation, just like we can't talk to primary school students now, after all, what they are learning now is different from what we learned at the time, and the environment. Actually, have you ever thought about it, some people just can't express it, you say that you can't talk to your parents in person, so why don't you use text messages or WeChat. Actually, I've been through your business.

In person, many people who are more introverted or not good at expressing themselves will not know how to say it, but they do have a lot to say in their hearts, so it is not necessarily through **dialogue, maybe you can do one**, so that parents can understand their children, and you can also let children understand their parents, you can exchange letters with each other by asking them to write their own thoughts, and ensure that they will not be angry because of the objections mentioned in the letter to settle accounts. In fact, if we do the role of parents, as long as we are more responsible, love our children, and have a little knowledge, we will hope that our children will live a safe and happy life. But life is always not satisfactory, people's lives are not as good as we think, at this time, we can only spend time together with each other.

At the same time, children should also know how to learn to grow, what you said is not right, as long as a person's life encounters some things or people, more profound, will affect that person's outlook on life, values. including the way he treats others in the future. When we are not stereotyped, whether you want to or not, we are changing.

But what we can do is change for the better.

It's good for young people to have their own ideas, and I would like to give you a few suggestions:

First of all, your father is willing to communicate with you and ask you how you feel, which is already very good, no one has the right to ask others to understand him unconditionally, and no one has the ability to fully understand you. Of course, it's a blessing to have a parent who understands you without saying it, but most of them are parents whose children don't understand what they say.

Secondly, be realistic, you want others to be recognized, and you have to make your own achievements. Your parents can't approve of you unconditionally, it's not that they think you're bad, it's that they don't think they're good enough, and your standards are placed on them, and they don't think it's worth mentioning. This is something you can't change, only through your actions.

And why they think what you do is not good enough, because they see that everyone has their own ideas like this, some are realistic, some are imaginative, the difference is that some people turn their ideas into reality, and some people are dreaming. And you don't see this, no one is stupid, everyone has their own ideas.

You just want to get their approval, but in the case of your parents, it's not realistic for you to insist that they say that they approve of you, and the root is in themselves, and they don't approve of themselves enough. But we can't always ask others to give too much for us, now that you've grown up, then rely on yourself for everything.