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Aren't all people like this nowadays, one set in front of you, and another set in front of you. There are a lot of things, and when I hear a lot of things, I naturally feel that there is nothing left. Because the nature of this society is like this.
It is recommended that the best way for you to do this is to listen to good words, and if you don't hear bad words, you must endure where you can endure it, but you can't give in to everything, and you must take your own interests as the most fundamental starting point. Others flatter, politely flattering, whatever they like, don't let some of others' practices and ideas affect their mood. There's nothing to be depressed about things like this, don't think so much about these meaningless trivialities, what you should do is much better!
But it won't be that, so think about what you really should be doing well after reading it!
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In a unit of your nature, the key is to follow the quasi-leader, if your leader is very old and about to retire, you can just listen to what he says, ignore the rest, pay attention to observation, unite a group of people who are able to do things, are in the prime of life, and have a relatively high level of cultural knowledge, and everyone makes friends together, which is very helpful for your future life.
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1. Don't take the leader's criticism too seriously.
Many newcomers in the workplace, let alone criticism, can't even stand up to a cruel word. I still have immaturity on my body, and I feel that the leader has opinions about me and I am not recognized. Every day, I fell into complaining and self-doubt, and my work status plummeted.
In fact, this will only make the leader feel that you can't withstand the blow, and will look down on you. In a truly mature workplace, I will not take the criticism of the leader to heart. If you have time to be sad, it is better to work hard and think about how to get the approval of the leader.
2. Don't be unconvinced after being blamed by the leader.
Young people are too young, but middle-aged people in the workplace who have worked for a long time know that life is not easy and work is not easy. Children will cry when they are wronged, and mature professionals know how to regulate their emotions and will use their own strength to prove themselves. Complaining about complaints from many people in the workplace will only reach the ears of the leader in the end, and finally be put aside by the leader.
Smart people in the workplace, in the face of the leader's criticism, will not complain but calm themselves down, analyze the reasons for the leader's anger and the mistakes they have made, and resolutely do not make them again in the future. Redeem the position in the hearts of the leaders and prove themselves again.
3. Be criticized by the leader, don't be unclear and unclear.
Many people feel that if they are criticized by the leader, then they will suffer, and they can just go in and out of the left ear. In this way, we have not solved the substantive problem, and the leader will not accuse you for no reason. If the leader misunderstands you, you can't help others take the blame for nothing, you must prove your innocence.
If the leader hates you and criticizes you, it means that he is optimistic about you, and criticizing you is also promoting you and doing it for your good. If you don't care, miss these hints, and drift away from your relationship with your leadership, you may miss out on a promotion and a raise. Don't even know why the leader scolds you, we have to know what we can improve, the leader is good for you, you have to behave well.
4. Be criticized by the leader and dare to take responsibility.
When leaders criticize us, we must remember two things. You must dare to take responsibility, don't argue too much, whether it is your responsibility or not, you must first admit your mistakes and take responsibility. Let the leader feel that you are a responsible person, and at least dare to take responsibility for doing wrong, and the impression of you will not be too bad.
And those who only evade or dump the blame will only make the leader more angry. The attitude of people in the workplace: the leader's order is implemented first, and the leader's criticism dares to take responsibility.
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In the company, what should you do when you meet a leader who always teaches you how to speak?
1.Listen carefully. It's not a bad thing to meet a leader who always has to teach you.
There are people who are willing to take the initiative to teach, and we can't ask for it. Such a leader is either serious about you and willing to help you, or he is a good teacher. But in any case, this is teaching us to do good deeds, and we should not be cold and refuse.
I recommend that you have a good attitude. Respect and gratitude to this enthusiastic leader. In terms of behavior, we must listen carefully and do not let down the enthusiasm of leaders and teachers.
Don't believe all because it's the leader says, and don't be annoyed or even annoyed because the leader is too enthusiastic about teaching people, so that you completely deny the leader's words. Listening is an attitude, and it is an appropriate response to the leader's kindness.
2.Communication skills.
It is a basic skill that a person should have, and communication is used all the time in life. between friends, family, colleagues, leaders, and more. Between different social roles, it is necessary to communicate with different people with different attitudes, different attitudes, different identities, and different moods.
The attitude of the leader should be respected. Your happiness is in the hands of leaders, whether it is a public institution or a personnel unit. If you offend the leader, I guarantee that the leader has a thousand ways to fire you.
A leader's time is precious. Do everything you can to help leaders reduce useless working hours. Use your time to help leaders save time.
3.You can ask the leader if he has time. When you meet the leader, if you don't have anything to talk about, you can ask the leader if he has time.
The leader didn't have time, so he said hello and left. If the leader is free, everyone can also report the difficulties encountered in the work. Regardless of whether the difficulty is solved or not, as long as you tell the leader, there will be an opportunity for conversation between the superiors and subordinates.
Simply making a work report in front of the leader can not only show your serious attitude, but also get the guidance of the leader. Maybe a few simple words of communication can impress the leader; If the leader has a good relationship with himself, he can also talk about some personal matters and quickly become the leader's confidant. So when you meet a leader, you can ask the leader if he has time.
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When you meet such a leader, you can just do it, and the leader may want to teach you something, don't refute the leader.
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I think you can only be with each other, so that the leader will not give you small shoes, and you will be happy in your professional life.
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First of all, you still need to be patient, after all, you are working under him, and if you don't obey, then he is likely to have nothing to do in the future.
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1. Always ask you about every detail.
Some people may have a little doubt about the first point, and often ask about every detail, why is it just annoying? Let's think about it carefully, why do leaders often ask you about every detail, and a very ordinary thing has to be asked so often, which means that the leader doesn't trust you at all.
Each of the leaders and employees of a company has their own job responsibilities.
