Obviously love each other, why do you want to run away?

Since we have chosen love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him when he (she) is in difficulty, encourage him or her when he (she) is happy, and comfort him (her) when he (she) is happy. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. To love someone is to make him (her) happy forever, to be his (her) eternal safe haven, to protect him (her), even if it is the slightest harm.

Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a ...... that will not fadeAll this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love.

The most important thing to love a person is to respect his (her) own independent time and space, let him (her) devote his (she) energy to the struggle for his ideal career, and urge him (her) to make full use of the time at his or her disposal, help each other in the short space with each other, support each other, share weal and woe, contribute to each other's ideal cause, and strive for a better future together!

You may not think it will be like when you have it, but when you lose it, you will know what heartache is. Most people get used to doing something or accepting someone's feelings for a few days, but one day when you stop what you have done and accept from people, you feel as if something is missing. Actually, nothing is missing, it's just that you're starting to get used to that life, that feeling.

Therefore, when you lose him (her), you will think that he (she) is valuable, if you cherish him (her) at the beginning, he (her) will not leave you now. Cherish what you have now, and don't wait until everything is gone from you, all you have left is regret and self-blame.

Maybe for some reason, if it's true love, then just ask the other person directly. Communication is the reasonable solution for two people. Avoiding the problem will only complicate it.

Love sometimes loves him like this, but it doesn't dare to face him.

I obviously like each other, but I always avoid it when I see that the opposite side is slippery, why is this happening?

I loved her for five years, but I never dared to contact her, and I even wanted to run away when I saw her. Infinite yearning when he is not seen, he fantasizes about talking to him easily countless times, but when he really sees him in reality, such as his face is stiff, his body is uncontrollable, his brain is blank, he will be afraid of making a fool of himself, and he will rarely have feelings when he sees him, and he is also afraid of the other party, so he pretends to be indifferent, and you can even avoid your anxiety by staying away from them. People say that they like to act bravely, but there are also many people who like to act like to dodge and run away.

You can hang out with emotionless people and become attractive, but when you meet someone you really like and are attracted to, you know that you will become awkward and embarrassed. You will act shy or even shy, and of course you will pretend that you are cold and that you don't like her in order to maintain a calm appearance. It's like Zhang Ailing wrote a sentence that has been widely circulated:

Seeing him, she became very low, low to the dust, but her heart was happy, and out of the dust came out of the flowers. When a person really likes another person, he will put on more and more halos for that person, and his whole person will be shining in your eyes, and you, who were originally good, will suddenly have an inexplicable sense of inferiority, feeling that you are not as good as ta, ta, knowledge, and high emotional intelligence.

In most people's minds, they think that love must be equal in order to last, so some people tend to avoid this idea because of low self-esteem. When a person likes another person, there will be a strong desire to communicate, a desire to contact with him, insight into him, and then an attachment request, but because the two parties are still in an irrelevant stage. If you don't understand each other, when you are dating, you are often an idealized other party, and even all the impressions of the other party that do not conform to the idealization in your heart will be subjectively deleted by you.

So each other is becoming more and more beautiful in your heart, more and more perfect. To communicate with the idealized self in our hearts, we can directly use the idealized self and believe that my heart can match the idealized self, but when the idealized self and the real Dan pretend to be farther and farther away, there will be a stronger sense of gap and powerlessness, in order to avoid your self-esteem being hit, so he simply escapes.

It may be that you are afraid of rejection, or you are too unconfident, so you will have such a feeling as wheels, or you are afraid that the other party will not like to be stupid and regret yourself, and in the end, you will inevitably be embarrassed.

Maybe you don't believe in yourself at all, and you probably don't believe that the other party is very happy with yourself, so you don't take the initiative to confess in life, and you don't let the other party know that this is a kind of unconfident psychology.

Because they feel that they are not worthy of each other, and they also feel that they are far from each other, so they will avoid each other.

Each of us wants to have a happy and fulfilling love, but in the process of pursuing love, different people pursue love in different ways. ......There is a kind of human emotional outlook, that is, whoever loves me, I will love whomever I love. ...Such an emotional outlook has many drawbacks and often fails to achieve a truly satisfactory outcome.

The reason why I say this is because this emotional outlook is inconsistent with the need for love to be happy, it is easy to get lost in love with this emotional outlook, and the love under the guidance of my own emotional outlook cannot find the true love that belongs to oneself.

1, Whoever loves me, I will love whoever is loved, and the sense of love is not consistent with the need for love.

Love needs and two feelings are happy, it is the relationship between two people who appreciate and admire each other. Only by reaching such a state can true love be attained between two people. ......Whoever observes friendship and loves me, I will love whoever The emotional outlook one-sidedly pursues how the other party treats him, and ignores his own subjective feelings, so that the love of the two loves becomes a one-sided pursuit, and such a love cannot achieve happiness.

