What to do if you fall out of love and your mind is full of things from the past

I've just fallen out of love, so I'll give you some personal methods that you can try.

First of all, you have to recognize the facts, no matter what the two of you broke up for, you have to know that there is no one right or wrong in the relationship, it's just that everyone is suitable or not, the facts are already facts, no one can change anything, you can't even do what you did a second ago, how can you change the facts that have become facts?

It's really painful when you just broke up, all kinds of things that have been together in the past will appear in your mind every day like a movie, you can't forget it, what you have to do after the breakup is to delete everything related to him and her, QQ, mobile phone, msn, unit**, home**, etc., everything that gives you the opportunity to contact him and her, although the heart will ache when you delete it, but this is the most important step to help you get out.

It's normal to have feelings such as just breaking up, missing, etc., it's a process, so don't feel like you're useless or anything, it's normal for you to be in pain right now. We must continue to do our own ideological work, because only by persuading ourselves is the most important thing!

Believe in time, it can make you forget everything, he She is not your first lover, you also broke up in your previous relationship, the pain at that time is definitely not worse than now, but you look at yourself, you still came out of the past, and met the current one, so now you are miserable, but in the future you will meet another person who gives you love and happiness again, you have to believe that God let you separate must be because there is a better person waiting for you behind.

Find a friend to accompany you, find something that interests you to do, if you can be sure to forget the previous people and things, then start a new relationship, you should think that she (he) does not know how to cherish you, the person who should regret and be sad is the other party, not you.

The most important thing is to see what you do in the future, don't let yourself have regrets, just find a happy job or activity, get distracted, and forget about the past.

I had just broken up with my boyfriend before, and I liked him very much, but he was a family man. On the last night, I firmly told him that you walked out of this door, and we didn't know each other in the future. He smiled.

Later, he would also call ** every few days, and I was very hesitant. So I found a replacement on a local dating website. Let him die, doing so may be very unpleasant for this man now.

But if he's really good, then maybe the replacement will also be my other half in the future.

Falling out of love really hurts. But there's still a lot to do!

A relationship can only have results if it is in the right direction; If you go in the wrong direction at the beginning, the result is destined to be the end of the song! Friends, open your mind, don't be alone, talk to your friends more often, and divert your attention. To be honest, I also just fell out of love, I was dumped by my most beloved girlfriend, and this year I am preparing for the '09 graduate school, I believe that my situation is more difficult than yours, but no matter what, life still has to go on......Believe in yourself!

Find other friends to hang out with, or go on a trip.

In a word. Time is good medicine.

It will come out eventually.

Let's temporarily reminisce about the good old days!

Time will dilute everything.

Like I learn to numb myself with money every day.

Adjust it yourself.

I was dumped the day before yesterday. It's a lot better now, than when I was dumped.

1.I was depressed and went to the restaurant to drink that day, but I only drank one bottle, because I ate too much and couldn't drink the second bottle, sweat, people said that they had no appetite for love. . .

2.Call my friends ** at night, call them one by one to see that it's 12 o'clock, plus the effect of alcohol (I went home and made up 2 bottles) and fell asleep.

3.Yesterday, when I was cleaning after work, all the glass was wiped down, and my comrades persuaded me: I will do it when I come.

In short, take it as an attempt in life, no matter how painful it is, it's good to experience it, otherwise you won't understand what it's like.

Work hard and think about love when you have a career.

Then you will find it! Grab it back!

If you can't put it down, it means you don't want to put it down.

Go for a walk and focus on something else

Time will dilute everything

The shadows of the past should be brought out of the shadows as soon as possible.

Work hard to get to work. Change your schedule.

Change address. Change** Whatever you think you can change, you can try it.

Pull yourself together!!!

Divert your attention and stop thinking about everything about him.

Tell yourself that you want to live more beautiful than him, and make him regret it when he looks at it!!

Your happiness is the greatest revenge for him!!

He doesn't want you to be his loss. What we have is capital.

What should I do if I'm in love? Many people feel that life is blank when they break up in a relationship, and they feel that their world is gray. This is very wrong. Next, I'm going to tell you some things that you can't do when you break up in love.

1. Speak ill of each other.

A breakup shows that the two of you are not a good fit. Because love itself is inadmissible, but if you slander each other everywhere because of a broken love, then others will think that your character must be bad. Because many people only look at jokes and think it's not a big deal, and there are too few jokes.

Everyone may listen to you, but in their hearts there is another thought, because the so-called "poor people must have some hatred". If you are smart enough, find a way to get out of the shadow of broken love as soon as possible, be down-to-earth, make a difference, and try to find a better one in the future that the other party will regret. This is the growth you get from broken love.

2. Falling out of love and finding someone to marry casually.

If you want to take revenge on the other person, if you find someone to marry, you are not only irresponsible to your new partner, but also to yourself. Because you haven't adjusted your emotions yet, once you're married and divorced, your life is destined to be labeled as married, and falling out of love is just a way to stop losing quickly. If you go the wrong way, you will magnify the losses and even bring misfortune to yourself.

3. Never fall in love again and refuse love.

If the heart is dead, then people will not be able to live their spirit. You can't give up the possibility of your future happiness because of a failed relationship. Refusing to be introduced by others, claiming that he only loves one person in his life.

If your loyalty and unwavering love cannot be exchanged for the support of the other person, it can only be exchanged for the ridicule of the other person. No matter what problems a person encounters in life, what problems can they solve? You know, let go of the past, stand in the present, and look forward to the future, that's what the wise do.

On the contrary, it is despised by the wise.

