Losing a child and not being present, how painful is Lin Yongjian s heart?

His heart was heartbreaking, he longed to die for his child, and he had endless regret in his heart.

I think the loss of a child is a very painful thing in itself, and I am not around, this kind of pain is still very memorable for a lifetime.

This kind of pain, the white-haired person sends the black-haired person, especially the loss of the child and can't be present, the heart is really uncomfortable.

It is very heart-wrenching, and when I lose my child, my heart is like a knife, and I will hate myself for not doing my duty as a father.

I have to say that this feeling is really painful, and the loss of a child will definitely break down your heart, and this heartache can only be experienced by parents.

As a father, he loves his children the most, and his heartache must be 100%.

Lin Yongjian's age of losing his beloved son was not disclosed to the outside world.

Lin Yongjian did not elaborate on the reason for the child's death, but said that the family's economic conditions were not very good at that time, and Lin Yongjian and his wife were often busy with work and had no time to take care of the children. At that time, before a sketch competition, they learned that the child was gone, and the couple still endured the pain to participate in the competition. I didn't expect the comedian who brought so much joy to everyone to have such a sad experience.

<> Lin Yongjian's age of losing his beloved son was not revealed, so it was difficult for everyone to take the initiative to inquire.

The news about Lin Yongjian's loss of his beloved son has been circulating on the Internet, what is going on? In fact, Lin Yongjian's current son Dajun is not Lin Yongjian's first child, nor is he the only one. When Lin Yongjian and his wife participated in "Luyu Appointment", they talked about the loss of their beloved son, he said that his eldest son was not in good economic conditions when he was born, and he was very busy with work, so when the child died of illness, he was also very remorseful about this matter, and once fell into depression.

When he gave birth to his son Lin Dajun, Lin Yongjian loved him for a long time, but he didn't dot on him, he taught his children to be very civilian, went to ordinary schools, ate and ate like ordinary people's homes, which can be said to be a good way to teach his children.

In addition, the news that Lin Yongjian is married for the second time on the Internet is not, Lin Yongjian has only been married once, his wife is Zhou Yongqi, who is also an actor, one year younger than Zhou Yongjian, and they are all actors in the military and political group, because they met after acting in a sketch together, on January 8, 2003, the two registered their marriage, and in 2010, their son Lin Dajun was born, and the relationship between the two was very affectionate.

Where did Dad go for us to meet a lot of celebrities and cute babies, and Lin Yongjian's son Lin Dajun is one of the most impressive, Lin Dajun, who has been eccentric since he was a child, can always speak amazingly, so how old is Lin Dajun this year? What's going on lately, and the online discussion is in full swing? It is said that when did Lin Yongjian lose his beloved son, and what is the reason?

In the 2015 Dad Where Are You Going Season 3 show, we met Lin Dajun, the son of the famous old drama bone Lin Yongjian, this child carved out of a mold with his father is very cute, I have to say that the father and son look too similar, and Lin Yongjian is also very happy for his son to look like himself, and his loving heart can be seen at a glance.

Speaking of Lin Yongjian's wife, she is the well-known Zhou Dong-aged Qi, the husband and wife are both actors, and when they were buried in the birds, it was Zhou Dongqi who introduced Lin Yongjian to the object, but they didn't expect the two to come together after a long time, and they chose to get married in 2003. Seven years later, the crystallization of their love ushered in their son Lin Dajun, and now Lin Dajun is also ten years old, and Lin Yongjian is also painstaking in the cultivation and education of his son in daily life.

Lin Dajun, who has been smart and clever since he was a child, also went to participate in the top piano competition in 2018, and his proud father posted on Weibo with emotion, I have to say that it is indeed very powerful for an eight-year-old child to win the grand prize in such a world-class competition, which shows that Lin Yongjian's cultivation of children's artistic cells has been grasped since childhood and the results are obvious.

And Lin Dajun's popularity on the Internet is also extraordinary, especially when participating in the show, some golden sentences came out coldly, which has become a popular stalk at the moment. In the show before, Lin Dajun called the pig's trotters big pig's trotters, but he didn't expect that this name was finally derived into a special noun that generally refers to boys' hearts, and Lin Dajun became a well-known joker on the Internet at a young age.

However, what happened to Lin Dajun, who was rumored on the Internet before, actually did not refer to Dajun, it turned out that Lin Yongjian lost his beloved son because he had a son before Dajun. It is also the fact that Lin Yongjian revealed himself when he participated in Luyu's appointment, it is said that after the two got married, Zhou Dongqi was actually pregnant with a child, but the economic situation at that time ended and the protection for the child was not in place, so the child was unfortunately gone.

As for the reason for the loss of the child, it is said that the husband and wife were busy with work at the time and were rehearsing the sketch, and Zhou Dongqi may not be able to keep up with his physical fitness due to overwork, and the child is suddenly gone. At that time, Lin Yongjian was very depressed, and he was not in a state when performing the sketch, if it was not suitable for his wife's support and comfort, it would be difficult to complete the performance that day, which should have hit Lin Yongjian at that time.

