How many men would genuinely buy something for their girlfriend or wife?

I think that a man who loves himself as long as he really likes something, and it is more practical and practical. He will definitely be willing to buy it for himself, even if he can't afford to buy it today. Tomorrow when I have money, I will definitely buy it for myself.

Really, though. Buy or not, and love or not. It's really not comparable..

You take love too superficially.

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I think a man buys his own things according to his girlfriend's preferences, and I think this is a very good sign that the relationship between the two of them is very good. But if you buy everything according to your girlfriend's preferences, I think it's a bit of a problem at this time, because if you don't take into account your own feelings, there will be problems in the future, so I think we also have to think about this point, love someone we have to love the house and Wu, is to consider the other party's feelings, but we also have to do something according to our own ideas, otherwise the current relationship is good, it can be like this, but if the freshness of the relationship fades into firewood, rice, oil and salt in the future, At that time, there will definitely be some problems, so I think we need to think about them. Anything can be discussed, take your time.

A man buys his own things according to his girlfriend's preferences.

Hello, glad for your question. <>

I think a man buys his own things according to his girlfriend's preferences, and I think this is a very good sign that the relationship between the two of them is very good. But if you buy everything according to your girlfriend's preferences, I think it's a bit of a problem at this time, because if you don't take into account your own feelings, there will be problems in the future, so I think we also have to think about this point, love someone we have to love the house and Wu, is to consider the other party's feelings, but we also have to do something according to our own ideas, otherwise the current relationship is good, it can be like this, but if the freshness of the relationship fades into firewood, rice, oil and salt in the future, At that time, there will definitely be some problems, so I think we need to think about them. Anything can be discussed, take your time.

Yes, I'm just afraid of these problems.

Yes, it doesn't matter, once we are aware of these problems, we can solve them. In the future, we will be a little confident in our happiness, and we will just find problems and solve them<>

Summary. It's normal for a man to buy things with his own money and buy what he likes first. Secondly, buying something for his girlfriend shows that he is willing to pay for her.

Think about it from another perspective, if you are a woman and you are short of something, then after you pay your salary, the first thing that comes to mind is to buy the thing you lack or the item you like as soon as possible? In addition, I am willing to buy a gift for my boyfriend, is it because I have him in my heart? If your first thought is to buy things for the other person and give up buying what you want for yourself, it means that you only have the other person in your eyes and not yourself.

This usually happens to infatuated women, and there are fewer boys.

It's normal for a man to buy things with his own money and buy what he likes first. Secondly, buying something for his girlfriend shows that he is willing to pay for her. Think about it from another perspective, if you are a woman and you are short of something, then after you pay your salary, the first thing that comes to mind is to buy the thing you lack or the item you like as soon as possible?

In addition, I am willing to buy a gift for my boyfriend, is it because I have him in my heart? If your first thought is to buy things for the other person and give up buying what you want for yourself, it means that you only have the other person in your eyes and not yourself. This usually happens to infatuated women, and there are fewer boys.

As a guy, I haven't seen the guy next to me who keeps asking his woman to buy him something, unless you're just his spare tire. A woman who loves her deeply, can't wait to give her the whole world, she is not willing to suffer a little more for her, love is mutual, if he also loves you, then he will often buy you things.

As a guy, I haven't seen the guy next to me who keeps asking his woman to buy him something, unless you're just his spare tire. A woman who loves her deeply, can't wait to give her the whole world, she is not willing to suffer a little more for her, love is mutual, if he also loves you, then he will often buy you things.

Whether it is material or spiritual, men and women generally pay equally, and men pay a little more, in this case, the emotional experience of the two is the best, and the relationship develops most smoothly. If there is an imbalance in the pay, no matter which side of the bias is unbalanced, it is very likely that your intimacy will be derailed from the right track, or it will make a noise, or it will slow down, or it will lead to overturning. So, does your boyfriend always ask you to buy him something = he always buys you something?

If it is, it is balanced, if it is not, it is unbalanced, it is not normal.

Summary. Hello, if this is really a bit strict with wives, men and women have different visions and hobbies in all aspects. Take it for me, when I'm hesitant to buy clothes, I ask my husband to choose.

He chose decisively, and he didn't buy what he didn't choose. Maybe your husband thinks the same as me, and when hesitating, I asked you to choose it, in order to eliminate mumbling. Actually, since you care so much, just tell him.

Or if it's not very valuable, you can buy the white one again.

Hello, if this is really a bit strict with wives, there are differences between men's and women's visions and hobbies. Take it for me, when I'm hesitant to buy clothes, I ask my husband to choose. He chose decisively and did not buy what he did not choose.

Maybe your husband thinks the same as me, and when hesitating, I asked you to choose it, in order to eliminate mumbling. Actually, since you care so much, just sue him directly. Or if it's not very valuable, you can buy the white one again.

Do I think it's okay for me to be a man like this? Because I'm also an unassertive debater, I'm looking for a man like this to dig indiscriminately, and I don't know what our days will be like in the future.

Sometimes such a man makes people feel unproductive.

Didn't make much of a difference.

It's hard to find someone like that.

Teacher, are you saying that such an unproductive man is hard to find?

It's not hard to find, but few people like men who don't have a chance.

One situation is that the girlfriend does not pay much attention to the boyfriend, and the boyfriend uses this to get the attention of the girl, otherwise the man is very picky, or the man is a **.

In the first case, I feel that it is more reasonable to ask my girlfriend to buy something for herself. In this case, the psychology of boys should be the same as some girls, for example, if you look at other people's boyfriends, they have girlfriends to give gifts on their birthdays, why don't you buy me gifts for my birthday? In this case, the boy may ask the girl to buy him some gifts, mainly to prove the importance of the boy in the girl's mind, and on the other hand, to show off to his friends

You see, I'm also someone I love with a girlfriend. "Of course, in general, the first case is relatively rare, because the average boy may not care so much.

In another case, maybe the boyfriend is very picky and unwilling to spend money by himself, so he will ask his girlfriend to buy things!

The most important point, and one that all female compatriots need to pay attention to, is that this man may be a **. Because I have a friend who was deceived by such a scumbag. When the two of them are together, this guy always asks this girl to buy him things for various reasons, and when the two of them are together, whether it is eating or shopping, this girl pays for it.

My friend is also stupid, just such a man, and he has been with him for more than two years. In the end, it was my friend who accidentally discovered that the boy was splitting his legs. In other words, he takes my friend's money every day to buy things and coax another person, what a scumbag.