What does it mean for a boyfriend to educate himself? Should it cost his money? 15

Updated on society 2024-04-11
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think people are kind enough to buy you clothes, why not? Isn't that more hurtful?

    All men have a little machismo in their hearts. I'm not afraid. As long as you teach well.

    I think this man is very reliable and worthy of deep friendship. Even though you think it hurts you a little bit when he talks and acts, but you don't say it or hint at him, how can he know? This kind of man I think it's good to be more coquettish, I have opinions and ideas, to use a joking tone, coquettish, "I'm going to be very sad if you say that, aren't people who haven't graduated and have no financial strength yet?"

    Otherwise. Don't you like that, too? If you repackage the packaging, won't you become a heartthrob? ”

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Eh, you're going to be obedient to him, I'm right.

    A man can't be obedient to him like that, you know, he doesn't have that feeling of cherishing you in his heart.

    You have to be assertive, don't listen to him for everything, you say you're stupid, he looks like he's been working for many years There are too many people in contact, and the pursuit must be higher, It's not that he doesn't love you It's not that he doesn't like you, he just wants to turn you into the perfect goddess in his mind, But she doesn't care what you think in your heart, it's because you're stupid... Hehe, just kidding

    In the future, you can adjust his appetite as well.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think it's a bit of a macho to say that you don't dress well, maybe he said that buying you things makes him motivated, because he is afraid that you will be embarrassed to spend his money. Saying that you don't trust others casually is afraid that you will be deceived.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Actually, it's not machismo anymore You also said before that you are still in school Although you can't fully believe what he says to you, but listening to what you say, his words are still very reasonable, as for getting along, it's natural to be fine, there's no need for what you don't like, but accept it in order to cater to him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It should be acceptable, first of all he has the ability to buy you clothes. Secondly, the work environment around him (colleagues and the like) is relatively high-end, and he needs his girlfriend the same (people's vanity is the same), if you still want to be with him, then you can adapt to him or give him some advice or something.

    The full text is hand-typed and wants to give points ( o ).

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Such a lewd man, don't say it next time, just dump him yourself!! Originally, my questions were generally more detailed, and I was really speechless for such a!!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's best to be vigilant, because people online can't be trusted. For your own personal safety, it is recommended that you do not do it. If you do, be sure not to tell him about your privacy, lest he get anything.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You should find a time to sit down with him and have a good chat and hear what he thinks in his heart. You can also tell him what is in your heart.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    College students! As a sophomore, I think you have to be careful, a lot of things are easy to lose yourself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you live together, you don't do anything and spend together.

    Otherwise, it will be AA Of course, the boundary is not very clear, such as this time he invited you to dinner Next time you invite him to dinner The normal situation is still more male.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Personally, I think.

    The AA system is good, but sometimes it isolates a kind of care between people, and sometimes it is a benefit to be willing to spend his money.

    If you do things on the basis of a degree, it will be perfect.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Let's see which one

    If he is rich, it doesn't matter if he spends it.

    If you want to buy something for your own use, you can go out yourself. The rest is better for him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The AA system is better or the male spends 1 point more

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    He does. It doesn't matter. ~!

    But sometimes you have to pay a little bit of money.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think guys should pay for things like going out to eat together and riding in the car, and they shouldn't pay for other things for their own use.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    People inevitably spend money in life, but when to spend it, when not to spend it, and how much to spend are problems that everyone often encounters.

    Your boyfriend's money depends on your relationship, his economic conditions, his purpose, and your needs, and different situations are treated differently.

    But there is one thing to grasp, that is, the standard of life, to treat each other sincerely, to put yourself in each other's shoes, this problem is not difficult to solve. Your ideas have proved this, you have considered him, you have basic rules of conduct, I believe you, you are by no means a person who is unreasonable and takes the opportunity to make a fortune. Remember, both rejection and insatiability are not advisable.

    Be mindful and don't care about what others are saying. Otherwise, your boyfriend will have thoughts in his heart, at least he will think that you don't know how to manage money. Think about it, is there less tragedy when you get married and worry about money or break up unhappily?

    Remember, even if it is a penny to spend on others, you are also getting help and love from others. How should I be honest with each other?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It depends on your current situation, if your relationship has been confirmed, and you will talk about marriage, there is nothing wrong with spending your boyfriend's money. However, you have to control how much you spend, and you can spend what you need, but you can't spend too much or extravagantly. You feel that you can't open your mouth to ask for money, which means that you are a person with strong self-esteem, so you should spend what you should spend, and don't spend what you shouldn't spend, otherwise, if your boyfriend rejects you, you will be sad, and you will not be able to ask for it in the future.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If your income is not high or you have no income, there is no problem with spending your boyfriend's money appropriately, but you can't spend it indiscriminately - it doesn't look like you, your boyfriend gives you money, which means that he really likes you, as long as you are sincere to your boyfriend, you don't have to divide each other too much.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's up to the individual, if it were me, I wouldn't spend his money, because I can make money by myself, unless he gives it himself, if you want to ask your boyfriend for money, it's impossible, and if your boyfriend gives it by himself and asks him if it's two meanings, I personally think that if you want to ask him for money, it's best not to.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Men will be a bit machismo, and they like you, not your clothes, but men like their girlfriends to be pretty, and it is also a kind of capital to show off outside.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    And it seems to me that it's better not to be honest, at least you're not sure if you're going to get married, and when you're a family, you'll find that things are happier, that's just my opinion, and it's up to you in the end.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    He wants you to be in sync with him! The gap between two people is small, and it is easy to get along. I'm afraid you won't be able to keep up with him.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Don't ask for it, eldest sister, forget it, he doesn't consider your feelings, why should he love you! The most important thing is whether he loves you or not, don't you have a mind of your own? Led by your boyfriend!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Actually, he can also be said to care about you!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    He spends it if he wants, and it's okay if you don't take the initiative to spend.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's best to save money for him before he gets married, after all, no one knows what will happen in the future, don't lose yourself.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Hello, I personally think that when two people are together, it is normal for the man to pay for it, in other words, no man needs a woman to support him. On the one hand, it can be seen that the man is generous, and on the other hand, it can also be seen that the man is willing to spend money on you and buy you things.

