With the increase of life expectancy, will the duration of marriage change?

As life expectancy increases, I think the question of whether the duration of marriage will change in the middle of the marriage. Why there has been a change, I will talk to you from the following conveniences and my actual feelings.

With the development of society, the progress of human beings, the development of various medical conditions, and people's pursuit of a happy life. Human lifespans are getting longer and longer. The increase in life expectancy will inevitably make many people's marriages last longer.

So, why is this changing? First of all, it is the degree of openness of people's minds, as society becomes more and more open, people's ideas are also becoming more and more open. And that kind of innocence between people is also slowly lost, and with the erosion of Western culture, more and more people are not satisfied with the present.

Just as the divorce rate remains high now, this is the best example of this.

The second point I think is that with the improvement of national laws in the future, the freedom of marriage will be more and more valued. In the past, many people would not divorce even if they were unhappy, but now they advocate freedom of marriage, and if one party feels inappropriate, the two can divorce as long as they negotiate well.

The third point is that I think the survival of marriage requires tolerance, and people nowadays are relatively intolerant. Now, as long as two people can't get along, they will divorce and live their own lives, which is not right. But there are still people who do it.

Take my colleagues as an example, there are about a dozen of the 30 people in our office who have experienced second marriages. The reason for this is that many people are more self-conscious. No longer live for each other, but for yourself. Therefore, they pay more attention to personality development and pay more attention to self-feeling.

So, I think that as life expectancy increases, the duration of marriage will change.

I think the answer to this is yes.

The Maldives is a small country, but it has the highest divorce rate in the world, and the second place is Belarus, whose divorce rate is as high as 68%, these figures are not optimistic and even creepy.

In recent years, there has been an increasing proportion of "unmarried" people, most of whom are successful and high-ranking people, who advocate liberalism. I have such a relative around me, who is in her 30s, works in a foreign company, has a house of her own in Beijing, looks good, and has many suitors around her, but she just doesn't want to get married.

Speaking of this, I can't help but think of my grandparents, when they were young, they were very affectionate, and the housework was basically done by my grandfather, my grandfather always said that my grandmother had a bad memory, and I was afraid that she would lose everything, in fact, because I loved her too much. Every time my grandfather accompanied my grandmother home, everyone said that he had married a good husband, and in today's words, he was envious, jealous, and hateful. But who would have thought that when I was in junior high school, my grandfather filed for divorce from my grandmother despite the opposition of my family, which was a bolt from the blue for my grandmother.

Later, my grandmother suffered a cerebral hemorrhage and was half paralyzed, and my grandfather did not come back to take care of her. I thought she wouldn't remember these things when she was sick, but how could she forget? Every time I went to see my grandmother, she said that she didn't want my grandfather anymore, but she just mentioned his business, crying and talking, I looked very uncomfortable.

I don't know what my grandfather thinks, and whether he is really willing.

Now this society is too complicated, true and false, false and true, sometimes it will make you lose your eyes, I hope everyone can uphold an innocent heart, full of confidence in marriage, and full of love for the world!

1.Don't quarrel with your husband.

In fact, every woman will make a mistake, before and after marriage, she will feel that her husband will let her everywhere, this idea is actually wrong, before marriage and after marriage are two levels, why do you say that, because before marriage, the husband tried every means to coax women, and after getting married and having children, they began to slowly lose their enthusiasm before marriage, and even women and their husbands made a joke publicly, they would feel tired, how to solve this problem, the only way is not to quarrel with her husband, let him slowly wake up.

2.Be in a better state of mind.

Life after marriage is actually not so easy, the husband has to go out to make money to support the family, and the wife has to take care of the children at home, sometimes the husband goes out to socialize, or has been holding a mobile phone with friends of the opposite sex, the wife will feel that her husband does not love her, and then start to look at her husband's mobile phone text messages, call records, originally the husband is tired enough to go to work every day, and when he comes home, he will be played by his wife to accompany him, and he will definitely get tired of it after a long time, and eventually go to the road of divorce. The wife just needs to be in a better state of mind and do what she has to do.

3.Spend less, encourage more.

I believe that today's women want to dress up beautifully, it doesn't matter if the family conditions are good, the family conditions are not good, you still spend money every day to buy this and that, the husband will have some ideas when he sees it, the hard-earned money is to maintain the family and children, and the stupid is not to let you take it every day to buy unnecessary things, after a long time, the husband has no desire to save money, and slowly the family is moving towards the road of poverty, in fact, this phenomenon has a chance to be solved, that is, the wife spends less money, and the husband comes home from work to give more encouragement.