2. Fall in love in the way that "whoever loves me, I love whomever I love", and it is easy to get lost.

The ultimate goal of love is to find the most suitable person for you, live hand in hand with him, and spend your life together. ......However, if you fall in love in a way that "whoever loves me I love you", once someone shows their love and pursuit for themselves, they will rashly agree, but do not seriously consider whether the other party is suitable for them, such a relationship will not be able to achieve a satisfactory result, so it is also undesirable to starve and dismantle.

3. Love under the guidance of this emotional outlook cannot find the love that truly belongs to you.

According to the above analysis, the real way to get a perfect love is for two people to love each other and pursue love with their own practical actions.

Whoever loves me, I love whoever is too one-sided, I can't find a love that suits me, if you fall in love with such an emotional view, the result can only be to let yourself fall into an emotional predicament, not only can not find happiness, but will be troubled infinitely. Therefore, this view of emotions is not desirable.

Love is a feeling, an artistic conception, a feeling, a kind of spiritual scenery that enjoys the other party's love and provides, it does not need to be requested, and there are no nine hundred and nine roses, only need to feel wholeheartedly, a feeling from the bottom of the heart, so that the love will always surround, the ends of the earth ......It may be bitter, but it is also a kind of happiness, because after all, there is a beauty that can be guarded in the heart, a poignant beauty that is incomparable in the world and heaven; Regret is sometimes a kind of beauty, because after all, there are still things to regret, after all, there is a beautiful story left for the future ......That's how life is a lot of the time.

If you are truly in love, let it go; If you don't let go, it's a disservice. Give each other a space to choose, and in the future you may feel that it is just a choice, there is no right or wrong, only future concerns and blessings. When making decisions, it is helpless and reluctant.

How many sweet days are left behind a relationship, but it is also close to the intensity of the collision of two hearts. And when you care about someone, you will recall the warmth of each other in the past, the wandering with them tightly, the happy conversation and laughter with her, and the laughter when she is naughty. Concerned about a person, you will be happy for it, worried about it, you will breed a lot of inexplicable melancholy from the bottom of your heart, you will worry about her food, clothing, housing and transportation, you will pay attention to her joys, sorrows, sorrows, and sorrows, you will care about her smile, care about her every move.

You will be sad that you can't hear from her, you will be restless because you can't stay with her, you will be restless because of the lovesickness, and you will be sad because of the wisps of sorrow. A concern fills the void in the depths of the heart, the longer the breakup, the farther away from the parting, and the heavier the weight of the concern. With that care, there is a gratifying spiritual partner on the lonely trek, and with this care, the ordinary years will have more happy satisfaction and beautiful scenery.

An ordinary day, or an extremely mundane experience, can make the concern infinite. Deep concern, like a long vine extending in the journey of life.

In the quiet cold wind, silently dragged a trace of concern and threw it into the vast air; Please gently open your heart, reminisce about the past, miss that familiar face, and worry about such pain and beauty in this sky.

Loving someone is not to become a fetter of the loved one, not to be her fetters, I hope this concern can bring you happiness and joy, no matter what kind of joys and sorrows, the experience is rich, as long as you remember to have loved, it is enough to hate. The beauty of letting go, maybe this is the best reward that God gives.

Everyone wants to meet their love, why should you run away from it? I think there must be a reason for you, maybe you don't love her, maybe you haven't found the real other half who answered you. In fact, when love comes, we have to face it head-on, it is a process that all people have to go through, some people grow up in love, some people taste love in love, and some people have a home of their own in love, you will also, believe in yourself, don't escape, it is beautiful.

You have to figure out what you're running away from first.

In fact, to be honest, escaping is not necessarily the most difficult to hide, and facing it is not necessarily the most uncomfortable. Why run away from it? Escape is a cowardly behavior, is a manifestation of weakness, is a psychological factor of fear, is a helpless failure, there is a bad heart to escape, the more fearful the more afraid, in fact, it is not terrible, make yourself strong, encounter things to dare to bear the brave face, only dare to face, everything will pass, and only face is the only key to solve the problem, bravely go your own way, afraid of dangerous people, more than the danger itself is 10,000 times more terrible.

Turning around is not necessarily the weakest, hesitation is not necessarily no choice, just not wanting to be wrong again.

In fact, some things are always sad, it doesn't matter if you get through, if you are hurt to wipe away the tears you accidentally drip, pretend that everything doesn't matter, and then drive it all out of your wounded heart, and if you don't want to bear it, forget about it, as a sad death. Make yourself strong, get out of the shadows, get out of trouble, and face it bravely, you know, in fact, a second can be all, and a tear can also be a lifetime.

True love is when you can love, know how to cherish.

True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

Because, letting go is the ...... having everything

When you cherish it, please love it well.

When you let go, bless ...... well

No one can say anything about love, but one thing I can be sure of, because this incident is my personal experience, love can make you do anything for each other, say anything, love is to give unconditionally for each other, do anything to do meaningful things!

This is the happiness of two people.

Most of them have a little inferiority complex in their hearts, and a small part of them are a little afraid in their hearts. The latter, don't avoid him speaking out, just be together naturally.

That's because he doesn't love you, so run away and wake up, silly girl.