Can a boy and a girl be friends Simple friendship

True friendship exists. But boys and girls generally don't have a real friendship, and maybe you think that you have a good relationship with someone of the opposite sex and talk about everything. But you have to understand that there are differences between boys and girls after all, in same-sex relationships you may also find it difficult to have a real friendship, let alone a heterosexual relationship, there should be no exceptions, no matter how similar you are to the opposite sex, how compatible you are, you will always be a person of different sex from yourself in their hearts, because of this difference, there are a lot of estrangements in the relationship, a lot of obstacles, maybe you are sincere to them, you may not feel estranged, but they will not think so; Boys and girls are different in thinking, behavior, moral standards, and how they treat and deal with problems, and it is not something that can be changed by one person, it is natural instinct, so these differences will not make boys and girls always stand on the same side.

Having a simple and beautiful relationship with the opposite sex, if you can't represent the other person, it must be your friend.

The definition of a friend is very deep, and there are few people who can be true friends. Even if there is really friendship between men and women in this world, don't be too close to the opposite sex, you will see that some people of the opposite sex are not men and women, but they are the same as confidants in same-sex relationships, in fact, there will be no real friendship between them, but a kind of friendship emotion, there will be no simple friendship, the so-called opposites attract, only their own hearts will know the obstacles and estrangements in their opposite-sex relationships, which is a contradictory relationship.

In terms of dating methods, boys' dating methods generally tend to communicate and interact with each other, so you will see that the way boys make friends may be to go to Internet bars together, go to bars, drink together, play games together, and play ball together. However, the way to make friends between girls is generally companionship and spiritual listening, so you will see that girls like to talk**, send messages or **, and then get together to talk about gossip and life, this is the way girls make friends.

Therefore, boys and girls are inherently different in their ways of making friends, interactions, and hobbies. If one of the parties is going to be a good friend of the other, then the balance is to be shifted. Therefore, that boy will become a warm man, that is, he will call you every now and then, send you a message, just to integrate into your life circle.

If the girl wants to make friends with you, she will become a so-called "female buddy" and will deal with you, such as playing ball, playing games, etc. So you'll see a lot of "female buddies", or warm men. It's a way for both parties to try to make friends and integrate into each other's life circles.

And my opinion is that there is pure friendship between men and women, but it has a premise. If there is to be pure friendship between men and women, there must be three prerequisites, all of which must be indispensable.

1. Boys or girls will not contact you every once in a while, for example, you may pay attention to his circle of friends and give him a thumbs up by the way, but you will not send him messages and greetings every day, such as good morning, good night and the like, you need to take care of a good friend.

2. There must be something on the other party that you don't like, whether it is a voice, an idea, an action or a way of speaking, or a way of dressing, there must be something on the other party that you don't like.

3. The third point is the most important, the other party's appearance is not your cup of tea at all. That's why some people say: the uglier it is, the purer it is.

If all three of these points are met, then I congratulate you on finding pure friendship. If both men and women are single, there are not so many opportunities for pure friendship. But if you have a family or a partner, it is still very important to avoid taboos a little.

It's not a boyfriend or girlfriend.

True friendship between men and women is rare, so it is extremely precious.

The less something is, the more valuable it is, the more people want to get it, so some people try to find it, but in fact, this kind of thing is hard to find, and it is useless to be in a hurry.

Some people say, don't talk so mysteriously, I have a lot of good friends of the opposite sex. It's not hard to have a friend of the opposite sex, the question is whether there is an innocent friendship between you? The word innocence is very important, what is the friendship of innocence?

That is, there is no love, no love, no sex between the opposite sex, like buddies, friendly exchanges, friendly interactions, no color and no profit. Can you do it?

True friendship between the opposite sex is a special relationship between men and women, this relationship is a neutral relationship, which requires both men and women to deviate from their original gender and find a balance point, which is the core of pure friendship.

The reason why true friendship between men and women is scarce is because the survival rate of pure friendship is very low, not that you don't want it to live, but that it has a very small living space and is not suitable for its growth, and its life cycle is also very short, this flower is beautiful, but it does not bloom for long.

We can't live in a vacuum, when we have love, have a home, at this time we still want to maintain a relationship with the opposite sex, even if it is an innocent friendship, it is very difficult, in the members of love and family, as long as one party raises doubts, any friendship can not go on, you can not give up love and home for the sake of friendship, familiar and familiar, you will measure.

People have a selfish side, so not everyone is open-minded, especially within the territory of love and home, everyone is alert, afraid of harassment by others, exclusivity between the same sex, is objective, is a kind of human nature, you can't change, people can't survive if they don't protect themselves, and people's excessive defense sometimes loses good things.

The true friendship between men and women is to have an accurate grasp of each other's relationship, that is, both parties appreciate each other and like each other, but there is no distraction. As long as one party has a different understanding and has other purposes, then the true friendship between men and women will be questioned.

Do men and women need true friendship? Of course it is, this kind of friendship is beautiful, why should we refuse it, this kind of friendship should be generous, above board, there is no need to dodge, it should be carried out in the sun.

The true friendship between men and women should be a noble relationship between men and women, we may not meet in our lifetime, once encountered, even if it is very short, we should cherish it, remember, we should not bring love and love into it, let the innocence become fake, let the friendship not pure, and there is no existence.

Maybe there will be, true friendship, I really don't care about gender, let alone those gossips, but what about finding true friendship in **? Perhaps, each of us will dream of such a perfect friendship, maybe you and he (her) have never had emotions other than friendship, let alone those non-dividing thoughts, then just go your own way and let others say go!