How can boys and girls be simple good friends, best friends?

It's okay, brother

It's no wonder that this kind of thing is a boy, it's really your best friend who doesn't grasp the scale, and a boy at this age is actually an imbecile with emotional intelligence, and he can't handle or even judge the severity of emotions, whether it's true or false. And girls tend to be more mature in this area. So you first have to judge whether your best friend really has that deep feelings for you, or if she is just one of her friends.

It's good that you can have this view of right and wrong.

However, you have to tell your girlfriend that it's better to confess to her.

Be honest and sincere, maybe she can be empathetic and help you figure it out.

On the other hand, you also have to tell the female friend you are ambiguous about keeping your distance recently, because you may be suspected of stepping on two boats. It would be best if she could leave compassionately, because it would not hurt any of you deeply.

Anyway, I'm the original partner who supports you and your girlfriend. You take advantage of it.

lz That's not like falling in love with her, when the girl is hurt, the boy has an instinctive desire to protect, that's all, this kind of feeling, be sensible, just control it.

You can hint to her that you still continue to be friends You can comfort her at any time Needless to say more Clever people can understand it Unless she intends to be with you Then you don't have to think too much Just go with this feeling Feelings can't deceive people and can't deceive yourself

Hope that helps LZ.

Do you like both? If that's the case, then what's so good about this question. I think you should figure it out.

Which one do you really prefer. Do you understand which of them is more important and precious to you? Sometimes don't be shaken by a momentary feeling.

Sometimes you also know that respecting others is respecting yourself. I advise you to make a decision sooner rather than later. Otherwise, you may end up having more discomfort.

Keep a good distance When there is little, the blood is undecided, and the ring is in color!

Sometimes it's not one person who misses out, it's a lifetime.

Look at your heart, you get along with your girlfriend more, it won't be after a long time, I can't understand why you boys can be multitasking, and having her in your heart and being very heavy will not be when you do anything.

Think about it first, set some principles for yourself, and don't go beyond them in anything.

Nothing like this will happen to naïve, stupid, sensible men.

Men and women, in general, do not have a pure friendship.

It's good to follow the feeling- -What do you want to do so much? You're not tired of living like this?

It's not a boyfriend or girlfriend.

Hello or waiting, boys and girls maintain a good friendship relationship, when getting along, don't always stick together, there must be a certain sense of distance, not far and not close to the distance will get along better, because long-term getting along often together will produce some unnecessary troubles, there will be some contradictions, so to keep a distance not far away. Don't have expectations between the sexes, get along with girls like buddies, and brotherly feelings must get along to keep this friendship alive, if you have different ideas about girls, this friendship can't be kept simple. Do the following:

First, men and women are friends who grew up together, and they share the same values and worldview, and men and women can cherish each other. The interaction between people, whether they are of the same sex or the opposite sex, in order to maintain a long-term and stable relationship between each other, must be the result of the joint efforts of both parties.

Second, friends should know how to understand each other. Everyone is this independent, friends usually because of their own living conditions, can not often contact each other, busy, do not even have time to reply to each other's messages, when the other party is sad, can not be with each other's side, must know how to understand each other, do not rely too much on each other.

Third, to maintain a long-term friendship between friends of the opposite sex, the most important thing is to grasp the distance and scale of getting along. In the friendship between boyfriend and girlfriend, you must figure out your own emotions, that is, whether you have more feelings for each other than between friends. Men and women can become good friends, both sides must appreciate each other, once this appreciation is invested in other emotions, then, this friendship will no longer be as simple as friends, both of you are likely to come together, if you both have no object, the probability will be higher.

Therefore, if a boy wants to maintain a long-term friendship with a girl, he must keep a distance from the other party after recognizing his feelings, and don't let the other party have unnecessary misunderstandings. To a certain extent, since they are good friends, there is no expectation and idea that there is a opposite sex, just like the relationship between good brothers is relatively simple, and the friendship will last for a long time.

If the direction of development is ordinary friends, then friends of the opposite sex should pay more attention to a few points:

1. It does not involve monetary transactions, such as unsecured loans, gifts of valuables, etc.

2. Do not go out alone with each other unless necessary, especially watching movies, eating, etc.

3. Introduce your other half (or boyfriend and girlfriend) to let him know that Yan Cheng has such a person.

4. Behave and speak generously and decoly, never be ambiguous, let alone too intimate, so as not to misunderstand, after all, most of them are laypeople, and they should be avoided.

That's pretty much all for ordinary friends.

Friendship lasts longer than love, right? So what does the reality look like? According to common sense, the ultimate goal of falling in love is to get married and form a family.

In other words, it is to transform love into a more complex and profound family relationship. So, who lasts longer in family and friendship? There is no doubt that family affection crushes friendship from thickness to breadth.

So, a rough conclusion is that being a couple lasts longer than being friends. Therefore, people who will say that they have been friends longer than lovers, whether they are men or women, they have not considered establishing a deeper and more intimate relationship with the person they are talking to, and their so-called longevity does not make sense logically, that is, they are making excuses for perfunctory, nothing more.

Summary: This kind of words that sound a little reasonable, but in fact, they can't resist scrutiny, and generally say something that is difficult to say in a euphemistic way. For example, pure friendship and male girlfriends are also like orange spine smiles.

It is to give an identity or relationship to someone who likes himself, but he doesn't like it, in essence, it is no different from a spare tire. Not interested, will not come close. So, the next time you see or hear something like this, it's likely that the person saying it is a tactful refusal to enter into a higher-level relationship.

Why is it very likely, because some people will say the same thing because of vanity, but it doesn't mean anything.

I think that boys and girls maintain a good friendship relationship, when getting along, don't always stick together, there must be a certain sense of distance, not far and not close to the distance will get along better, because long-term getting along often together will produce some unnecessary troubles, there will be some contradictions, so to keep a distance not far away. Don't have expectations between the sexes, get along with girls like buddies, and brotherly feelings must get along to keep this friendship alive, if you have a different idea about girls, this friendship can't remain simple.

I think 16. If you are the ship that is ready to be moored in my dreams, I would like to be the quiet bay, swinging with gentle waves and stretching the charming beach.

17. I want to sublimate the extremely short poem of my love for you into a long life essay.

18. I thought the sky was blue, but he was gray. I thought my heart was quiet, but he was beating. I really miss you!

19. My love for you will remain unchanged until the end of the world.

Get along with each other to grasp the scale, don't be ambiguous,