    If you feel that you owe a little bit to the other party for spending your boyfriend's money, it can only mean that you still have most of the friendship with him, treat the other party as an outsider, and don't want to owe too much to others.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    As his girlfriend, you should spend his money. Usually you can pay for him, but sometimes you can also give him a little money and buy him some small gifts or something. But don't refuse to spend his money too much.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I think it's better not to spend it, and if he insists on paying, it would be nice to buy something of similar value and give it back to him.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Actually, as a girl, I don't think I want to spend the money on the men's ticket, but I hope he takes the initiative to spend it for me, it won't affect the relationship.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    In this way, you can occasionally use your own and most can spend his.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Now, lovers, what kind of aa system should be used to not be lovers, but also to be friends?

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I think you can spend it if you have a stable relationship, because sooner or later he will be your husband.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You have to understand a sentence, if you don't spend, there will always be other women to help him spend.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Look at the appropriate flowers yourself, and you won't spend them if they're too valuable or something.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Be careful, take advantage of the big loss,

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Personally, I think that during the relationship, a small amount of money can be accepted appropriately, and a large amount of money should be rejected, because it is difficult to say anything in the future, and if you break up, you always feel that you owe someone else.

    And whether it should be a question or not, it depends on what kind of feelings. I think as a man, if his financial ability allows, it is necessary to spend a little money on his girlfriend, women are born to spend money, men are born to earn money for women to spend, the premise must be affordable for men, not unlimited and uncontrolled. As long as you pay attention to this degree, men will have face and girls will be happy.

    But if a woman doesn't care whether a man has money or not, only cares about her own consumption needs, and blindly consumes, when a man can't bear it, there will be a full crisis, which will dilute the emotion, and eventually receive a certain amount of damage, and the conflict will intensify. Therefore, when consuming, women should fully consider men's economic ability and take into account men's economic conditions, grasp the specific details such as whether they should spend, how to spend, and when to spend.

    Therefore, whether to spend men's money or not, I personally think that this is originally a proposition with a premise, but now many women avoid the important and light, selfish, and privately delete what women should do, and only say the conditions for spending men's money that are beneficial to themselves. In the end, it has become that women should spend men's money, and they only need to be beautiful, which is simply a hooligan's behavior.

    In the past, women spent men's money because women had no way to work and could only be at home, but women at home also needed to take on a lot of things at home.

    But now many lazy women have taken the opportunity of the feminist revolution to launch such a poisonous proposition that seems reasonable, but is actually a scoundrel. Why should a woman spend a man's money? Please, people who think like this, you figure it out, no one owes you, you are not anyone's ancestor, no one is obliged to give you up, you have to pay if you want to enjoy it, if you want to spend a man's money, you have to bring the equivalent to this man, it can be spiritual or material.

    Wanting to do nothing and just spend a man's money, I just want to say that such thinking is worse than a scoundrel.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    The question was faded, and my girlfriend should pay me back.

    The question is not. Answer: Well, how long have you been talking? He broke up with you, so how much money was spent can be returned, if he doesn't pay it back, you can collect all the records of the transfer. You can go and sue him.

    Can you describe to the teacher that you haven't broken up yet, right? You sometimes transfer money to him to spend, and you don't want to spend too much money on him, the current relationship between you. Is it still normal?

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Should a girl spend her boyfriend's money?

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    You can spend some of your boyfriend's money when you're in love, but you shouldn't let your boyfriend bear all the cost of the relationship, and if he pays for the meal, you'd better take the initiative to pay for the movie tickets, so that the two of you can go the long way.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    When you are in love, if your boyfriend is more strapped and your conditions are better than the other person, you should not spend your boyfriend's money. If the boy has more money and he intends to spend money for you, it is acceptable to spend your boyfriend's money appropriately.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    I think you can spend your boyfriend's money when you're in love, because since you're in love, it's normal for him to spend money on you, and if you feel uneasy inside, you can also spend money on him, so that both of you will be happy and feel each other's love.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    In love, you should spend your boyfriend's money, but you shouldn't spend it all, you shouldn't deliberately care about whose money is spent, and who pays when it's convenient to pay.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    If your boyfriend is willing and can afford it, you can spend your boyfriend's money, if it exceeds the level that the other party can afford, or if the other party is unwilling, don't spend his money.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    The boyfriend's money when he is in love must be spent, it's a matter of how much money is spent, and when he is in love, boys generally seem to be gentlemen and will take the initiative to pay for girls, so it is natural for girls to spend boys' money.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    I think it should be spent on some of the money, because guys don't want to be with you because of your independence and self-improvement, and most of them are women who are small birds to reflect his machismo. If you don't spend his money, then he will feel that he has nothing to lose in this relationship anyway, and breaking up is a matter of minutes.

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