There will be a lot of painful things that happen in life, some are just flesh pain, such as injections, tattoos, or some surgery, these are also really painful, but there is still pain, it is better than the pain with these flesh and skin, that is, the pain in the heart, for the death of a loved one, it will make us feel sad, but the pain of white-haired people sending black-haired people, I think there should be fewer people who experience it, right?

But my country's first-class actor Li Yongjian has experienced this feeling of losing his beloved son, when Lin Yongjian mentioned the story of his lost beloved son in the show "Luyu has an appointment", for Lin Yongjian at that time, he had no money, and he was not very famous, because he needed to work hard to make money, so he often couldn't accompany his son, but once, when he and his wife performed on the stage, they waited for a bad news, that is, his child died, At that time, when they heard the bad news, they endured the pain until the end of the performance, because they must have the spirit of being a professional actor, and the moment he heard the bad news of his son, I think his heart hurt, which many of us can't understand.

At that moment, he said that he felt the unprecedented despair of life, but although the dead have left this world, the living people have to live well in this world, and then Lin Yongjian slowly came out of his grief, and his acting career began to get on the right track, and he also got many opportunities to perform on stage or TV, and gradually he also opened up his popularity.

In 2010, Lin Yongjian's second child Lin Dajun was born, after Lin Dajun grew up, Lin Yongjian also took him to participate in variety shows, we can see from variety shows that Lin Yongjian is also very strict with his children, probably because he has suffered a lot, and he doesn't want his children to follow in his footsteps, Lin Dajun is also a very good child, he is sensible, obedient, and understands his parents, and Lin Yongjian's career is also developing very well. Won many awards.

Lin Yongjian's previous son died of illness, and he always felt that because he failed to give his children a rich living environment, he blamed himself very much, and even suffered from depression. But now that he has come out, life will get better and better. Don't touch someone's wounds.

It was endless despair, the loss of his son, and the pain in his heart to endure the success of the show, which endured a lot of pressure.

Lin Yongjian said before participating in the show that he had no time to accompany his children, and he was still performing when the child died, even if he knew the news, he could only insist on finishing the show. After this incident, in fact, Lin Yongjian often took his youngest son with him and spent more time at home.

When Lin Yongjian's eldest son was born, the family conditions were not good, and the couple had a busy schedule due to work reasons and had no time to take care of the children. I didn't know the news of the child's death until just before a show, and it made people cry when I heard it.

Back then, because Lin Yongjian and his wife were working in other places, they often couldn't take care of their children, and when the children were gone, they couldn't go home in time for the performance, which was sad to think about.

Lin Yongjian is a national first-class actor, his acting skills are superb and down-to-earth. I have to say that he brought us a lot of classic works. But those who knew him knew that he had lost a child.

For this, the pain has always been with him. What has Lin Yongjian experienced in his life? In fact, it is the pain of losing a child, the guilt of facing his wife, and so on.

Let's give you an analysis of what Lin Yongjian has experienced in his life?

1. The pain of losing a child

During the time when he lost his child, Lin Yongjian had been filming outside to make money, wanting to make this small family live a better life with his own hands. Maybe God played a joke on him, the child had a small accident before he was born, and the child didn't *** in the end. But Lin Yongjian felt that this defect was caused by himself, so losing the child was a pain in his life and a hurdle that he couldn't overcome.

2. Guilt towards his wife

Because he was busy filming, his wife was about to give birth, and he had no time to take care of his wife. In the end, he lost his child, and also gave Lin Yongjian a blow to the head. He felt that he was too busy with work to take care of them. He took all the responsibilities by himself and wanted to make up for his wife's guilt.

3. Use actions to make up for children and wives

The loss of children has become a fact, but those who survive still have to live. Although this pain is difficult to express, Lin Yongjian still uses his practical actions to make up for the guilt of his wife. When his wife had children again, he didn't let his wife do anything, and took care of everything.

Lin Yongjian used his actual actions to describe the happiness of ordinary families. For such an excellent actor, there is indeed a lot to learn from us. Although the experience of losing a child was the most painful moment for him, we know that people have to look forward, and only if they know how to cherish it, can they know that they will find it back through action after loss.

As an artist, he brought us a lot of classic works. For the shining points in him, it is still worth learning from.

In order to give his wife a happy home, Lin Yongjian worked day and night. So much so that Lin Yongjian was busy with work all day long and neglected to take care of his wife and children, and died. Lin Yongjian couldn't get out of the shadow of losing his child for a long time, and it wasn't until 2010 that his son Lin Dajun was born, and he came to his senses.

Life has experienced ups and downs, and when the child leaves him, he can't go to the scene, because he needs to work at that time, which is really painful.

His life is actually for the Spring Festival Gala, and he didn't see the last side of his biological child, which made him very regretful.