How can a woman be like this, what should I do 50 points

It's a hassle, but I understand your feelings.

But it's really hard to say.

Let's have a good talk with her, if she really doesn't want to marry you and doesn't want to live with you, then you still can't force it, I'm afraid that you won't have a good life in the future. The shadow is nothing, the key is whether she still loves the man she used to be, and if she does, it will be troublesome.

If you can't do it, give up quickly, explain it to your family, don't be afraid of ugliness, and for a lifetime, these will be nothing.

Better for her, I've had a similar experience lately, but it's different from your character.

If you can, talk to her former boyfriend. Well.

Sit down with her and have a good talk to see if she still cares about you, she won't say that innocently.

Chances are, it's testing you!

Men love their stepwives, and women value their ex-husbands. It is said that women are the most memorable to the first man, and talk to him seriously.

Dumped this woman who eats in the bowl and thinks about the pot.

My wife will be fine like this for a while.

This woman too. Speechless. No one can stand it.

Depend on... This kind of woman wants it too!

Oh, I turned out to be a high school student. When your parents found out, they didn't know how to react.

She blushes when she touches you in the cafeteria because you confessed to her, she rejected you, and in that case, she needs to deliberately keep her distance from you. A girl's relationship in high school is really not stable, she may like different people at different stages, and just because she is attracted to a certain aspect of the other party, it is not the so-called love, so, if you really like her, you might as well wait, concentrating on studying is the right thing, and when you get to college, you will have time to think about these things!

You like her and confess to her She may want to accept that she likes that man It's not a flower at this age She just likes him and wants to accept you But she's afraid of hurting you So tell you not to ask Or you find that she blushes is not for you I think high school is very suitable for falling in love At this time, there is no so-called benefit of college students Potential stocks Come on I wish you happiness.

The girl's relationship is currently unstable, I advise you to take a break Time will tell.

Since she rejected you, why bother with it. If she's just hypocritical, I'll want you to chase her a few more times, but she's close to other boys. She herself admits that she is very attentive, and it is indeed not easy to give up, but is she really suitable for you?

Would you be happy if you were really together? You calm down and think about it, if you have confidence in your future, then be bold and chase it, don't care so much. If you don't have confidence, give up as soon as possible.

Bless you all.

Do you really love her? It's better for such a woman to fall, or you can open an orphanage in the future, it's better to forget about him immediately, don't fall too much, and when you fall too much, you won't be able to get out, you will hurt for the rest of your life, just like me.

Forget about her and try to live in a different way, although it is difficult, but dare to try. You love her means that you have fate, you can give your love means that you have emotions, but there are also a lot of fate, including bad fate, there are emotions and principles, maybe you are now because you love her, or even can't be with her, and more motivate you to love her, but these may be at such a stage, or when you pass this period, your mind will change, love is right, but as long as you have loved, it is enough, love is selfless, don't pursue whether it is worth it, but love is not all you have, it is enough for people to love. When it's time to let go, you have to let go, so it's good for everyone, isn't there a song called "There is a love called letting go".

Adjust your mentality, you are a man, and you have to look away. There will be a good girl waiting for you ahead, and you can't give up your dignity and everything for the sake of the moment. I know it's hard for a person who really gives love, but no one can help you, the world is very big, you can't just live in your own small world, hold on to it, and the pain will soon pass!

If you're sure you really love him, wouldn't you mind if she really had sex with another man during that time in the future? If you are sure that you really love her, please ask her if she also loves you, if the two of you really love each other, please eliminate all difficulties, and the two of you should stay together for a long time. If your mentality is ambiguous, please quickly cut through the mess and completely separate from her.

Have fun.

I don't know how to comfort you, you're really amazing! ~~

Do your own thing! What's the point of asking someone?

If you really wanted to be with her wholeheartedly, you wouldn't break up with her because of her mother.

1 All First of all, if your girlfriend can live with you, it means that she loves you, don't doubt this. Secondly, she must have her own reasons for doing this, and you should try to communicate with her. My girlfriend didn't dare to tell her family that she was in love, but after communicating, I knew that she promised her family that she would not be in love in college, so I found a time to talk to her, talk about my doubts, and finally wish you a lover to finally become a family.

It may be that the family disagrees. It could also be that she has a nucleus with her family

Maybe there's one in the family?

Communicate well, communicate.

Is there something on this girl's mind?

Man, it's enough for you to do this. You can't accommodate her in everything, so she will think that you are very useless, very useless...

You just have to make a gesture now to let him know that your life is still good without her....I don't know if you've heard this sentence"The more you treat her, the more she treats you badly. "To be a woman is to be reserved, and to be a man is even more important...

Hope it helps....

Brother, it's up to you.

A man must be courageous. I've been through something similar before, and my girlfriend used to be like that, and her phone wouldn't let me move. The text messages won't let me read or even call ** and won't let me hear them.

Sometimes when you go out at night, you have to make up excuses to lie to me. In the end, I was sent out, and she got along with someone else, but I didn't touch him, and my girlfriend called me a fat beating, and I was hospitalized for more than 1 week anyway.

Then he begged me to reconcile with me, but I didn't agree that I was feeling good now, and at least I didn't need to worry about anyone else.

The main thing is that yours is always yours. It's not that you can't get it

It's a very domineering girl, cherish it.

You should talk and talk to each other.

You have to believe in each other and communicate more!

