I always feel that my family looks down on me, why do my relatives look down on me?

In fact, your family's attitude towards you shows that there are family conflicts in your family, that is to say, it is not necessarily because you are not good to you, it is also possible that some of your behaviors make your family think that you are not enterprising, it is recommended that you communicate with your family to solve the conflict and create a harmonious home.

How old is your grandmother, if she is sixty or seventy years old, then, (rude) wait until he is xx then you will be free.

They counted me down on the third floor of the family in front of me. I'm desperate too. Hide in the house and cry.

I always felt that my sister was sowing discord, but at the same time, I felt like I was a waste in the eyes of my parents. It's so angry... I really want to get out of this house quickly.

I'm just good and bad, and sometimes I feel like they're all good.

...... proI also want to ask: Do you not study and work at home every day? Sleep until noon casually, and the family will work even if your grandmother is so old!

I'm sorry, I know it's a bit rude, but after reading what you said, I want to ask, are you really your child?

You're good at it, be optimistic.

It is a small family dispute.

There's no need to take it personally.

Adults should have a large number.

1. Disdain for you.

When you go to your relatives' house, this kind of relatives will be dismissive, either cold words or insinuations, never take into account your feelings, often take care of yourself and play with your mobile phone, whether you are interested in you or the topic you initiated, neither ushered in nor sent, even if it is good to you, it will take a gesture of charity, not to give you new clothes or new furniture, etc., It's about giving you old clothes or old furniture or something like that.

Second, it will never be your opinion.

If you take the initiative to put forward opinions, relatives will not, the right to turn a deaf ear, the key is that this kind of relatives think that you can't, although your opinion is reasonable, but relatives will still treat your opinions as air, not as good air, but as bad air, since this kind of relatives are not optimistic about you, you are not welcome to participate in the discussion.

3. Reduce my dealings with you.

This kind of relatives will not take the initiative to interact with you, unless you have to move around, otherwise this kind of relatives will not come to the door, even if the distance is close, you will feel estranged, close relatives are not to become distant relatives, but to become strangers, the more you do not recognize your relatives, the more you will be afraid that you will ask for help, you are good to this kind of relatives, will be mistaken for ulterior motives, take your kindness as a donkey's liver and lungs, often refuse you to invite guests to dinner and gifts, or hurry up to exchange gifts, look down on your relatives will dissociate themselves from you.

Fourth, comparison and provocation.

Relatives who look down on you will interfere in your family affairs, since they look down on you, they also think that you have no ability to handle family affairs, in fact, this kind of relatives have ulterior motives, for fear that you will overtake, do not want you and your family to live well, so they will take advantage of the opportunity to interfere in your family affairs to sow discord, so that your family affairs will add fuel to the fire, eager to make your family discordant, resulting in everything is not prosperous, in addition to this kind of relatives will show off in front of you, not only to make you realize inferior, but also to dispel the idea of climbing, Either they treat you like green leaves or they treat you like dirt.

Conclusion: Don't move around anymore if you look down on your relatives, otherwise it's boring for yourself, and living your life well is more important than anything else, and some relatives are neither as good as friends nor as good as neighbors.

If your relatives look down on you, let's figure it out first. What does he despise about you? If it is because of some material circumstances, such as poverty, family background, etc., then I don't think there is any need to care about these, which means that this kind of relative does not need to be friendly.

If it is because of some of your internal conditions, such as self-cultivation, family education, character, etc., then I think we can find the reason from ourselves first, and if there is one, we will change it, and if there is none, we will encourage it. But in any case, as your loved one, it is a very despicable act to look down on yourself.

People's face depends on their own to fight for society, and it proves that you are better than others, anyone's success is not luck, and it depends on personal perseverance and hard work to achieve success.

1.Ignore your love and answer it, indifferent and perfunctoryI believe that most people have encountered snobbish relatives, who always find ways to flatter and get closer to rich and powerful relatives, and are sneering at relatives who are not as good as themselves. If a relative habitually ignores you, to a large extent, they just don't take you seriously and look down on you.

2.Mock you and ridicule you when you are downIn the real money society, when you are poor, you go to your relatives for help. Some people won't help you, and they see your jokes, and they are even worse than strangers.

The richer you are, the better they are to you. And when you are down, even if you take the initiative to say hello when you meet, they will ignore you. They always put some bad labels on you and insist on preaching to you.

In fact, they look down on you very much in their hearts, and sarcasm hits you in order to show their own status.

3.Whatever you say, he scoffs at itNow, some family affection is not enough in the face of money. Some relatives do not respect your opinion, or even feel disgusted by your speech, so they will deliberately target you and interrupt you while you are talking.

Their disrespectful performance is actually looking down on people, and they don't want to curry favor with these snobbish relatives, let alone ask them for any help. People are cold, don't overestimate family affection.