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Personally, I think that although "the right person" is the saying of the old society, we who were born in the new society have to admit that this statement does have its truth. However, things are man-made, education does not represent ability, culture does not represent talent, if this person is hardworking, capable, self-motivated, and responsible, you can consider marrying him. But if he has nothing to do for a day, then you have to think about it, after all, we still have to live in reality, and life after marriage is not only based on feelings, but also involves all aspects of the problem, and your conditions are better than his, you can find a better condition!
Of course, I don't mean to break you up, but on a case-by-case basis, marriage is very important for a woman, so it's better to think about it clearly. Whatever the outcome, I wish you happiness!
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If you ask this question here, you are hesitant.
I think so, because after all, being together in the future is living together, and economic issues have to be considered.
If you have a good family background enough to take him with you, then you can stay with him;
If your family is generally good, and your relationship is very deep, and you are willing to work together with him to go through many ups and downs, then you should still be together;
If you feel that you may regret it later, and you may not be able to withstand this obstacle, then give yourself a period of time, and slowly you will be able to figure it out, after all, you are an undergraduate student with a not low IQ
Of course, the most important thing is that no matter what decision you make, you don't regret it in the future.
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My love is about the same as yours! I'm also an undergraduate, and my boyfriend didn't finish high school. My family's conditions are better than his, his family agrees that we are together, but my parents are very open-minded, and they also agree that I should be with him, the only bad thing is that he doesn't have a job.
I think it's all up to you, I'm three years older than my boyfriend, he doesn't have a job, I don't think it matters, it's important to see if the person is self-motivated.
Do you think your boyfriend is smart? Do you think he's responsible? Do you think he will give you happiness in the future? Will it make you live a good life? That's enough for you to believe!
I believe in my boyfriend because I can see the good in him, so he doesn't have a job and we're planning to get married!
Those who have a lot may not have it in the future, don't envy those who have a lot, and don't discriminate against those who currently have nothing, they are still young and have a lot of room for development, give each other a little more time and confidence, I believe you will be happy!!
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The key is to see what you love about him.
If you love him, this person, and his heart for you, then hold on, and one day you will be able to touch your parents
But if you're just as concerned about money as your parents, then you'd better break up and do it for a while"2-faced"
Wait for your mother to get better and then try to communicate with her Parents don't want you to suffer with him Look at him If he is self-motivated and willing to work hard, I believe that after a long time, your parents will see his efforts and give him affirmation
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You've known each other for three years, how can you not know if he's good or not? I saw what you said (I am a bachelor's degree, my height, family background, and good looks; He graduated from a secondary school, his family is in the suburbs and rural areas, and he doesn't have a very stable job), I found out, you are comparing your conditions with his! It's clear that his conditions are not as good as yours!
I don't think you love him anymore, do you? If you don't love it, let it go, it's good for him, it's good for yourself! Then you can find someone who suits you and is not bad with your own conditions!
If you love him, it's not a problem on your parents' side! Some things still have to be figured out by yourself!
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Communication is important. It's you who marry, not your family. See how your boyfriend convinces your parents.
In fact, to put it bluntly, you just don't worry about your boyfriend, but you can test him to see if he is sincere to you, if he is sincere, your parents' side is not simple? You can say I like you but my parents don't agree, and then see what he does. Don't forget to give me points.
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True love is two people who can tolerate each other, endure each other, believe in each other, go together, when you ask him if he can take care of you in the future, think about whether you can love him unconditionally under any conditions, just like the most asked and vulgar sentence at foreign weddings, whether you are willing to love me deeply under any conditions, regardless of poverty, hardship, birth, old age, sickness and death
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What kind of person is he, why are you in love with him, is it because of good looks, or because you are good to you, there must be something that attracts you, isn't it? If you think about it, I think it will come to fruition. Don't just pick his family background and academic qualifications when choosing a boyfriend, mainly to see if he is a potential person and whether he is good for you.
I think so, think about it!
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Your parents don't want you to suffer after marriage, love can't be eaten, in fact, it's for your good, understand.
That's good for them to work on.
At this time, your friend's attitude is the key, if he is brave enough to face the reality, work hard and study hard to improve himself.
Quality and cultivation to win the respect of your parents and other people, will you hesitate to such a person?
On the contrary, if he cringes, you should think carefully!
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Don't always listen to your parents, when you grow up and mature, you have to learn to make your own choices, take responsibility, and don't forget that you are an adult! Parents want you to respect and take care of them, not blindly obey!
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The problems we encountered were similar, and at first the family did not agree, but as long as we persisted, the family slowly acquiesced!
As long as you are happy together, happiness belongs to you, not to mention that her family is very optimistic about you!
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Nowadays, there are many alternative pyramid schemes in society, standing in the middle of pyramid schemes and genuine goods, your parents must see people more clearly than you, after all, they are from the past, and you are in the authorities.
The love story of Liangshan Bo is certainly beautiful, but there are actually several good endings.
Take out the weight of all the questions and weigh them yourself.
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I'll just give you one sentence, you think about it! Life doesn't care about what you have, as long as you like it, it's the best
Hehe! It's all about how you feel!
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Think about it, if you really love him, everything is secondary.
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He graduated from secondary school, his family is in the suburbs and rural areas, and he does not have a very stable job" What does it have to do with him as a person?
If you really love him, all other reasons are excuses!
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Responsibility, self-motivation, filial piety, if you have all three, you will insist.
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Love is selfish, as long as you love each other, the people around you are like a mirage.
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If you really love him, all other reasons are excuses!
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It depends on what you think, whether this person is worth your sacrifice.
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Do you like her, and if you do, don't care about others.
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Let's see if he's self-motivated.
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The reality is cruel! People's hearts are very warm!
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True love is not something that can be expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted to the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), and I hope every minute.
You can see him (her), you will always think about him (her) when you can't see him, and you will be excited and your heart will beat faster when you see him. At. One.
Up when you will.
It felt warm and safe, really! A person who loves a person willingly will take care of him (her) care for him (her) and give him (
She) wants.
Everything, watch your loved ones be happy.
So will you. Follow the joy, you will also be troubled when you see him (her) troubled, but you will do everything you can to make you love.
People are happy. Happy.
True love one
Individuals will want to go with him or her.
Old, with him (her), you will look forward to bringing him (her) the greatest happiness with all your love.
And you. Also get in this process.
Another kind of happiness! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) it seems to have lost something, with him (her) I have happiness.
Feel it with your heart...
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