Being too stingy, should you be stingy or stingy

Since you have hated Him so much ...

In fact, it's okay not to make such friends

Why bother yourself?

As a man, you can afford to take it and put it down

Each of us has formed a unique personality due to genetic factors, social environment, family conditions and life experiences, and each person's interests, hobbies, personalities, intelligences, and specialties are different, and each has its own emphasis!

Perhaps we can compare ourselves with others to see what flaws we still have!

Then if you go out again, you will go with a smile and say that if you have a treat, I will go, if he says no, then you will not go, such friends don't matter.

This kind of friend does not make and does not lose the plug!

Leave him frankly break off diplomatic relations.

It's just different personalities, some are generous, some are stingy. If you want to continue to be friends with him, then you should be generous and don't care about his stinginess, if you don't want to play with him, you don't want to ignore him. Things are gathered by like, and people are grouped.

Summary. Hello, if you are a person, you must be atmospheric, because atmospheric words are a kind of realm, and it also represents your style, attitude and temperament. Atmospheric people are generally very mature in doing things, and then they can be magnanimous to others, and can accept the shortcomings and shortcomings of others, so that they can have better harvests.

Hello, if you are a person, you must be atmospheric, because atmospheric words are a kind of realm, and it also represents your demeanor, attitude and temperament. Atmospheric and stupid people are generally very mature in doing things, and then they can treat others with magnanimity, and can accept the shortcomings and shortcomings of others, so that they can have better harvests.

Good afternoon! Why do people I know have so much atmosphere from them, and at the same time he borrows money, and in the end I can't help them when I ask them for help.

Maybe it's because you're generous, so they want to covet some benefits from you, but if you're a kind of person, you won't have any friends around you in the end, and you won't get anything, but you just need to be your own heart, they don't want to help, this kind of scumbag is not good or your real friend.

I feel that the atmosphere is a good thing, it depends on the character of each person, and at the beginning I can't see a person, why I can't see it.

The atmosphere also depends on who is right, but the atmosphere is right for you in general, and everyone's character is different, so only if you have been in contact with it, Orange Bridge can know.

Everyone must have hidden a lot in their hearts at the beginning, so you should be conservative with people who don't know and are unfamiliar.

I used to borrow more than 3,000 yuan from a friend, but after a long time, I asked him for money, and he said that I had eaten a lot of food, and this kind of person is not a villain.

This kind of person is too narrow-minded and calculating, and the money you lend him is calculated like this, which means that he is a stingy person.

Oh, yes! I'm making friends right now! I always help some friends around me to guess, and I always suffer myself after I get the most gripped, which may be my own reason! Now it's a mess, and there's no one to help.

The teacher instructed me to be stingy, I can't do it, how to see a person clearly.

If you see a person clearly, it is to see if this person will think about you, whether he will be able to appear when you need it, friends, in fact, the most important thing is to make friends, not some friends who eat and drink. Hidden rolling.

Real friends don't easily ask you for help, or ask for something, friends are mutual.

Okay, thank you. Well, you're welcome!

There are indeed some people around me who love to be cheap, and my attitude and response to this are as follows:1Understand this psychology, but discourage it.

To a certain extent, the psychology of being greedy for small and cheap is human nature, but if it is excessively expressed, it is still not appropriate. I will persuade these friends to help them establish the right concept of consumption. 2.

No direct blame, but different opinions. I don't directly blame these people for their actions on the spot, but I do express my disagreement on other occasions that this kind of behavior is not worth advocating and may have negative consequences. I'll explain why and let them hear differently.

3.Plan common consumption activities and cultivate a correct outlook on consumption. If the other party is a close friend, I will take the initiative to shop together and other consumer talk activities, in the activity to demonstrate the way to influence him, let him see the most reasonable and quality-oriented consumption choice, which can produce a better educational effect.

4.Avoid mentioning your big purchases in front of these people. I will not reveal or show off my own large consumption behavior in front of him or her after I have a clear understanding of this person's consumption concept, so as to avoid causing unnecessary psychological gap or alienation.

By maintaining an appropriate sense of distance, you can continue to give support and help in your life. 5.Selectively remind to avoid overly petty behavior.

If these people behave too pettily in certain situations, I will remind them privately to help them face up to their behaviour and avoid unnecessary staring or disrupting relationships. But this needs to be weighed against the problem of good handling, and it is not necessary to remind you of everything. In general, my response is mainly to understand this psychology but not to promote this behavior, and to have a positive impact through reasonable communication, demonstration and reminders, but at the same time, I need to maintain a moderate distance and avoid too much interference or cause friction between people.

It takes balance and wisdom.