When you buy something you like, why is it not attractive?

When you can afford to buy the things you like, why are they not attractive? Because most people feel that it is best if they can't get something, and they can get things easily. On the contrary, I feel that I don't like it so much.

Thinking about not buying it next time, but feeling uncomfortable, it's a disgusting cycle. First, it is the best not to get it, whether it is the person you like or the thing you like, it is the best if you can't get it. Sometimes regret is the most beautiful thing in life.

At least it's a pity that he retains the most primitive beauty in your heart, once you get it, you may find that it is not as you imagined, or you may feel that you are a long-term person, but in fact, when you really meet, few people can do real long-term love. <>

Second, if you can afford it, you will soon not like it, and I remember that I liked one thing very much when I was a child, but I didn't have the money, so I didn't buy it. So much so that I kept thinking about that thing, saved money for two or three years, and then finally saved enough money to buy it. But it was only joyful for a while, and it didn't take long to put it aside, and I didn't care about it anymore, and soon I liked something new again.

It's as if what you can get, after a while, you will lose interest in him. <>

Third, I choose not to buy it next time, but I don't forget that when I grow up, I will buy something I like again, because I can easily get it, so I don't have much joy in my heart. It's like this thing is in the boutique, and he's the one who appeals to me, and once I buy it and put it home, he loses that shine in the store. I don't know if the problem is with him or with me.

The next time I come across something I like but isn't practical, I won't buy it again. <>

To sum up, when there are some things that you can buy, you will slowly lose interest after you go back, but those things that you can't afford to buy will never forget and keep your interest in him. This should be the so-called life so, if you can't get it, it's the best. But it also made me deeply aware that I am a person who likes the new and hates the old.

There is a saying that is very good, what you don't get is always the best, so when you get it, you will feel that this thing is not too important, or it is very easy for you not to know how to cherish it in the process of getting it.

Because this thing can be owned at any time, it has no special meaning for me, and it is certainly not attractive.

Because when you can't get it, you will feel that it is very precious, and you will try to get it, but once you can get it, you will find that it is not so good.

It is a manifestation of a lack of satisfaction, and it is difficult to obtain happiness when it is difficult to know that it is always happy, and it is necessary to know how to perceive the original happiness.

People just have a desire to conquer, just like a boy chasing a girl, and when he catches it, he doesn't cherish it.

This is the commonality of people, everything is the good of others, it is not attractive if it belongs to yourself, you don't like it, others may be very envious, very longing, everyone has this feeling, in fact, some things are often not available and the more mysterious, the more motivated people are, this is the pursuit. On the contrary, I don't feel it when I get it.

When we get something we like very much through our own efforts, our hearts will be extremely satisfied and happy, even if this thing is not very expensive, but it is still our own hard work. It's like a flower that we have carefully watered has finally bloomed, and maybe it's the process of hard work that we enjoy. We want to make a lot of money, go to a lot of places, buy what we like, and do what we love.

One: Because it's what I like. Two:

Will be proud of yourself. Three: The harder it is to get, the more precious it is.

Therefore, girls must work harder and buy their own things they like, so that they will be happier in their hearts. And financially independent girls are the most attractive.

First of all, I will be happy if I buy something that I have always liked, and secondly, when I can afford it, I will feel a sense of accomplishment, so I will be even happier.

Because I actually get a lot of satisfaction in my heart, then my mood will become very good.

Because at this time, you will feel that you are capable, and your hard work will be rewarded and rewarded.

Because everyone's interests and hobbies are different, some people find one thing very attractive, and another people find it not very attractive.

Everyone's feelings about things are different, their perceptions are different, and everyone's needs are different, so the attraction to the same thing is different.

Maybe because of the difference in personal feelings, thinking that this is better, thinking that that is better, everyone will not think that the same thing is very good, he will think that other things will be better, and everyone will appreciate it differently.

This is a very normal thing. Not everyone's aesthetic perception is the same. Is there a big difference between aesthetics and thought? So for the same thing, some people like it, and some people don't like it.

Everyone's focus is different, and their interests and hobbies are different, so what they like will be different. Is there a good saying? In the eyes of the lover, the love house can reach the black.

It's a matter of personal preference, everyone has a different view of things, different angles, and that's why.

Everyone is interested in different things, what you say is that he is interested in will naturally attract him, and if he is not interested, he will not be attracted.

This is normal, personal interests and preferences are different, just like a mother gives birth to several children with different personalities and behaviors.

Aesthetics vary from person to person, just like the truth that everyone is difficult to reconcile! The ups and downs have their own loves.

Whether a thing is attractive or not varies from person to person, some people like it and some people don't like it, and everyone's interests and hobbies are different.

This is normal, because everyone's aesthetic concept is slightly different.

The same thing, some people think it looks good, some people think it doesn't look good, and the good-looking thing will find it attractive, but it's not good-looking, of course, it doesn't have any attraction.

Just like there are a thousand Hamlets in the eyes of a thousand people, everyone's opinions and feelings are different, no matter how good a person is, there will be people who hate her, and no matter how bad a person is, there will be people who like her to the point that they can't do it, this definition is really different, so this is normal.

