What do you think is the reason why guys can t find a girlfriend?

Not because of itWon't chatThis problem is estimated to be more than 90% of the main reasons why men who can't find a girlfriend, why don't they chat? : On the one hand, my mentality is not good enough, and when it comes to Girls' Day, I will be nervous and afraid of being cold, so how can I chat. On the other hand, there is a lack of chatting skills.

The mentality of chatting needs to be exercised slowly, and you can usually try to chat with strangers more often, so that this behavior becomes a habit, and the mentality will naturally be good.

Bad mentalityAlways think: at the beginning, it's like making the goddess you like and your girlfriend. The greater the hope, the greater the disappointment.

The correct process of relationship development is: acquaintance - understanding - friends - attraction - ambiguity - girlfriend. Never lose yourself for the sake of a woman, this is not a vigorous love, this is hurting yourself and hurting others.

If you can afford to take it and put it down, you are the man who does great things.

Won't be activeSome people say that chasing girls can't take the initiative, so you lose half of what you lose. The initiative that men should take is to take the initiative to create opportunities for women to know you and understand you.

Instead of taking the initiative to give gifts, to take care of her like a nanny.

Because people who don't fall in love have an impossible person in their hearts, and because they meet that impossible person, everyone else has become a general. However, it is even more difficult to find out that there will be. I don't want to be reluctant, just follow the fate.

Good old man, too good for girls, and it is good without principles and bottom lines, it comes and goes, it is not a man....

Didn't make the girl feel itHappyThink about it, what would a woman be with you for? I think the big reason is that she feels that being with you is always happy, happy, carefree, so she wants this life, wants to be with you.

Those boys don't actively exude their male charm. Women like men who are attractive to men.

Therefore, men should take the initiative to create their own charm. A man's masculine charm includes many aspects: a strong body is an external manifestation, and self-confidence, maturity, and wisdom are an inner manifestation.

According to the incomplete statistics of my single friends and friends' single friends, those who are ugly have girlfriends, those who are short have girlfriends, those who are poor in economic conditions have girlfriends, and those who have bad tempers also have girlfriends, while those who do not have girlfriends are either too strange in their requirements, or their social circles are too narrow and not good at talking.

Ever heard the song "Seven Friends"? The comfort that can be obtained is that the lovelorn is grateful to the faithful dog after being saved. - Seven Friends", Xi Ye's golden sentence.

If she has feelings for you, girlfriends are never chased. And it touches ≠ feelings. is too good to her, it's like falling in love with the person you imagined, and one day you can't imagine it and you have to be disappointed.

The family background is too good, the parents are too sensible, too assertive and handsome.

Because the person I like has a boyfriend, but I can't let her go.

It may be because fate has not arrived, or it may be that this boy has higher requirements for his girlfriend, or he may be irresponsible for his feelings, so he can't find a girlfriend.

It may be because these boys are more introverted and shy, and they will not take the initiative to pursue a relationship, and their emotional intelligence is not high enough, so they can't pursue girls well.

Because these people don't like to talk, and these people don't like to spend money on women, they are just playing tricks and getting by.

<> "Top 5 Reasons Why Guys Can't Find Their Girlfriends."

1. Poor, there are few rich people in their 20s, but as long as you are good enough in other aspects, you can find a girlfriend, after all, not every girl worships money.

Two vertical leads, ugly looks even if they forget it", and don't pay attention to the image.

Third, thin-skinned, I don't know, and I don't dare to communicate with girls.

Fourth, a tree hanged and blinded.

5. Summarize two sentences:

First: there is no capital for love at first sight.

Second: lack of ability to live in love over time.

There are some girls who are more ambitious, or girls who are more introverted and shy, who always habitually live their own lives. The conditions set by the woman herself are too high, and some of the requirements cannot be met by the man.

The reason why girls can't find a boyfriend is because girls are very demanding, or girls don't know how to dress up, or they don't like to go out to socialize, and it is difficult to find a boyfriend in such a situation.

Mainly because today's girls have a relatively high vision, so they can't find a boyfriend.

We have always said that this is a society where there are more men and fewer women, in fact, this is the inevitable combination of the development of Chinese society to a certain stage, so I have summarized the three common situations here today.

