My husband did it to me, and I can t see the future

Does he love you? Anyway, men shouldn't be so violent to women If you both like each other (I'm talking nonsense when you're both married), then find a way to communicate with him more If he hits you, you can bear it If he goes too far, you can consider counterattacking I can't tell you whether to divide this or not! It's up to you (I'll tell you I'm a minor?) ）

I'm a man, a man who beats a woman is not a good man, that's all I can say, you make your own decisions.

You need to do emotional marriage counseling before deciding whether you want to leave.

Your husband has some problems with his emotional regulation ability, but he is a man with self-esteem and family care.

As for you, you are more sensitive to issues such as my parents and his parents, which shows that you and he are not yet mature and cannot psychologically break away from the original family to establish their own nuclear family. It's like a little girl arguing with a little boy and saying, "My family is good, yours is bad." ”

If a person is physically of marriage age, but the mental age is still in childhood, then no matter who he marries, there will be a crisis.

For his poor ability to regulate emotions, you can use 3 methods.

1. In ordinary life, try not to light his ignition point.

2. When you are calm, you can discuss his emotional problems with him. It is recommended that he read books on emotions, which is best if he has the conditions to enjoy psychological counseling.

3. Look at what factors in your words, deeds and concepts are in crisis marriage, and adjust them appropriately. (If you can't find it and feel wronged, you can also talk to a counselor.) ）

In addition, the love in marriage is mutual, don't just care if he loves you or not, you also have to pay attention to your own feelings, do you love him or not? Do you think he deserves your tolerance? Are you patient enough with him? Is it necessary to continue this marriage?

Peace be upon you! Welcome to continue the problem of marriage with you.

Is this the first time? Are you just married?

Divorce is mandatory. There is no room for negotiation. There is nothing to be nostalgic about. And after leaving, it is better to cut off all contact.

Alas, it's terrifying, let's get a divorce quickly, just sue for divorce, whether he agrees or not, sue twice, the law is ironclad and sentences divorce, and the law has provisions.

Let's go! It feels like your husband has a mental problem.

Consciousness and you can't see the result, I want to be separated from you and don't have contact, which means that you still haven't made up a letter to do anything with him, and there is no result, so that he is not in the mood to be with you.

Men say to you.

He can't see the future.

It can be understood that I am very confused about this feeling.

I don't know where to go.

It is advisable to communicate with the other party further.

The answer can be determined.

If you don't have a bachelor's degree or above, they will worry about your future, and if you don't have a house, they will think that you can't even give you the most basic home, and if you are not handsome enough, you will be embarrassed to take them out to meet your friends.

415 as soon as possible: I don't know what kind of man is qualified to get married, I feel that it is too difficult to find a partner now, it is too late to pursue academic qualifications now, it is too difficult to make more money and I can't afford to wait, all the changes are not temporary.

Silly rest: Reply as soon as possible 415 : Now it is popular not to settle, rather lack than indiscriminate, all are saying that find a perfect man to marry, he will be good to you for a lifetime, just find a man to marry, he has no money, no house, no car, no education, relatively low income and career, can't give women a good life, there will be a bunch of contradictions, saying that marrying a rich and educated woman is now living well, and a woman who marries a poor man is still suffering, and marriage is a lifelong thing.

This netizen, I think it's possible that he thinks the two of you are together and suitable, maybe the two of you may be really inappropriate, so she thinks she can't see the future, or maybe your boyfriend is a scumbag, you didn't let him touch you, he said that the two of you can't see the future, if it's this kind of man, you better break up early, really, if you are dating, you will be in a relationship, and when you are dating, you will talk sweetly, and you will start to see the future after you don't like you, how can there be such a bad person? Hurry up and break up.

Life is not satisfactory, and I have no ability to change! Then you tell him that the days are still long, give yourself a goal, a dream, and achieve it!

I just don't want to continue talking with you, I want to break up.

Are you ready to change to a wealthy husband?

Some people want to be plain and simple.

Some people want their lives to get better and better.

It's character. However, if you just change your husband for a better life.

Personally, I don't think it's preferable.

Dear, what do you mean by "don't want to see it"? Kissing a woman should not find hope in men, but in herself. Men are more selfish.

If the other person has children, they may not perform as well as they do now. If this husband is still responsible for the family's financial responsibilities, he is still a relatively good person.

Question: My husband and I have been married for 16 years, the doll is 15 years old, since I married him, I have never been to work, and I have beaten people, I have beaten me several times, and almost all the expenses of the family are mine, and now I am responsible for it, we have a mortgage house under our name, can I get a divorce?

Kiss, hard work, hug.

Dear, can you comprehensively analyze 1Can you raise children alone after divorce? 2. If you don't find the right person after the divorce, will it be better to live alone than now? These two points are for your reference.

Question: I can raise children independently, I have been managing the cost of children for so many years, and it is better to live alone than now, and my heart is not so tired.

It doesn't hurt to ask questions.

He choked me by the neck yesterday.

Kissing, may be divorced, you need to pay attention to whether the other party has excesses, pay attention to protect yourself.

If you don't have a clear goal in your question, ask the teacher what I should do.

Usually you talk a little more about whom.

Kiss, when you get along with a man, you can improve the method, don't provoke the man, the man is actually a cow, don't provoke it.

I'm disgusted with him now.

Politely evaded.

I'm in a similar situation to you, and I would love to get a divorce too, but if I really want to leave him, I won't agree, and I have a child, and I don't know what will happen in the future.

My husband too, every day on the Internet to play games, lunch at noon to order takeout, we are in a different place, I don't know how to communicate with him, I don't speak well, every time I talk and talk he doesn't squeak, and finally ignore me, I don't take the initiative to talk to him, he doesn't pay attention to me for many days! I thought about divorce, but I was reluctant and unwilling!

