Why do many people hate girls who talk about breakups?

Because such a girl will make herself insecure, and she will also make herself lack self-confidence. So it's going to be more annoying.

Because such a girl doesn't respect the feelings of two people enough, she feels like it's child's play to fall in love.

In fact, such girls don't have any heart palpitations, they just want to use this matter to arouse your sense of importance to girls, and they just say some duplicity.

They feel that such girls are not particularly dedicated to their feelings, and they feel that such girls often have more things to do before they are particularly annoying.

The vast majority of boys are particularly annoying, and girls who often talk about breaking up are because they feel that such girls are unwilling to save this relationship for a long time.

A breakup is a big deal, which means the end of the relationship between the two. If the boss breaks up, you will feel that the girl is not responsible for the relationship.

Because it is always said that breaking up is particularly hurtful, it also shows that this girl does not really take herself to heart.

Such girls have a relatively pretentious temperament, and they will be particularly tired with them.

1. The influence of the family of origin.

For example, this girl has not received the attention of her parents since she was a child, and her parents themselves are emotionally unstable people, so she naturally does not know how to express her emotions correctly.

2. Fragile heart.

Behind each of our emotions lies our inner fragility, helplessness, fear, and sadness.

If we don't have the ability to recognize this feeling ourselves, then we will bring this vulnerability and helplessness into our lives, into our intimate relationships.

But in fact, it may not be the immediate events that cause the conflict, or it may be the immediate events that have inspired the inner trauma of the past.

3. Not good at expression.

Since childhood, I have not learned how to express emotions correctly, and I have not actively learned communication patterns in adulthood, so I will try to express my feelings with certain behaviors when there is a conflict.

On the one hand, this expression is ineffective, and on the other hand, the inner grudge cannot be handled, so it will explode in the form of a breakup.

What do I do if I want to get back together, you ask? I'll give you a few suggestions:

1. Non-violent communication.

You need to know that there is something wrong with your communication model, and you need to learn to adjust your communication mode and stop controlling, blaming, and complaining.

2. Be the master of love and stupidity.

You have to know how to control your emotions, don't always be messy, you have to know why it's messy, it's messy.

3. Lower your profile.

Don't expect the other person to take the initiative to contact you when there is already a rift in the relationship, you can also take the initiative and don't launch a second attack because the other person has a cold attitude.

If you're like her and you've missed out on someone you like because you love to break up, you can DM me and I'll help you find the reason for the relationship failure and tell you what to do to get him back to you.

Men need to understand that not all women will talk about "breaking up" so easily. If a woman loves you very much, she will not casually say the word "break up". Because the He Bureau is unwilling and reluctant for her, she also understands that she shouts congratulations, and many things are said too much, and maybe it will come true in the end.

And the woman who likes to say "break up" and likes to use breakup to test whether you love her or not, her Zheng Paipai may not love you in her heart. She loves herself more, and everything is for herself. So, men have to understand a truth:

A woman who tests her love with a breakup doesn't actually love you. ”

It's because she always wants to find a sense of belonging in you, and I hope you can pay more attention to her. Of course, Linghe I think objectively speaking, the sense of belonging is really given to me, whether it is a boy or a girl, in fact, I do my best to stabilize only myself for myself

If a person often hangs the breakup on the sedan chair, he doesn't love you very much at all, if he loves you, he will care about your thoughts, and he won't be so unscrupulous at all.