Urgent... Please help! Is it necessary to support the elderly again?

I think you're looking for a bit of a curse, both legally and morally.

1. Parents are divorced, no matter what reason they are divorced, they are the parents who gave birth to you and raised you.

2. You quarrel with your father, which is understandable, but never contact, there is no need for this, after all, he is your father, as the old saying goes: there is no overnight feud between parents and children.

3. It can only be said that your psychological age is still young, your understanding of family affection is not deep, and you take family affection too lightly.

4. The state supports hair very clearly, unless you don't have any financial **, such as death or imprisonment.

5. Listening to what you said, I don't think it's really necessary for a father to sue such a child, because there is no point at all, even if the child pays alimony, this money will make you feel that you have no self-esteem.

6. The old man never wants money and a house anymore, because that's your father.

7. If you can't get through, you will go to the door in person, apologize honestly and sincerely, and your parents will not hold a grudge.

Reflect on how to be a child, you are about to get married, and you will need parents in the future, how do you educate your children? If your child knew how you treated your parents, how would he view you?

Okay, everything that needs to be said has been said, pay attention to the specifics and take it yourself.

Sometimes the scales of conscience are fairer than the law.

I wish you a happy family.

Of course, you have to support, your parents are divorced, but after all, they raised you before you were 18 years old, and they are also your parents in law, it's just that they don't live together, he has nothing to say to sue you, and it should be, unless he abandoned you when you were a child, or legally dissolved the father-son relationship. Your dad doesn't pick you up, maybe he's still angry with you, so let's go find him in person.

It's not necessary. It doesn't matter what they do to you, after all, it's the one who gave birth to you! Out of conscience!

Legal analysis: To support the elderly, the necessary daily necessities and expenses should be provided for the elderly financially, and the elderly should be respected, cared for and cared for in life, spiritually and emotionally. Adult children who can afford it, regardless of gender, married or unmarried, shall make every effort in accordance with the law to fulfil this obligation until the death of their parents when their parents need support.

Parents have a duty to upbring, educate and protect their minor children. Adult children have an obligation to their parents to support, support and protect them.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 26: Parents have the obligation to raise, educate, and protect their minor children. Adult children have an obligation to their parents to support, support and protect them.

Article 1067:Where parents do not perform their obligation to support them, minor children or adult children who are unable to live independently have the right to demand that their parents pay child support. Parents who fail to fulfill their obligation to support their adult children, or who lack the ability to work or who have difficulties in living, have the right to demand maintenance from their adult children.

Supporting the elderly must be attentive, usually do not worry about it will be more troublesome in the future, as children we still have to consider the heart and conditions of the elderly, I have not encountered such a situation, but you can experience this feeling, because it is still more common around us.

Serving the elderly is not an easy task, nor does it depend on words, but requires a lot of energy and time, and more perseverance.

A person will have negative emotions for a long time, the so-called negative, that is, the emotional experience that is not positive and is not conducive to our physical and mental health, such an emotional experience is often encountered by the children who have been serving the elderly for a long time.

Here's an example:

A friend, her mother-in-law died, and her father-in-law was alone in his hometown, which made people very uneasy, although his father-in-law was only 71 years old, he was very healthy, and he had made a lifetime of food and spine, and there was no problem in taking care of himself, but after all, there was no child by his side.

In the past, when my mother-in-law was alive, although she spent half of her time in the hospital and recuperated in the children's house in the city after being discharged from the hospital, she was at home at least half of the time, and the home was still at least like a home. At first, a friend suggested renting a house for his father-in-law in a place very close to his home, cooking for his father-in-law after work, and cleaning up after eating with his father-in-law. In this way, it is not only convenient to take care of the father-in-law, but also have their own lives without disturbing each other.

It can involve expensive rent and living expenses, and no one answers. So, she had to return the lost deposit of the rented house. Mr. Friend and Friend Consult:

Anyway, no one cares, and the rent is also paid for by themselves, and the two children will go to college soon, so it is the time to spend money, so it is better to come and live with them.

After picking up, my father-in-law, who had been cooking well, stopped cooking, and even if his friends didn't make ready-made meals, he didn't eat. Friends can only often wrap dumplings or wontons and stuff the refrigerator for their father-in-law to make breakfast, lunch, make double portions every night when cooking, and trouble my father-in-law to steam or heat it at noon the next day.

If her father-in-law is not there, she doesn't have to rush home when she is exhausted from work every day, if her father-in-law is not there, a bowl of noodles can be solved when she is too busy and tired, and she really doesn't want to eat, so she can not do it, but the hateful thing is that after taking it, don't say that other sons help to share it, and even the medical expenses and living expenses of the elderly have no one to fulfill their responsibilities and obligations.

If it were you, what would your personal emotions be? You are bound to be anxious and upset. Then you will feel exhausted, and you don't know when it's going to be a head.