I want to give up on the boy I love, I want to forget him, but I can t forget, what should I do?

In fact, the more you want to forget, the more you can't forget.

The only thing that can help you the most is time and yourself.

With the loss of time, no matter how deep the feelings are, they will fade, let it help you take away your feelings for him!

In the days when you decide to forget about him, you have to know that it will be very bitter and painful, but you have to be patient, and once you think about him, keep yourself busy, do what you like, and try not to think about him.

Slowly, you will find that you can face him bravely, and you will not have the feeling of liking, just between friends.

Upstairs was right.

Time wears everything off. Including love.

I used to be like that, like a guy for four years and suddenly separated. It was much better after a month.

Some people will always be engraved in their memories ......Even if you forget his voice, forget his smile, forget his face ......But the feeling I feel when I think of him is ...... that will never change

That's how strange things are. When you try to pursue it, it is like a cloud in the sky, forever slipping through your fingers and cannot be caught; Wanting to throw it away, it turns into air again, and you can feel it with every breath.

A person always has to take a strange road, see strange scenery, listen to strange songs, and then in a casual moment, you will find that the things that you originally worked hard to forget are really forgotten ......

In a flash, in a blink of an eye, we are dying and growing old, and everything is over.

Ditto. Time accepts love.

Let it be

You think about his bad things every day, and if you don't have them, make up a few and add them to him

Think of him as the person you hate the most, or the most hated. Don't think about his good! The more you think about it, the more you feel like he's nothing. Very effective drops.

Let time dilute everything.

1. Divert attention.

Divert more attention from the positive aspects of life, whether it is to give up a person or a relationship, the most important thing is to divert your attention and focus more on the sunny and beautiful side of life.

You already deserve a better, happier life, and when you give up, you will find that there are more places in your life that are worth spending your time and energy, and you will be happier and happier.

2. Communicate with relatives and friends.

Communicate more deeply with relatives and friends, maybe before, you neglected them because of a bad relationship, and after giving up someone who doesn't care, you will find that your negligent relatives and friends are behind you, never far away from you, and still give you great comfort and support when you are lost.

To regulate yourself, you also need to give yourself a place to express your emotions, communicate deeply with relatives and friends, express your negative emotions, and let yourself get rid of the wrong person who gave up as soon as possible.

3. Enrich yourself.

Go to sports, go to school, and enrich yourself as much as possible. When a person is particularly fulfilling, he will no longer think too much about emotional problems, and it is inevitable that he will be a little lost and lonely when he gives up a person, but he enriches himself, goes to exercise, and goes to fitness.

4. Let yourself think about him as little as possible.

Many times when we find that we like someone very much, but this person doesn't care about us, and we do a lot of things to him and her in vain and don't get any response, then at this time, we have to examine whether our feelings are our own wishful thinking.

When you find that it is impossible between you, then try to give up slowly. The first step in giving up is to think about him and her as little as possible, because he doesn't care about you, so it's useless for you to think about him all day long.

We can spend more time making friends who care about us, whether it's friends of the same sex or the opposite sex. When we make more friends who care about us, then we will be cared for more by others.

At this time, for those who don't care about us, we will be able to forget more quickly. And after making more friends who care about us, whether it is friendship or love, may be closer to us.

6. Find your own hobbies.

When we have more hobbies, we can also find more fun or meet more friends. And our hobbies are likely to become one of our talents, attracting the attention of others, and we will have more opportunities to be cared for by others.

It's a very simple truth, if you can't forget it, find a way to express it. At least you will get two outcomes, the first one is that the other person accepts you and you start a real relationship. The second type is that the other party rejects you. Then you can also die and start a new life.

If the other party rejects you, and you have been in love, have you ever thought that this may be a kind of rejection after **, rather than really liking. Because liking someone is willing to make the other person happy.

Everyone has a lot of past things in their hearts, and there are some unforgettable people and things, as long as these do not affect the real life and work, they are all valuable spiritual wealth.

Let a good time and memories remain deep in my heart. It's also a very beautiful thing to have memories in life!

I can't forget that I can chase it.

Everyone is different, each with their own strengths and weaknesses, and try to compare as little as possible at any time. If you really like it, just chase it, anyway, the man is not married to the woman, anyway, he is still young, of course it is better to be successful, it is really hopeless, he will not be extravagant, and he will not regret his hard work.

You must remember that feelings have nothing to do with unilateral efforts, you have done what you have to do, give the other person enough space, and let the rest be with you. Don't end up only touching yourself. Try to pass it as much as possible, let it pass, time will be **, maybe a few months, maybe a few years, after all, there will be a time or someone you can let go.

Have you ever wondered? Maybe you just love that feeling, and you love that obsession, not the person. There are so many people in the world, whether you are waiting or looking, there will always be someone who will accompany you through your life, and you may meet that person one day.

You have to keep you the best you are now, give him the best no matter who you meet, what if you do? Don't be discouraged, don't be disappointed, there's still a long way to go.

First of all, you must face yourself, face that person, that relationship, don't blindly blame yourself, and don't deceive yourself by telling lies that you will forget tomorrow, that will only make yourself more painful. It is difficult for the person you have loved deeply to forget in this life, what you need is that you no longer fall into entanglement and pain, you can try to say goodbye to your past self and welcome a new life.

It's a long life, he has a good character, he's very good to you, he's cute....But he can't stay with you after all. At the fork in the road in life, he has other choices, what you do for him, what you do for this relationship is a one-man show, without a male protagonist and an audience. Your pain, your torment, your depths, he will never know and he will not want to know.

You need to know that separation is not due to regret, but by choice. You have to remember that you are just a person who has walked with him for a while, and after this journey, no matter how much you are reluctant, you must be separated, and you are not people who can spend your life with each other, this is a fact. May you work hard all your life, be loved all your life, get what you want, and let go of what you can't get.

If you can't forget, you can connect, and if you can't go back to the past, you can learn to let go. It's time to eat, it's time to sleep, it's time to sleep, it's time to insomnia. Learn to cultivate one or several hobbies and discover the beauty of life.

Let go of excessive pride, try your best to redeem the beauty of the past, and do not dwell on the memories of the past. Whether it is rich or rivaling the country, whether it is the power of the world, the beauty of the prosperous world, or the variety of styles, there are always things in life that you can't get and have nothing to do, and it is a mature attitude to do your best to obey the destiny of heaven.

You don't regret that you ever loved him, and you don't complain about your encounter. You are very grateful that you liked him with all your heart at that time. I'm grateful for the experience that made you mature.

Empathize with him, don't fall in love, find a better boy than him to like.

Then go and confess, if you can't forget, why bother wronging yourself, if you like it, pursue it.

If you think you still have a chance, try to go back to him and say that he hasn't forgotten you. If you think it's impossible for you, be cruel to yourself and forget that he's looking for a new boyfriend.

Stay away from him, don't let go too deliberately, there are so many people in this world, there must be others you love and love you.

Just go with the flow and live a normal life. A person's memory is not as good as you think, and slowly you will forget about him.

Together, if you can. If not, then let him stay in your heart.

Then put him in the deepest part of your heart and live your life with this deep feeling, such a state of mind is the best.

If the boy is still in your neighborhood, you might as well chase after him.

Then go to the boy you like and pursue your love.