I love my boyfriend very much and accommodate him in everything, but now I am distressed and have tu

Updated on society 2024-02-26
44 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Loving someone is not blindly pampering a person, don't let him lose his ability to live independently because of love, that is not love, but a kind of **.

    No one can be with anyone all the time, no one can be pampered with anyone all the time, and if you're not by his side, then how dazed he will be, and you should be heartbroken.

    So try to let him learn to live independently.

    You can deliberately do housework with him in normal times, tidy up housework, and try to tell him the details of life when you try to go shopping.

    The accumulation of bits and pieces, the love of bits and pieces.

    Bless you all to find a balance between love and life soon.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love, as long as you can be happy, it is important, as for troubles, if it is a factor of conditions, in the comparison of love, it is important to choose which is your own choice, I choose that I am responsible.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This will not work. Women can't spoil men too much.

    Of course, you have to do the housework, but occasionally you have to ask him to understand you and help you share the burden.

    You should talk to him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hehe! I'm a boy! My dad was like that, and when he couldn't find anything, he asked my mom

    Where did you put it? In fact, he put it himself! Mom sometimes talks about annoyance, but I don't know what she thinks.

    I think it's because it's too dependent, I think you shouldn't spoil him too much, he's a man, he should have his own opinions and ways of doing things, and he should take his own responsibility. If you get impatient, ask him, "Where did you put my underwear?"

    I think he'll look for it! Hehe!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you feel tired, talk to him, a woman, especially most women, needs a man to protect her. If he can't protect you in the future, just let it go! Break up when it's time to break up, except that you owe him something, and you need to repay the favor!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Belch... No way... Adapt to it... Some things are hard to change when they start like that.

    But if you really want to change, give you a move. Go out on a long trip (business trip, home, etc.), and then let him adapt to it alone, slowly let him change, and let him know that sometimes you will not be with him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You should have a good talk with him and tell him what you think.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    To put it mildly, you're more like his mother. We should talk about it well, such boys are very arrogant and more self-conscious.

    It's hard to change, because it's hard, it's fun. "

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hello this friend. Love and marriage that suits you, you can be happy, accommodating feelings are without future and hope, to hurt yourself the best, since he doesn't cherish you, then you won't be happy. Love and marriage are precious:

    Two people truly love each other, love each other, respect each other, are sincere to each other, understand each other, trust each other, confess to each other, and tolerate each other. I wish my friends happiness.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Don't accommodate him anymore, you can only accept what happens after that.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you are too accommodating, don't rely on him in everything now, and live your own life. Live for yourself!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Find something you like, don't rely on him all day long, in fact, without him, your earth will still turn.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I'm used to it, it's awkward, I can't find a lot of good men.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Blindly accommodating will make you seem to have no opinions, and it is difficult for him to discuss things with you. It's important to restrain your accommodation and give your opinion.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because most guys are accommodating to their girlfriends, and if you always accommodate him, of course he will feel guilty.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    He has women outside.

    He feels that sooner or later he will be spoiled by you, so he doesn't need to regret this relationship.

    You're not his mother, subordinate, or worker, can't you give a little advice, he's so grateful to you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Anyway, there are a lot of people who don't like such people, and I don't like such people, [too accommodating to others, people who don't have opinions] I used to be like this, I believe there are many people who are like this, but that was before, and it will be good when you grow up and become a director.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    That's it after the love shelf life.

    I think that there is no need for me and me to be married to the old husband and wife, and there is no need to accommodate you anymore if I get you, anyway, we are already together.

    Already familiar, already tired of it, the rest is just habit.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Every pair of lovers is the same, and in the end, love is just habit.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Habit becomes natural, don't force change, but if possible, you can talk to him about your psychological feelings, and hope that he will accommodate you in which areas, and slowly balance and reconcile.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you don't accommodate, it means that you are not as good as him in many conditions, and the other party is a dwarf and poor, will you still accommodate him.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's to dress yourself up beautifully. It doesn't matter if you put him from first place. Don't pay too much attention to him, and then he will be nervous about you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Slowly from the small things, little by little.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Was he a man's idea?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Think about it yourself, after all, it's your own feelings, and it's useless for others to say more. You know very well what he is doing to you. Don't push the person who loves you further and further, but let it go if you don't feel it, otherwise both of you will get hurt.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Please don't give up a relationship casually He didn't do anything wrong Every time he accommodates you, you don't have to be considerate of him every time You say something to him It's not a big deal Just give him a reason to believe that you still love him and he will definitely not leave you Don't ask me how I know. You're too similar to my girlfriend.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If I were that man, believe me, as long as you play a temper and hang up**, don't answer** or something. Guarantee that you will never be contacted for three days. Be content.

    It's this man who doesn't have an opinion. It stands to reason that you have to ask for your wife's opinion. And just opinions.

    It doesn't have to be done. Must be strong. Of course, at home, you women will be proud, and you women will not be able to turn the sky upside down.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Yourself guilty of being cheap and do not cherish here to seek sympathy !! No you deserve it!!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Don't be dissatisfied, such a good boyfriend is not cherished.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Because you are a little used to him, not someone who is reluctant to him, respect his proposal.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It is recommended that you redeem it, what you like is not necessarily suitable for you, I think he is very suitable for you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    You are not satisfied, when you lose, you will regret it, people are like this, you can't see the good of the people around you! Cherish it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I suggest you think carefully, there are not many such men, they keep paying, they don't reciprocate, and they ignore them.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Cherish the people in front of you, and you will regret it if you miss it.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    A person who loves a person too much is destined to lose her.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Accommodating is because of love, do you think men are born with a good temper?

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    You finally understand now, love needs to be managed by both parties, not one person's business, you are not the queen in love, your previous idea is the idea that you have watched too many Korean bubble dramas, and you can only mature after experiencing it.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Well, that's right, in fact, it is necessary to respect each other in order to go longer.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Yes, this is the process, and falling in love is also a science.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    That's right, proof that you've grown up.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    We are all normal people, it's not that we can't live without anyone, but we need to live a life, we need to pass on the ancestry, and we must have a sense of responsibility. We should consider others when we do things, and there are many people around us, not only ourselves. Maybe we are living a very stable life now, but we will inevitably encounter setbacks, and at this time, the connections and family relationships we accumulate daily can be reflected.

    We live not only for ourselves, but also for others, including relatives, friends, and even people we don't know.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    If a woman can really do everything, then there will be no such creature as a man in the world, and there must be a reason for his existence......For example, when you swipe your card, want to hit someone, get sick, or feel sad, you need your dearest person by your side. Just like your husband.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Men are different from men, and you need a man who can give you a shoulder to lean on when you're tired, not a man who you can accommodate and get rid of as soon as possible.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    The legend of white rich beauty? You're looking for a little white face, not a husband.

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