Hurry up and get divorced, there are so many divorces now, it's nothing.

It is the husband's responsibility to protect you and create your own happiness together on the basis of Yunlead's trusting hands.

You are insecure because you want to be "satisfied", and that doesn't mean you don't "do your best". You have to find a balance between the two, and you can't just immerse yourself in the pain you weave.

Then there is only a divorce, and if he does not agree, use the law to protect himself.

Let's leave, if it's painful, does it make sense to live?

I can't see the future, maybe my life plan is not too clear, I can't be sure if you are the person he has walked with in his life, maybe there is some misunderstanding between you, or there is little communication, lack of emotional foundation, you can go and ask him face to face, don't think about it alone, see where the problem is, and solve it together.

When a man says that he can't see the future, that is, no matter how hard he tries and struggles, the result is that he has been failing and can't see the hope of success, that is, the man has lost confidence and the motivation to move forward, which is a very desperate and terrible point of view.

If your boyfriend says this to you, it means that he doesn't want to be with you, or maybe he thinks too highly of you, afraid that you can't give you a good life with him, no matter what it is, it means to break up.

It seems that he has lost faith in the future, so encourage him to work hard and not give up on himself!

There are two reasons for this: first, he no longer loves you, and has moved away; Second, he thinks you are not good enough (beautiful), and he wants to find better people. I just don't want to spend time with you anyway.

I just don't know the way out in the future, and I'm confused about the future!

What he said about not seeing the future is probably a loss of confidence in a sense.

Men say to you.

He can't see the future.

It can be understood that I am very confused about this feeling.

I don't know where to go.

It is advisable to communicate with the other party further.

The answer can be determined.

Either I'm disappointed in you, or I don't like you anymore and want to break up with you.

Three kinds of people (male) who interpret and "can't see it": 1. Blind. or people who are about to become blind.

2. People who are terminally ill or desperate for life. 3. Older people or feel that there is not much time left. To sum up, all three groups of people have "no future" for the future''said.

A period of confusion between two people together.

First of all, you have to examine whether Bai is wrong or not, du

Why he said and you see.

Zhi can't get in the future, is it because you won't marry him, or because you lack the virtue of hard work and thrift of a little Chinese woman. So he doesn't want to talk to you anymore, so he got married outside and got married, if it's not, then this man hasn't really loved you from the beginning, but treats you as a doll, and when he's tired of it, he finds a new couple, this kind of man is not worth your sadness, but fortunately he didn't hurt you for life, if you get married and have children and daughters and then be abandoned then it will be more painful, so you need to check yourself and be glad that you don't move forward with the same goal one day to part ways. Put away your mood and find a new love.

If a person doesn't love you anymore, he will do anything.

The man said to me that he couldn't see the future, and he said that he couldn't let go of me, which means that the man is not satisfied with his current job, has no future, and is reluctant to let go of you, and is reluctant to let you go, giving you the best life, so he can't let go.

What this man means when he says that he can't see the future is that you won't be able to find a good job in the future, and you won't be able to make a lot of money. He loves you because he likes you, but he can't give you a better life without money, and he is reluctant to let you go.

Maybe your relationship is opposed by your family, or maybe he has encountered some difficulties himself, he thinks that you may not have a future, but he likes you very much and is reluctant to part with you.

Look at the questions you raised, you know that you are not a veteran in love, your boyfriend suddenly mentions breaking up, there must be a reason for him to break up, you should look for your own problems, if you are a perfect, gentle, considerate woman, you hit a stick, ask your boyfriend he is reluctant to leave, there must be a reason, sometimes you can't blame all the blame on your boyfriend.

Judging from what you say, if it weren't for your fault first, there may only be two reasons for your boyfriend to suddenly propose to break up, one is to like the new and hate the old, and find the right person for him, and the other is to understand your character and the weaknesses of girls during the period of getting along with you, for example, girls spend money lavishly, lazy, unmotivated, etc., of course, your boyfriend may be under pressure from the outside world when he leaves you, or he is financially powerless, so he becomes a deserter to find someone suitable for him.

In short, there is a fate for acquaintance, and there is a reason for breaking up, since he intends to leave you and abandon it, it means that your feelings are exhausted, and sometimes, when you know that you can't get it, letting go is also a kind of love.

The man said to me that he couldn't see the future, and he said that he couldn't let me go, what did he mean? It shows that he is somewhat dissatisfied with the status quo.

He is very entangled, feels that it is impossible to be with you, and wants to give up this relationship, but he can't let go of you. What you've been through, maybe you can work on it.

If the boy hangs and doesn't let go and doesn't promise, he either keeps a spare tire or has a masochistic physique ......

In fact, I have always had a doubt, what is there to like about a sissy who is hesitant and can break constantly?

I like you in my heart and treat you very hard, but it's not easy for you to make him down-to-earth, so I feel that there is no future with you in the future.

It means that I don't think you two have a better future. The meaning of not being able to let go should be that I still like you for the time being.

complicated heart, and I feel that you can't go together, but I am reluctant to let go of you, and I don't know what to do.

It seems that he has you in his heart, but work or other things, there is no hope, there is no way, contradictions!

The man tells you that he can't see the future and can't let it go.

The next you explain that life is helpless but still concerned about you.

I am confused about your future and feel that the future is bleak, but I still worry about you in my heart.

It shows that he still has feelings for you and hopes that you will develop in a good way.

The man said to me that he couldn't see the future, and he said that he couldn't let me go, what did he mean? I want to break up with you;