On the issue of wedding bride price, let s help analyze it

First of all, whether to accept the wedding bride price or not is a matter of customs and habits, and the bride price can be more or less, but if there is such a custom, there is no need to consider the question of whether to receive the bride price;

Secondly, since the bride price should be received, how much should be received? If the woman's parents are satisfied, it is appropriate for the man's parents to accept it; In fact, I think that whether or not to accept the bride price is a trivial matter, and the key is to receive the bride price, whether the amount of the bride price is acceptable to both parents, will affect the relationship between the two parents, the views of the parents on their prospective son-in-law and prospective daughter-in-law, and even their future status at home, whether the family relationship is harmonious and ......

Finally, no matter how they get married, both men and women have the obligation to support their parents, and they still need to work together to build their own big family!

Happy newlyweds!

Hehe, you're not selling yourself.

It depends on the other party's family conditions.

And it depends on his family's attitude towards the bride price.

It is also up to you to choose between him and the bride price.

No! This is not the way to alleviate the situation of the family!

You've got the wrong starting point!

After you get married, your parents will be his parents, and you can give more of your earnings to your parents until your brother works.

But for the sake of his parents, asking his parents to pay for it, the point of view is terrible, and he will be sad. Of course, his family is very rich, so he won't talk about that. But it's all difficult.

Your thinking has been fundamentally like this, which proves that your thinking is still very feudal!

You love him, and of course you love his parents! His family is also a farmer, and he has already paid you a down payment, if you have a lot of money, and his family concept is very heavy, he will definitely give you a gift If you don't give it, it must be that the family really can't take it So don't worry, don't take the initiative to ask for it, everything is according to his parents' will!

If you want it, of course, you can, if you don't want to, forget it, in fact, when two people get married, they are a family, if because of the bride price, the man doesn't want to give it, but because the woman wants it, he still gives it, even if he gets married, the man will have a shadow in his heart, but it will have an impact on the future life of the two of you.

Now that the man has paid the down payment, the house is also the joint property of the two of you after marriage, think about it, the key is to consider the long-term life, and you can't affect the future because of the small things in front of you!!