My girlfriend doesn t believe in love because of family reasons, what should I do?

After seeing people's hearts for a long time, she will be moved.

You can watch more movies and TV series about love, you can listen to the love experience of friends, there is really beautiful love in the world.

Parents are parents, you are you, everyone is independent and has the right to have happiness, so don't think too much.

You have to believe that your parents are the exception and that your significant other is not going to do this to you, you should talk to your friends and practice the learning experience, I think that's fine.

You have to know that the relationship between your parents is between them, and it has nothing to do with you. Look at the examples of happiness around you, love is beautiful, and you will slowly believe in love.

She is not firm and is the most serious problem. If you don't even have allies, you'll probably be completely out of action. So your first step is to make your girlfriend die for you, otherwise your love will be in jeopardy.

From the day we met, we felt that we were very fateful, and there were many similarities in hobbies, personalities and even experiences, and at that time, I felt that I had finally met the right person, with such like-minded temperament and pursuit. So we quickly fell in love. Although they have been together for a short time at the moment, they are 100% committed to their true feelings.

The good times did not last long, and when her family and relatives learned of the situation, they strongly objected. The reason is that my family conditions are not good. The landlord is from the countryside, and there is a younger brother and a younger sister at home, and the RV has not yet been bought, but he promised to buy a house (mortgage) before getting married.

I now work for a public institution in our city, and she works for a telecommunications company. Her family conditions are better, and her parents are teachers in the county. There are three main reasons for her parents' objections: first, poor economic conditions; second, there are many brothers and sisters in the family; The third is that her parents are not around, and she is afraid that no one will take care of her (because her parents are not around, she is out of town).

The problem now is that her attitude is not firm, maybe her mother is stronger, which causes her to lack assertiveness and is very submissive, and after her mother finished talking to her, she feels that she doesn't even have the intention of struggling, and everything is lost. Now I've broken up with me, but both of you are in pain, and I'm trying my best to save the relationship. I have also read a lot of similar topics on Zhihu, and I have told her a lot and sent them to her.

Now I'd love to see advice on both of our questions, thank you!

A good love needs to be happy with each other, and it will come naturally. If your girlfriend's family is against it, and she is not firm, it means that she is not very confident, give her time, and use time and your personal charm (such as a correct outlook on life, hard work and progress, respect for the old and love the young, be kind to others, etc.) to get the love you want.

Maybe in family and friendship, you will always feel pressure. This is due to the "excessive lack of love" in childhood: once you grow up, once there is warmth, you will reflexively grasp it, suffer from gains and losses, and care too much.

3. Low self-esteem, lack of self-confidence, often have a sense of powerlessness, and feel that they cannot reach the expected height. In the relationship, he always has doubts about his own worth, fearing that he will be abandoned, because of his inferiority complex, he feels that he is "worthless". 4. Too dedicated to it:

You regard love as the main thread of life, while the other party regards love as the auxiliary material of life. This gap leads to a different attitude towards the relationship, and you will always devote yourself to it, happy and sad; In contrast, the other party seems to be careless, and the so-called affection is always ruthlessly hurt, which is your pain.

Love doesn't have to be together, I don't think she's firm anymore, if you love her again, she doesn't love you, do you think it's good to be a licking dog? In this world, except for your parents who will love you and accommodate you, everything else happens for a reason.

If her parents are determined to reject you, then you can only persuade her to register with you first, and then live on her own, waiting for time to melt her parents' hard hearts. In addition, you can mobilize family and friends to do her parents' work together, plus you and her hard work.

If it's just a geographical issue, it's not a big problem. Since you have your girlfriend's support, be sincere, filial, and respectful to her parents and slowly move them (if you can wait).