Clause. First, the circle of friends is small.

The circle of friends is the most critical point for men, and it is also the most fatal point, and there are really few women I know, so I will tell you a data! Normally, if you want to find a better girlfriend, you need to meet about 100 women before you have a chance; If you want to find a high-quality beauty as a girlfriend, then you have to have at least 200 women, so even if you are not bad in terms of economic conditions and have a small circle, how do you find a girlfriend.

Clause. 2. The fear of bride price.

In fact, this situation is rare, but what! In the face of this society, we all know that men are rational and will consider a lot of things, such as today's high bride price, so they simply don't look for it, that is, it's not that they can't find it, but they don't want to find it at present. If you find it, you can't afford the bride price.

Clause. 3. Language communication.

Actually! Language communication has always been a common problem for men.,Rhetorical women think that flowers,Don't know how to say it's a straight man.,Can't speak and say it's Mune.,So what else can I do?,Sometimes,Men are particularly blinded about this piece.,I don't know the subtitles! I always chat with women, and when I chat, it becomes a reply to "oh" and "um", and I can't find common ground at all.

Men and women need a lot of conditions to support or make friends, and now there are more boys than girls in society, so girls may be stricter or even too strict with boys, and boys are likely to be unable to find a partner if they do not have attractive conditions. Faced with this situation, boys should learn to be self-reliant, constantly learn and improve themselves, so that they are not only qualified, but also in some ways may be much better than their peers, only in this way can girls feel about themselves.

Boys are too introverted and unsociable. Boys are poor, have no money, and don't have decent jobs. Male students have low educational qualifications, poor family conditions, and parents are not in good health, and the burden is heavy. The boy is not in good health and has a disease. Boys don't chat, they're too stingy, and they're reluctant to spend money on girls.

Didn't come across the right one. Meet the right person at the right time, and feelings will naturally come.

Because these boys are more ambitious, they focus on their work, and they don't have the time and energy to chase their girlfriends.

Because these boys are introverted and have low emotional intelligence, they don't know how to chase girls.

It has to be analyzed from both subjective and objective aspects.

Subjective: (1) I am not excellent, I have many shortcomings, and others look down on me; (2) The job is unstable, the income is not high, and they will face financial difficulties together; (3) Introverted personality and don't know how to talk to girls; (4) The standard of mate selection is too high, so that the bad ones can't be looked down upon, and the good ones can't be chased; (5) Don't like to show too much, hide the flash, girls can't really understand you.

Of course, there are many more subjective reasons, and I will not mention them all. How to solve the problem, three directions can be forced: (1) improve yourself in all aspects, make yourself worthwhile, not only in terms of economic strength, but also in terms of your own quality and personality charm; (2) Think deeply about two questions, what level are you?

What kind of girlfriend can you find? In this way, you will not miss the right one because you are too discerning; (3) Become positive and dare to love.

Objective: (1) There is an imbalance in the ratio of men and women around me, all of whom are men.

Objective reasons, thinking about it, it seems that this is it, or something like this. How to solve it, two directions can be forced: (1) blind date software, you can contact more people of the opposite sex, a large range of choices, and many styles and types.

Blind date software, I recommend a companion for marriage and love, I have used it myself, it is a very good one, identity verification name, greatly ensures the safety of users, you can talk seriously, talk about love fiercely; The quality of users is very high, the economic strength is also strong, the key marriage and love will be strong, you can meet after a few words of chat, I can meet more than ten women in a month, and the success rate is very high; (2) According to relatives and friends, everyone knows some excellent single women, and they basically know the roots, the right door, and are more reliable.

If the conditions are ordinary, it will definitely be difficult for a boy to find a girlfriend, because the conditions are generally not looked down upon by girls, and fate may not have arrived, so he should find a suitable one for himself. If the boy's conditions are very good, it may be that he has a high vision, and he really doesn't want to find a girl who is much worse than him, and wants to find a girl with comparable conditions.

One is the problem of personality, he is more introverted and doesn't talk to others much in normal times. The second is the economic problem, the economy is relatively tight, and there is no way to meet the needs of the girlfriend.