Maybe she really doesn't love you anymore, after all, you've been together for so long, she broke up with you and quickly got together with the other boy, maybe she wanted to force herself to forget about you, I don't know much about you, so I can't help you analyze too much, if you don't want to give up, go for it again, no matter what the outcome is, at least you have worked hard, and you won't regret it when you think about it in the future, if you really want to let go, then you go to find your own happiness, maybe you will meet the right person. I wish you happiness.

How many couples are like you in this world? You're just following in the footsteps of others ... Everyone has experienced it, and you will definitely be able to get through it, work hard, and focus on your work!!

I can't judge her good or bad, she's just more likely to plan for herself, is it wrong? She's just inevitably becoming realistic, is there anything wrong? I don't know if that man is a third party, don't worry about it, love is something you give up yourself, if you are good, this so-called "third party" can come in?

She's just going to leave a way out for herself, can you say she's wrong?

Don't chase her back, you have such a deep relationship, it won't be overnight for her to leave, and now you want to recover it, how can it be a moment and a half?

Let her go, let yourself go, this is a beautiful but unavoidable love, keep it as a memory, you will meet other girls, the girl who really walked into the wedding hall with you is waiting for you somewhere else... Don't let the girl who has been with you for the rest of your life wait too long!

I wish you happiness.

In fact, the society and the family play a big role! To these are objective!

You rarely care about her anymore, the most important thing a girl lacks is a sense of security, not to mention that you are in a long-distance relationship!

Breaking up and getting along with someone else doesn't prove that she's a bad girl! You've been together for so long, you should know very well what kind of person she is! Otherwise, you don't know her well......

At this point, if it doesn't matter if the man is a third party or not, the important thing is whether he really loves her, if it is sincere, and you love her too, then bless them!

I think such a girl should be easy to change about love. Because she doesn't think about things in the long term and doesn't know how to cherish them. The best way is to do what you said - struggle for a few years, wait for the capital, but with the capital, there is no need to pursue her anymore, because such a girl does not have the spirit of helping each other and fighting hard that you want.

Choose to forget, after all, we will encounter many new opportunities.

She's a good girl, and you're a good boy too. It is enough to love. Marriage is another matter. Don't force it.

Some things can't be measured by good or bad, just like the relationship between you, college life is indeed beautiful, carefree every day, you can see each other every day, you can go to class together, go to the cafeteria together, after graduation, the sense of responsibility for the career of men is getting heavier and heavier, and you are separated in two places, and you can only rely on communication tools such as SMS QQ and other communication tools between each other, and there are some sweet words in the beginning, like glue, but slowly as you said you are estranged, the reason is very simple, It's a long distance, you have too little time to meet, maybe you are very busy at work, but no matter how busy you are, you have to find time to accompany her, she may say that you have to work hard and be busy with your career, but women are used to hurt, ** text messages do not reply to solve. You also know that buying a house now requires a lot of burden, she knows you in school, you have not experienced such a big burden, maybe you can bear it, but she can't The second reason she said is the main reason for your separation, you are a carefree life in school, but after graduation, you are separated from each other, and you have too little time to see each other, and slowly the relationship will fade, don't believe in the saying that distance produces beauty, this is a lie! The third reason she said is that she really doesn't have to rely on you anymore, you have grown up with each other, she also works, and she knows a lot of colleagues at work, and her dependence on you may still be in school life.

The fourth reason she said is that many college students will have problems after graduation, separation from different places, less contact, and the relationship will naturally fade, and when another TA appears around you, your relationship will turn on a red light! This is only a secondary reason.

1. If you want to recover her from the beginning, there is only one way, move to her city, go there to work, live, you need to see each other. It's a difficult decision for you.

2. But I personally think that your family is rural, and your life may not be very rich, so your key task is career, this woman may just be a passer-by in your life, what she brings to you is good memories, and some common sense of society, which is a blow to you, is an encouragement! Everything must be open-minded, people live in the world for yourself, not for anything else! If, as you said, struggle for a few years and then go back to her, but this is a plot that only appears in the TV series, will she probably wait for you?

She won't be waiting for you now!

So how to do it, or you decide for yourself, your own path has to rely on your own to walk, work hard, failure is also an experience!

For girls, the most important thing is not how good the material life is, but the warmth and security that is difficult to give her, and the sense of security is really important for girls!

She doesn't want you to burden her, if you are still with her, she will cringe because of some difficulties and setbacks, she doesn't really love you, if you really love someone, she will definitely not give up the person she loves because of a little ordeal, she is more likely to love that boy, it's just that it's not good to talk to you when you're with you, but this shows that you love her, since she has given up on you, you don't have to think about it anymore, fight hard, There will definitely be girls better than her to line up with you,

You can't judge whether you're a good girl or not.

Let's face it, her heart is no longer in you. Fight for your future. Maybe one day she'll turn back.

Is it b, now girls are so realistic, realistic sadness.

If you really love her, then of course you have to give her what you bought for her, even if she doesn't need it anymore, it's better to get it back, even if it doesn't work, you have fewer regrets. If you're feeling average, leave it for the next one. What I'm saying may be a bit realistic, but that's what life is all about.

"It's enough for me to suffer these hardships alone, and I will be very distressed if she shares them with me. "You should be able to see your love with this sentence, keep those things for yourself. Sometimes we just want the people we love to be happy, whether that happiness is given by us or not.

Think about it from another angle, she left because she felt that you might not be able to give her the happiness she wanted, and she was just an ordinary person who also had the right to pursue happiness by herself. Of course, it's not like on TV unless she leaves for some reason and doesn't want you to get hurt, but reality doesn't make people as pure as what they do in Korean dramas.