Is he worthy of my love and worthy of my marriage?

It's not worth it, because neither of you are each other's favorites, and I feel like you are not true love between you.

If so, I think he will improve your self-motivation for you, make good money, and make you live a good life.

If so, you will not blame him for not being self-motivated, but willing to endure hardships with him.

It depends on what kind of mentality you use to treat him.

A lot of men are like him.

It's relatively thin, and I don't like to fight for anything.

They don't care about anything but feelings.

Money is almost nothing in their eyes.

If it weren't for the need to fill his stomach, he wouldn't have looked for money at all.

Of course, this kind of man is very difficult for others to change.

Unless he himself is hurt greatly.

If your feelings for him are just for marriage and life.

Don't stay at that.

Because that's not what he wants.

It's someone who truly loves each other.

A simple and ordinary life.

You can't give him the life he wants.

He can't give you everything you need.

I think if you think that you really love him, that he still has a place for you to love, and you try to transform him, and you can't do it, then I advise you to give up, because he can make something by playing games? It's better to be miserable for a while than to suffer for a lifetime Survival is the key, love needs material maintenance I think men should have held up a piece of heaven for women

Loving and getting married are two different things.

A word of caution.

A house bought before getting married.

Whoever writes it is whose name is whose pre-marital property.

Divorce words. Basically, the other side can't catch a single hair.

The repayment after marriage is also half and half, and there is nothing for you to pay for one-third of him two-thirds.

So get married. You're going to lose.

But love and marriage are two different things.

Take the big idea yourself.

Actually, you already have the answer, and I personally think you should choose to leave.

Let it go! That's too tiring, there are many things for good men, where does it start if you don't give up?

Other people's words are just an opinion, and you have to take the big idea yourself.

You don't necessarily love him!

If you don't marry, you'll become an old girl, and whoever you marry is not marrying.

Although the concept of social sexuality is very open now, it is still necessary to ask yourself how you feel when choosing a lifelong partner. After all, two people live a lifetime, and if there is a thorn in their hearts, they will only make themselves miserable. It seems that you still care about his past, if you don't care, you won't ask here.

If you tolerate him, it is because of love, not because you despise yourself. If you don't accept his past, that's normal and understandable, who told him to be responsible for not being cautious enough about himself and his feelings in the past?

However, if it is worth loving, you have to ask yourself. Aside from his past, are you happy with him? There really is no such thing as perfect love.

If you are true love, don't miss it, and if you miss it, you will never miss it again. In addition, you can listen to your parents and their opinions and guidance in your marriage, but don't take your parents as the starting point. Whether it's the marriage partner or your own affairs, you don't have to report everything to your parents, after all, you have to go your own life.

Don't deliberately care about his past, in the future life, if he really loves you, he will definitely work hard, double his kindness to you, use practical actions to dispel your doubts, and use more love to definitely alleviate the pain. If you still care about his past after working hard, it means that he has not done a good job, and you are not dissatisfied with his past but with him himself. Love is a joint effort of both parties!

So you have to work hard for him, love him, and try not to think about his past. Everything will fade with time, only the truth will get deeper and deeper.

I wish you happiness and happiness!