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Many men prefer to marry older leftover women, because their marriage records are blank, and their emotional needs may be more simple, rather than looking for someone to pick up the mess.
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I think it depends on the specific situation, mainly to see which one is more beautiful, men are actually visual animals, whether it is an older leftover woman or a second-married woman, they only like to look good.
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Personally, if I don't find the right person by then, I would prefer to choose a second-married woman. Because if you marry someone older than us, you may have a series of problems later in life. But when you marry a woman who is married to a second marriage, they know how to take care of the family better, and they will be very comfortable with each other.
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I don't think it matters, as long as they meet their eyes and two people are suitable for each other, it doesn't matter. The man still wants to find an eighteen-year-old little sister in his heart, after all, she is young and beautiful.
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The man's inner thought is that he is an older leftover woman! Most of the older leftover women are busy with work and don't have time to fall in love, so they are left.
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Older leftover women can only be disposed of at a reduced price, otherwise they will not be able to marry for the rest of their lives.
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When I was younger, I was busy with my career, and I thought it would never be too late to wait until I had a career and then prepare for my wedding. Time flies too fast, I will be 30 years old in a flash, and the marriage can not be delayed any longer, and there should be a family of my own at this age. Nowadays, there are many older leftover women and second-married women, if you want to choose, I still choose older leftover women.
How? I think that second-married women have been emotionally damaged, and there is a big dark shadow in their hearts, and it is generally difficult to get out. This is not the case with older leftover women, many older leftover women are actually quite good, and their own situation is good, just because they have not met the right person, delaying their youth.
If the relationship between the two is suitable, it is very easy to run in together, and they will be more harmonious after marriage.
I hope to find a second-married woman who can love me and take care of myself. Some people may laugh at it, but I think everyone has their own inner thoughts. Most of the benefits of appearance of older girls can be, so many standards can be left, and recognition has a lot to do with temperament.
The vast majority of older leftover women don't know how to take care of people, which is not in line with my opinion. A second-married woman has had an unsuccessful marriage, and she knows how to cherish her marriage and take care of a man more intimately.
Older leftover women and second-married women have their own advantages, older leftover women have not experienced marriage, although a little arrogant, but for men who have experienced marriage, it is able to run in the period. Most of the second-married women are emotionally hurt, lack a sense of trust in marriage, and have some difficulty during the run-in period, but they know how to take care of people better. However, the relationship between the second-married woman is complicated, and she may keep in touch with the previous family, and maybe one day her ex-husband will come to the door, then it will be more embarrassing.
But I'm also a divorced man, I don't pay too much attention to the pros and cons, it's all second marriage, in the final analysis, it's a companion, and I can't be as harsh as when I was young. What I value most is personality and character, if these two aspects are based on, I will not mind an older leftover woman or a second-married woman.
Whether it is an older leftover woman or a second-married woman, men will choose the best according to their own situation. Therefore, beauties should know that no matter what kind of environment they are in, they must make themselves live well, and only in this way can you attract excellent men. Remember the saying, if the flower blooms, the breeze comes.
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Many men feel that older leftover women are not as good as second-married women, because they all feel that older leftover women may have psychological problems.
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Personally, I think I still prefer older leftover women, after all, second-married women are too shrewd, and many things are calculated more thoroughly.
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Mr. Jiang is thirty years old and has never been married, because he is busy with the catering business, his girlfriend thinks he doesn't pay attention to him, so he separates from him. Mr. Jiang was too lazy to take the initiative to chase the girl as before, and simply entrusted relatives and friends to help find a woman on a blind date. His criteria are very clear, give priority to women of the same age and conditions as himself, if there is really none, relax the conditions, you can accept second-married women, but never find older leftover women.
Mr. Jiang said that it is not that he looks down on the older leftover women, but because in his opinion, the psychological and physical aspects of the older leftover women are not suitable for marriage. Let's talk about psychology first, the psychology of many older leftover women is a little distorted, they can't face reality, and they want to marry high-quality rich men, but their mentality is wrong. What's more, some older leftover women are particularly materialistic, and the blind date is asking for a house, a car, and a bride price, how can there be such a good thing in this world?
When you get married, you can't have nothing, and you still blindly ask for it. Speaking of the body, in Mr. Jiang's opinion, the physical quality of older leftover women is definitely not as good as that of young women, the older the woman, it will be difficult to have children, as the only child in the family, it is impossible for him to get married without children. After such a trade-off, Mr. Jiang believes that even if he really can't find a first-married woman with the same conditions as himself in all aspects, then he would rather choose a second-married woman than a leftover woman who is old and old.
In his eyes, a second-married woman should be more reliable in marriage and will live. Even if a second-married woman has children, he can accept it, as long as the woman is kind, there is no problem in all aspects of her own quality and ability. Mr. Jiang said that he has the financial conditions and it will not be a problem to raise an extra child, at least the marriage can be stable.
If you are looking for older leftover women, whether they can have children is another matter, I am afraid that they will not have the life of a princess and have a princess disease, and they will not do anything in life, so what's the use? Therefore, Mr. Jiang's opinion is very clear, he would rather choose a second-married daughter than an older leftover woman.
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If the woman herself has the same conditions, of course the man still hopes, the woman is best not married, if it is an older woman who is a woman, as long as two people love each other, it is also very suitable, after all, it is the first time to get married, there is no barrier in the heart, if the other party is a second marriage or even with children, the man will definitely mind.
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Hello! This question varies from person to person. Everyone has different preferences and different choices.
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For people who are married for the first time, there is no one who likes people who are married for the second time. ......Therefore, even if you are older, it is better than a second marriage. ......It's as simple as that.
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