As a woman, should you choose love or money?

..Since you have chosen, you should stick to it, because in the face of love and money, you have chosen love and given up money, the road of love may not be very easy to walk, but money can be earned, family affection can not be measured by money, only to see if your boyfriend is angry, he can not be smart only You must learn to be diligent, you must bear hardships and stand hard work, have the mentality to change the status quo of your life, and have confidence! Sincerely, sincerely!

Money can be earned! Even if you are penniless, as long as you have this, I feel that you can follow him steadily, no matter where you go, your future life will definitely be very happy. It's not easy to love each other!

Cherish it. There are not many such people in this society now.

Let's break it down this way.

It's a very important decision to see if your boyfriend is worth your effort.

First of all, you have a relationship foundation for six years, and the relationship foundation is strong, which is a very important factor (the year you first met is not true love).

Second, his father's involvement in the purchase of your matrimonial house proves that their family accepts you and approves of you.

Third, from what you say, you can feel that your boyfriend is willing to provide for the house, and he is still responsible, but his job is mediocre and his income is not high.

Fourth, you say that you feel wronged, and it's true that you're just a little woman, and it's normal to want love and enjoyment, but your current situation is special.

If you think you can bear it, go ahead and tell your boyfriend about your suffering, seek emotional solace, and hope that he understands you and bears it with you.

If you can't bear it and lack confidence in your married life, you should talk about it as soon as possible.

Next is an important point about your boyfriend.

You need to know whether he is self-motivated, whether he is willing to work hard, whether he has a plan for the future before marriage, and whether he has the courage to continue to take on important responsibilities in the future.

Before marriage, these must be communicated and understood, and each other can only be married to life, otherwise it will be very troublesome to regret it after the beginning.

Thinking that it was already a family and marriage at that time, it was not easy to form a family, think twice.

I don't know if you've heard of a love phrase often said by the ancients, today's people:

Lovers eventually become married.

I don't know if you agree with this sentence No?

So let's decipher the phrase, family means husband and wife. (Marriage) lovers, couples who love each other. (Love).

It can be understood from this that love is the foundation of marriage, and without love, no matter how much wealth you have, it will not last long.

Besides, it's really not easy for two people to come together. The Buddha said that it is really not easy to look back countless times in the past life and this life, and accumulate countless good fortunes and good karma, in exchange for love in this life, and come together.

The happiest thing in the world is not the result, I think it should be the process.

Life is full of bitterness and happiness, and it is a wonderful thing to be able to help each other and know each other, don't you say?

It's better not to get married yet, the best boyfriend and girlfriend are pretty good, let's talk about it after a while. If he likes you, it doesn't matter how poor you are. But don't rush to get married.

I really don't know how women nowadays are so realistic, does having no money and no car mean that he has no money for the rest of his life? Won't a man without a house or a car give happiness to the woman she loves? Will those men who have a house and a car give you happiness?

If you only measure love by money, then you will eventually become a slave of money, and you will become the plaything of the rich. For a woman, having a man who has always loved her is the most important thing, there are several people who are born with money, cherish your love, don't let money pull the mind from the mix!

You are full of love and water, your situation is not bad, as long as the two of you are happy together, what else do you envy.

For women, love and money are both very important, but love is unattainable, and it may not be sought, and money can be created with their own efforts.

In marriage, love is the cornerstone of marriage, money can escort life, and the lack of one of them makes people feel that life is no longer perfect. In fact, some people are going through the tribulations of life, they may have love, but they do not have the blessing of money, in their eyes, love is not a necessity, but money is the need for life, so they will think that money is more important, will. Thinking about whether it was worth it when I was desperate for love and didn't think about the consequences of money, but for the sake of money, marrying someone I didn't love and suffering from the emptiness and indifference of feelings seemed to be like a year.

From this point of view, love and money are both very important in comparison, but if it were for me, I would still choose love.

The difference between love and money is that it is difficult to continue without economic maintenance in life, but without love, two people can still live. From the perspective of life, money is indeed more important, but from the perspective of happiness in life, love seems to come in the long run. With the marriage and affection of love, a person will be full of hope for the future, will have the motivation to struggle, and can feel the warmth of each other in ordinary days.

Although everyone is chasing fame and fortune, returning to the essence of life still needs emotional nourishment.

However, what everyone wants is the coexistence of love and economy, find a person who loves and loves themselves, and at the same time continue to make their own efforts at work to escort their future career and life, so as to ensure that they can live in a happy state, so as not to face the embarrassment of choosing between love and money.

I think it's money, don't say anything material, money can solve 90% of the problems in this world, but love cannot. And women can also live independently, there is no need for love.

Love and money are both very important to women, money can make women financially independent and have their own funds, and love can make women live happier lives.

Personally, I think love is more important to them, many women are willing to give everything when facing feelings, leave money behind, and give everything in the relationship, but it is also a part that varies from person to person, women love money very much.

I think both are very important, life needs money, and two people need to get along better with each other needs to have an emotional foundation.