For leaders, their job responsibilities are generally responsible for controlling the overall situation, and those details are all handed over to employees to do, if there are no special circumstances, leaders will not ask.
At this time, he questioned you, and it was obvious that he was not at ease with you, and this unease was probably caused by hating you.
So if your boss often asks you about every detail of your work, you have to be vigilant, the leader may hate you very much, make a good trade-off, whether to stay in this company or not.
2. Let you make a fool of yourself in public.
When one person hates the other, they want to make the other person unlucky every day and lose everything they care about. And people are born to save face, and face is something that most of us care about, which has also become a common means for leaders to deal with those annoying employees. Let them make a fool of themselves in public.
For example, in a certain meeting, you put forward plan A, plan A is a little unreasonable, but there is no big problem, but the leader who hates you may magnify the problem, directly veto your plan A, and then sneer and sneer, so that you lose all your face.
For us, if you don't get what you want in a company frequently, the desire to stay will decrease dramatically, and when you leave voluntarily, the leader will hate you.
There is also a characteristic of people, they want to escape humiliation, and making you ugly in public is actually an act that can greatly increase your sense of humiliation, and when you make a fool of yourself, you may immediately want to escape from this place of right and wrong, so that the goal of the leader is achieved.
So if that's the case for you, stop silly and bury your head in the work.
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I think you should stay, although your direct leader is in charge of you, but after all, a large number of derivatives are counted, and if the leader asks you to stay, you must stay.
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In order to work smoothly in the future, it is best to bring some gifts to visit the direct leader, tell the leader that he will work hard, and let the leader give more advice.
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The big leader let you stay because it is your dependence, so that the direct leader will no longer say to let you go, and then react with the big leader, I believe that the direct leader will also be afraid.
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Then change departments, talk to the big leader, tell him the current situation of the department and his own ideas, and see what he says.
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Then ask the big leader to help you communicate with the small leader. At the same time, you also need to check what are your shortcomings? It is necessary to actively make corrections.
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If this is the case, it is enough to do your job well, and maybe there will be development in the future.
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If I meet such a boss, I will definitely quit because this kind of boss will not treat you well at all, and there is no future for a company like this, so it is very good for you to leave as soon as possible.
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I will tell the leader that what he said is excessive, and I hope that he will not say such things again in the future, and I will fight back, and if the communication with him is ineffective, I will report the matter to the higher level leader.
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I will refute where he has wronged me, defend my legitimate rights and interests, if it is none of my business, then he can do what he likes, do what he can, and resign if he can't.
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Generally, they choose to resign, they don't like to get along with such leaders, and they have to pay attention to their mood when they work.
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If leaders talk about you a lot, it may be because they feel you have room for improvement or want you to do your job better. Here are some ways to respond to your boss about you:
1.Listen to the leader's advice: Try to listen to the leader's advice to see if what they say makes sense, and if so, try to improve your own working style and methods to improve your efficiency and quality.
2.Communication: If you feel that the leader's suggestion is unfair or unreasonable, you can communicate with the leader appropriately, express your ideas and opinions, and seek consensus and solutions.
3.Make a plan: According to the leader's suggestions, develop a realistic improvement plan and set some feasible goals to achieve the improvement step by step. Peimin.
4.Stay calm: Even if you're angry or frustrated, stay calm and don't act impulsively. Think calmly about how to solve problems and take positive actions to improve your performance.
5.Seek support: If you are confused or unable to solve the problem, you can seek support and advice from other colleagues or professionals to help you better cope with your leader's advice.
In conclusion, maintain a positive attitude and constantly strive to improve your work ability and performance for better career development.
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If you often say that you are not right at work, instead of counting you down and insulting you, then I personally think that this leader is okay, at least Tongzheng has not given up the bureau and regretted you, taught you how to do it, and instructed you. If not, then don't want this kind of collar round guide.
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You should have a flat mindset and count everything you learn at work as your own. In addition, work is work, and life is life.
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This statement expresses a kind of consciousness, but also reveals a kind of helplessness. Therefore, we need to interpret it from a positive and negative perspective.
Positive perspective] leadership is strong.
The vast majority of leaders have grown up from their industries, teams, and fields, and they are stronger than ordinary staff in terms of experience, vision, thinking, ability, and so on. Because they have experiences, experiences, and experiences that have been accumulated along the way. It can be said that they have all encountered the problems encountered by ordinary personnel, and they have all walked the roads that ordinary personnel have walked, so they have a pattern and vision far beyond ordinary personnel.
I don't know the true face of Lushan, only because I am in this mountain. As a staff member in the bureau, in the face of problems in the way of thinking, many times because of experience, pattern, vision and other issues can not find the right point, but the leader can! Therefore, I have always believed that it is okay for young people to be arrogant, but they must also respect and recognize the leader enough, and every comrade who is a leader always has those brushes that others do not have!
Negative perspective] Leaders have the right to disagree with their views.
Many questions seem to be more correct than the leader, why do we still succumb to the leader in the end? That's because leaders have enough resource advantages, and they are often the rule-makers, the leaders of team actions, and the implementers of resource allocation. Therefore, many things that seem to be right but are contrary to the will of the leader will develop in the direction of the will of the leader.
We don't have to be too indignant or complain about this! This is the rule of the workplace - democratic centralism in the workplace, no matter how big the opinions below, you have to listen to the leader in the end!
There is a kind of luck to meet a capable leader, and there is a kind of helplessness to meet a capable leader!
The leader is always right, but also shows that many of us are wrong, a capable leader allows us to have a growth direction and target, become him to catch up with him and replace him, this is the classic growth logic of the workplace!
The leader is always right, which also shows that the leader has left all the decisions to himself and denied others. Then, it is easy for us to fall into the belief that "no matter how good we think, we can't compare to the leader", and finally become more and more lazy and negative!
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