She cried after the text message confession, she said we are still friends , so we are destined to

Crying doesn't necessarily mean that you care, it's nothing more than being moved. Don't kid yourself, lad.

If you don't work hard to pursue your own happiness, no amount of advice from others will make any difference.

Isn't she the kind of innocent?

First of all, to tell you very clearly, you are indeed going to lose your good friend for many years.

Whatever your choice, your friendship will never last as much as it did before.

If you don't like him and choose to reject him, then your relationship is bound to take some shocks in some way. Even if you both don't mind it happening anymore. It will still affect your friendship to a greater or lesser extent.

Those who are rejected and say that they don't care about staying by your side are actually already full of holes in their hearts.

Maybe he's still good to you, but he's not the same person he used to be, the same person he was before he was rejected.

Maybe he was sad and decided not to stay with you anymore, you really lost him.

But if you also have feelings for him, you also like him. After he confesses to you, you choose to be with him, then you also lose this friend, because your relationship is no longer friends, but lovers.

It doesn't matter if you become lovers or strangers, you're no longer friends anyway.

When he confesses to you, before you make your choice, ask yourself about your own heart and don't make decisions that you regret.

If you like him, stay with him, if you don't like him, reject him, don't be embarrassed to reject him because he is your friend, you are very irresponsible.

If you don't like him, don't promise him, and don't let him find his own happiness, what's the benefit to you?

So, no matter what, if you are going to lose this friend, please follow the most true choice of your own heart. Not with him because you don't like him, you don't want to be wronged by being with someone you don't like, being with him because you like him and want to spend the rest of your life with him.

The answer to this question is whether there is a pure friendship between men and women, and the answer to this question varies from person to person, and my opinion is that pure friendship is really difficult to maintain.

First, there is no such selfless person. If you want to make one person unreservedly good to another, in addition to liking and love, it is really difficult to maintain this kind of feeling, obviously, pure friendship in this case can be understood as one does not say, one pretends to be stupid, so that two people will continue to be friendly.

Second, what you can't get is always in turmoil, and those who are favored have no fear. The one who can't get it will want to take the fortress, and if he insists enough, he may be as good to you as ever, but he can't get along as a boyfriend and girlfriend, he can only be by that person's side as a friend.

The person who is favored accepts a care, whether you want to accept it or not, there is no way to choose, maybe the person who can't get it is very insistent, so that the favored person is powerless to refute, and the identity of a friend restricts the information communication between you, so go on slowly. Therefore, the friendship at this time is just a cover-up.

To sum up, you should be able to feel the feelings of your friends, after all, everyone is not stupid, it is impossible not to perceive, if you are stupid enough, then I can only be hehe to you.

You must not know how determined your friends have been to confess to you for many years, but I suggest that you think about this question for the sake of your friend's happy life in the future.

I remember that Li Daren in "I May Not Love You" is to accompany his favorite girl Cheng Youqing as a friend, and finally came together after missing it again and again, Cheng Youqing said that it feels good to fall in love with your friends, which is enough to see that if you fall in love with your friends, it is really not so terrible.

If you think the other party is good, just used to being a friend, I suggest you jump out of your own limitations, let yourself seriously and carefully think about the friends you have known for a long time, whether there is a chance to further develop, after all, the friends who accompany you should be true love to you, I also hope that there are lovers who will eventually become married, and I hope you can all be happy.

If you don't like this friend of yours, I suggest you don't contact your friend anymore, after all, every time you contact, it may hurt your friend, after all, it is rejected by the person you like, after all, it is a relationship that has not yet started and died, after all, your future meeting is likely to be embarrassing.

Maybe your feelings won't be too big, but for your friends, it's really different, facing the person you like, and the person who is rejected, maybe not seeing you again is really the best ending.

Something like this. In fact, many people will say after confessing their failures that they want to be friends again. In fact, everyone knows very well that there is no way back, since this kind of thing has happened, it is impossible to return to the life before, and it is impossible to act as if nothing happened.

However, there is a situation that is still more optimistic, that is, in a short period of time, you will find each other's other half, in this case, you should still be friends again. But this probability is still relatively small, after all, it is basically impossible for people to like you, confess to you, and then suddenly like another person.

I've experienced this kind of thing before, but at that time, I was relatively young, and I was at a loss when I encountered this kind of thing, I didn't know how to respond, and I wanted to keep this friend, and I didn't want to be with that person, and then I chose to give up this friend. In fact, it's not that I chose to give up this friend, but after I rejected that person, that person didn't want to be friends with me.

Actually, that's pretty good. We will meet a lot of good friends in this life, and there is no shortage of this one, although it may seem a little unsympathetic to say so, but people confess to themselves and refuse to be, which is already a kind of disappointment to others, so they also ask others to continue to be friends with themselves, and there is indeed a kind of strong man difficult for people.

Anyway, I think it's like those who can't be lovers and continue to be good friends, that kind of talk is pure fart. It's very uncomfortable to see the person you like close in front of you, but you can't hold hands and have it, it's better to stay away, and it's a relief to forget about yourself early.

So I think that since the other party has already confessed to you, you friends, it is almost impossible to do it, but there are miracles that happen, I hope it can happen to you, if the miracle does not happen, then I hope you are all well!

In our lives, a lot of love starts with friendship, two people are friends first and end up having a good feeling, and then confess to being together. Sometimes some people are afraid of being embarrassed to confess, so they have been positioning themselves as best friends, always behind you, accompanying you, feelings are not covered after all, many years of friends to show you their hearts, does not necessarily mean to lose this friend.

This reminds me of a drama, Taiwan's idol drama "I Won't Like You", in the plot, Li Daren has been accompanying Cheng Youqing, and likes to pay silently, because he is afraid of speaking out his heart Cheng Youqing refused and affected the original good friend, Cheng Youqing is also afraid of the deterioration of friendship, which leads to a long time of inner struggle between the two people, at the end, the two are together, Cheng Youqing said to Li Daren that no matter whether they break up in the future, Li Daren must be her good friend. In fact, the two of them don't want to hurt the original friendship together, so why should we hurt it for love? Confession is just an expression, a way to ask you, you can agree or not, embarrassment is normal, but for the sake of this, you can avoid a friend?

Or you also have a good feeling, two people can try to get along, because they are friends, two people have an understanding of each other, whether it is preferences or personality, so not only do you not lose this friend, but also have more, sometimes two people quarrel together, and then it is equivalent to a friend's chat to untie the knot, it will be fine, and it will promote the better development of two people.