4. Despise life.

Broken love just means that you have met someone who is not the right person. But if your own vision is limited, and you see the other person as the whole of your life, if you leave the other person, you have to find life and death, it can only show that you are still young. In fact, people have a lot of lifestyles, and many lifelong singles don't be short-sighted.

Therefore, the stupidest thing to do after a broken love is to look for myopia, because to do so you will not only give up all hope, but also end your own life. At the same time, it will also make the other person feel that your heart is fragile and scary. If you can't even stand this little thing, how can you be with each other in the future?

I feel that I am not good enough to carry it, I will have low self-esteem, I am not confident in the property situation, whether the other party has another hidden new love, the other party should have already had the idea of breaking up, but I just used the topic to play, which hit his mind, these are all wrong ideas.

I can't think about it, I feel that I can't do without the right or the spine, I feel that I am at fault, I want to apologize to the other party, I want to redeem the other party, these are all wrong thoughts that appear to be empty.

You will feel that you are very unsubdued, no one likes you anymore, you will feel that you are worthless, you will feel that this world is not beautiful at all, you will feel that you will no longer love others, and you will no longer be loved by others.

I think the most wrong idea after falling out of love is to commit suicide for this relationship, Meng's family loses himself and his dignity to save the other party, and this kind of trying to tease the clan is irresponsible to himself, and it will make the other party even more tired of himself.

Do you know how to get out of a broken love?

Just suggest, against the drug!

And your ex-girlfriend is also out of love, look at the point.

No way! Then you have not found true love ...

Love is sustained by the head.

Not sweet talk.

What the surface can support.

Although love is a sweet and happy thing, it has no brains.

The right way to love is naturally paragraph.

Because you fell in love too suddenly, too sloppily.

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Friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't understand your sincerity to him;

If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace of luck in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!

Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.

If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!

Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not an absolute one that a person can say for sure, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe Cong Jiaoliang may be separated because of discord in the future, in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!

The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is to be walked through, to be experienced, we must understand; I'm lucky; Lost, my life; Calmly pass and negotiate acceptance;

Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... can truly have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and can accommodate a smile covered with dust and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...

May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!

I sincerely wish you all the best! Good luck! Career success! Happiness and joy!

I hope mine satisfies you! Thank you!!!

If you are a man, then please be brave and responsible! How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain?! I don't want to say anything more about a fragile man......

If you're a girl, I don't want to enlighten and encourage you like others. You know, you're first and foremost a daughter! Please respect your parents and family!

They take care of you and care for you, isn't it as good as a man who hasn't known him for a long time?! Secondly, there is a reason for the breakup! If a man kicks you badly, it means that you don't have the right vision; If a better woman had seduce him, you wouldn't be blamed for not doing it!

Moreover, as a young man in the new century, please dare to face setbacks! Dare to face the challenge! Bravely defeat all your enemies!

Finally, as a person who has fallen out of love, I deeply understand your sadness, but please adjust your mentality as soon as possible and do more for your parents! If you want to be happy, filial piety comes first! Trust me!

Don't have that thought, think about your parents, think about the people around you who love you.

It can't be so easy to have suicidal thoughts.

On the road in the future, you will think back and find that your current mood is nothing, you must be strong to face the future life, a better life is still waiting for you.

After a while, calm down, and then find someone to fall in love with, you can forget the pain of the past.

Life is short, so be calm and calm.

Whistleblowing|2012-11-27 18:39Jingyu Qiyu |The twelfth level of broken love proves that we have truly loved. If not.

It doesn't matter if you're out of love. You must know that in this world, there are many people who have never really loved each other in their lives. Compared to these people, we have earned an enviable point in life.

Although later lost. But our lives have been enriched by this. The feelings became deep.

The temperament has become mature from this time.

Falling in love is a completed choice, and falling out of love is faced with an upcoming choice. In the days to come, there is only one person who can connect with your heart. We can go back and say, "Thank you, I'm glad I fell out of love."

Don't be so sad, maybe the person who really gives us happiness is waiting in the near future.

The best way to deal with a broken relationship is to smile, smile, to yourself, to others, to each other, it is good for everyone.

I don't approve of those who scream and scold themselves when they are out of love, and feel that they are the most helpless people in the world;

I also don't appreciate those who abuse each other after falling out of love, saying that the other party is an imbecile without eyes.

These are all unwise and mindless people, you know, the blow of falling out of love is the same for both parties, which can only increase the unnecessary pain of yourself and the other party, and it will not solve anything at all.

See yourself clearly, understand others, go your own way, and don't be discouraged; Good luck to the other person and don't be resentful.

Don't be a bear, be a real person!

The best way to deal with a broken relationship is to forget.

Forget the joy and happiness in love, forget the loss and pain in love.

But don't force yourself to forget, the more you do, the easier it is to remember.

When you don't think about him anymore, you won't have any feelings like falling out of love.

At that time, you will face it calmly, when you think of her:

You'll sigh, "Oh, I used to love her." ”

Falling out of love proves that he (she) is not the person you really want to be with in this life, try to make yourself want to open some!

What is not always something will always be without.

Sometimes you can't chase something because it doesn't belong to you.

On the contrary, sometimes a very good thing will naturally come to you, because that's what you're doing!

Either way, I'm a firm believer!!

Friends Breaking up with the girl you love is the most painful thing for a man, because falling out of love means that all the love investments become at a loss and meaningless at this moment. And you can't imagine how you're going to live without her. But real men don't look at it that way.

Because the pain of falling out of love is when the other party doesn't even think about whether you can accept it, then there will be no broken love, because in exclusive love, when you are no longer willing to invest in love, then any material giving becomes meaningless.