This is what everyone likes, because it is useless to her at all, and this thing is not interesting to her, so everyone likes it, and she can't force it.

Everyone's liking is different, and what you think likes others may not like.

This is the explanation of each flower.

I think as long as you are a human being, you will have such a mentality, and you will feel that what you can't get is the best. In this society, because everything is different, we can distinguish between beauty and ugliness, and because of the contrast, we can see the essence of some things. Sometimes, we crave something and think about it every day, but when we get it, after a while, we start to dislike it, even hate it, and this is our human psychology of liking the new and hating the old.

When we can't get something, we usually have this mentality. Because of some reasons and conditions, we will not get what we want, at this time, we will infinitely beautify such things, try to think of it as the most perfect thing, and see all the points of the object. Even, when we dream, we will dream of such things, and then, after we start to fantasize about how convenient and comfortable our lives are after we have this thing, we will like this object even more when we see others using what we want and doing what we want to do, because this is the beautifying effect brought by jealousy.

And when we get this item, we will have a different psychology. After using the item, we will find that it is not, we imagined it to be as easy to use, after using it, there may be a lot of problems, and when we solve these problems, we will be even more disgusted, because it brings too much trouble. At this time, what we see is the shortcomings of this item, compared to some other things with the same function, we will cast envious eyes, which is a kind of psychology of liking the new and hating the old.

This kind of thing doesn't happen just to some people, but to all people. When I was young, I was very eager to have a bicycle by myself, but due to family conditions, I didn't have the possibility of owning it, so I envied those children who had bicycles; When I grew up and had my own bike, after a long time, I realized that the bike was not so good, and sometimes I would be very tired, and I had to clean up and fix these problems, so it didn't take long for me to sell this bike.

People are like this, what we can't get, we will be very hungry, and what we get, we will start to become disappointed, because there is no novelty, and there is only disgust. Therefore, we say that what we can't get is often the most beautiful, so that we still have a desire that our hearts will always be the most perfect image of existence, and it will never be destroyed, as long as we don't get it.

I think it can be described by the words desire and liking the new and hating the old, people's desires are endless, they want to get something, and after they get it, their desires will not disappear, but they will divert their eyes and see something else you don't get, and then you will want to get another thing that you haven't gotten, and so on and so forth, and there is no end to desire, unless that day the mind is extinguished, and the desire will come to an abrupt end. Liking the new and hating the old is a common disease of human beings, always liking those things that they have never had, especially novel, but once they get it in their hands, then the feeling changes, and too much familiarity with a thing will make people feel that there is no sense of novelty, and they will feel disgusted. <>

That's how I am, I thought about buying clothes last year, I wanted to buy a windbreaker, but it was very expensive, but once I had this idea, I couldn't get rid of it, and finally made up my mind to save money and buy it back, but I only wore it a few times and it was still in the wardrobe, not that it didn't fit, it wasn't good-looking, it just had a dull feeling of getting it. For other things too.,For games.,I used to be obsessed with an FPS game.,But it's a lot of money.,It took a lot of determination to decide to buy it.,I think I can play it for at least a year or so.,But no.,After thinking about things day and night, I found out that it was like that.,Often there's no beauty in my imagination.,Or the desire to get it is gone.,Because it's been obtained.。 I think this liking is mixed with desire, and it will account for a large part, and once this desire is gone, the liking will shrink.

As the saying goes, what you can't get is the best.

Just like when we buy clothes in the mall, we usually wear street stalls, but when we buy clothes, we always like to see some expensive clothes, I feel that I want it very much, but we can't afford it, there are many times when we always feel that we are very poor, we can't afford the expensive clothes that others wear, in fact, it's not that you can't afford it, it's that you don't want to spend so much money to buy, you see that other people's clothes are brand-name, you are always complaining that you don't have it, in fact, you don't have anything less than others, others just love yourself more than you.

Just like I once went to a physical store to buy clothes, I fell in love with a strap skirt is a suit, wearing a particularly figure-showing, and more classy than the stall I wore before, because it was too expensive, I gave up but after I got home, I wanted to buy a set of clothes every day, I could buy a pair of shoes with my husband, three or four hundred, you can buy a set of clothes for my baby, one or two hundred, but when I came here, I bought a set of clothes for one or two hundred two or three hundred, and I was reluctant at all, because I didn't love myself to the same extent as others.

As long as I go to the street, I will go into the store to see if the dress is sold, but I don't buy it, but I still don't resist myself, I want to buy a dress every day for a long time, when we go to the street again, because that day is Valentine's Day, I gritted my teeth and bought that set of clothes for myself, and when I got home, I saw the strap skirt, which was equipped with a white sweater with a high neck, and it didn't feel particularly good-looking, and because the meat on the stomach grew a lot, so I wore it a little tight, I put it in the closet, and I haven't worn it once.

Because after getting it, you don't know how to cherish it, and you will feel that the other party will not leave you, and if you satisfy your desire to conquer, you will no longer have a sense of freshness.