He said he loved me, but now that we re separated, I don t really know what to do!!

It's sad to encounter this kind of thing! But don't be sad, he said that he wants you to be separated for a while, then you can accept it calmly, it's not a big deal, if he loves you, he will definitely come back to you, on the other hand, if he doesn't love you, then it's a mistake for him to be with you! You love him, you have to understand that nothing in the world will change except for your parents, everything can change, don't whisper and beg him to reconcile with you, then he will only look down on you more!

As long as you are alone with a lot of information about the future, then you will meet better! There are many men in the world!

Remember, a woman will always have to be high-profile in front of the man she likes before he will chase you relentlessly, but getting married is another matter!

Of course, you have to fight, this is your life's business, if he is really as you said, then you must do your best to fight for your own happiness, remember not to leave yourself any regrets, tell him what you think in your heart. It's not easy to find someone you really love. You have to cherish it, if you miss it, it will be gone, and it will be too late to regret it.

Maybe he is under pressure, and it is right to give him some time, love is very fast but life is long, so it is right for him to think about it, this is also a manifestation of responsibility for you, he doesn't want to live together What to do, of course, what he thinks is not necessarily your reason, but also his own problem, you have to know that one plus one is not necessarily equal to two, because there is still a long way to go in the future, you know, don't think about things too simply, He's definitely under pressure right now and he must have solved the problem, so you have to give him time to think about it.

He has a little inferiority complex in his heart, and at this time you should show that you don't care about his background (provided that you really don't care). Let him feel that it will be natural after the psychological barrier is removed. If you agree to separate, and say that you will break up directly, it is basically irreversible.

Psychoanalysis from the perspective of a rural person.

He has low self-esteem. Even if you are together in the future, if he still can't get over this thought, you will be very tired in the future.

If he continues like this, I suggest that you should be separated, and that the pain for a lifetime is better than the pain for a while.

When you get married, the ensuing financial problems and the next generation problems will bother you even more.

He really loves you, and the reason why he left you is not to drag you down, you should grasp it and try your best to fight for it.

There are fewer such men, and he is afraid that you will suffer if you follow him in the future.

The man thinks that you will not be happy in the future, because he can't give you what you want in many ways, and he also thinks that everyone will not be miserable in the future!

The most important thing for a woman is that she knows how to love herself That man doesn't love you anymore, what's the use of you redeeming it, besides, it's still a rural drop, falling in love and getting married are two different things This man is okay, at least he takes care of you, and he said it so ambiguously when he broke up.

Hey... If it's really together, it won't necessarily be happy, because first of all, he can't accept it from the heart, because men have machismo, and their girlfriends are better than themselves, so it's not easy to accept... I hope you are happy and blessed

Hehe," he said, I didn't beat him before, he cried, he made trouble, and now it is.

It's the other way around, "That's the difference between going to bed and going to bed." The combination of urban and rural areas.

There must be a gap, but I said what did you do as a man?

Didn't he know there was a gap when he first got acquainted? This man is not worth it.

Entrust feelings.

If a man does this, he has a new goal.

That condition is definitely better than yours.

But he can and he can't give up on you.

I'm making a choice.

You've got to catch him.

This is the most critical time.

Let him come back to you.

It's too good to try to be separated for a while, and you actually think like this, but in fact, once two people are separated, and then they are together, they don't have the same feeling as before.

Try to love, to impress him, to influence him, after all, he also loves you.

Time can make you grow, and it's not a bad thing to experience a lot of things!

I don't know if you've ever studied a language? Can't even use punctuation?

You have to explain it first. Or know first. Why broke up, why did you break up. Why the breakup is the final result.

First. Why broke up. Have you had a disagreement or contradiction on some issue?

Second. Why did they break up. Have you dealt with some contradiction or issue very inappropriately or ignored it?

Third, why the breakup is the final result. Have you dealt with some contradiction or issue very inappropriately, or have you ignored it, and exacerbated it on a deeper level? and then let the originally towering feelings reach the breaking point. And it became the final result.

But first you have to know the contradiction. And then come to resolve the contradictions. If you don't recognize some of the problems in between. Then you will also lead to the result of figuring it out after you chase it back.

Of course. People change. Love is naturally not strong. As you say. He used to love me a lot. You also know that it was before. If he doesn't love anymore.

Then I advise you to give up. After all, for a person who has no memories. I think. In other words, you're not interested.

If you really want to chase it back. It's not impossible. Cheeky. Find a group of bad friends to help you blow the wind in your ears. Then do some. Inexplicable stupidity.

Then everyone pushes you uphill. Maybe it can be redeemed. It's just that there is no need to redeem it. Or. What to do after redemption. Then it is completely determined by why the breakup occurred.

Tell him what you think, fight for it again, if it doesn't work, then you have to put it down in time, otherwise you will be sad.

Then try to redeem it again and ask him if you still love me? If he says he still loves, let's be together, and if he doesn't love you, don't pretend to be pitiful and wish you a happy little girl!

Men are fickle, and if they don't love, they won't look back. Give it up.

He loves you too. You love him too, why did you break up? If you still love him after you break up, then you should tell him that you love him. Don't let yourself regret it for the rest of your life.

If you can keep it, try to keep it back. If you really can't get it back, start again and love again, and the time will dilute everything.

Tell yourself, let go of it, and chase him back. He used to love you very much, which proves that you still have a relationship foundation.

After a long time, it is forgotten.

Forget it slowly, it will be put down after a long time, and the twisted melon is not sweet.