What is the most frustrating point of a child growing up in a single parent family?

When I was five years old, my parents divorced, and although they did not remarry, they had people living together. When I was in elementary school, I lived with my grandparents a lot, and in junior high school, I lived in rotation at my parents' and aunts' house, and in high school, I rented a house near the school, and lived with my sister for a while. I haven't experienced a miserable childhood because of my parents' divorce, such as being disliked by my stepfather and stepmother, my parents ignored me, etc., I have always had a good relationship with my parents, and even have a good relationship with each other's other half.

My attitude towards the fact that they have someone else to live with is that I welcome anyone who comes, and I welcome anyone who leaves. But I do know one thing for sure, I'm a guest everywhere, I don't have a home.

This is the most helpless problem for children in single-parent families, showing absolute sensitivity to people or things, and at the same time will be accompanied by suspicion, this kind of character will accompany the child for a lifetime. And no matter who they face, no matter how good the other party is to them, their sensitivity and suspicion seem to exist uncontrollably.

Even if the children in the single-parent family are not short of money to spend, the material life is very good, but in their hearts, they cannot be compared with those children who have their parents to take care of, once someone talks about their parents in front of them, the children of single-parent families will be very inferior, very helpless.

Children who grow up in that kind of single-parent family are generally very independent and have a strong desire for family affection, but they are very dependent on their hearts and do not have a complete family, which is their most helpless.

Almost all children in single-parent families have the same frustration, which is jealousy. Jealous that others have a happy family, jealous that others have the company of their father and mother, and jealous of everything about others.

Many parents in single-parent families give up or partially abdicate the responsibility of educating their children, which will have a negative impact on the growth of children. This is also a prominent issue in family education. Without the love of the family, this is the helplessness of the children of single-parent families.

Children who have experienced a quarrel between their parents and divorce tend to go to extremes in their personalities, no matter what they do or how they think, these children like to think in extreme ways and solve problems, rather than taking softer or even compromise ways to solve problems. Running into walls at every turn can make them very frustrated.

A family that does not divorce for the sake of the children seems to be sound, but the environment in which the children grow up is not healthy. Children in single-parent families cannot make up for the missing part of their father's or mother's love. As long as the side with the child is more sunny and upward, it is actually good.

Many times, I feel pity for the kind of children who seem to have a sound family, although the parents are not divorced, but the kind of lack of love between the parents, the children feel it.

Many children who grow up in single-parent families will have a hatred mentality in their hearts, which may be pointed at by their classmates or others because of the lack of care from their parents or parents, which will make them very helpless.

These children mainly have learning difficulties, procrastination in homework, decreased academic performance, poor self-control, and affect classroom discipline. Without family care and relationships, I think this is where they are most helpless.

Probably when there is a parent-teacher meeting, when there is a family party at school, the children of single-parent families are only accompanied by their father or mother, and the rest of the classmates are accompanied by their parents. In this way, they will have low self-esteem and helplessness.

The most helpless thing for children from single-parent families is that they do not have a complete home, they always feel that they are dwarf, they will have a sense of self-pity, they are not social and introverted, they care a lot about what others think of them, they are stingy and easy to be sad, and they will be biased! So 1 family misfortune can affect a child's life!

Most people think that children from single-parent families are very mature, but in fact, they just use this mature appearance to disguise their inner vulnerability. Especially children from single-parent families who have entered adolescence are most helpless to be told about their families.

Every mother would not want her children to grow up in a single-parent family, not that the marriage cannot be saved, to the point where there is no way out, no woman will choose to divorce. The child is indeed very pitiful, I don't know how to educate him in the future, now the child is eight years old, there is no inferiority complex, I don't know what will happen when it comes to the rebellious period? A single mother, life is really too hard and tiring.

When I was a child, I went to eat dumplings by myself, and I was sad to see that other people's families were a family, and then I went to a far away place in college, and gradually regained my self-confidence in a place where no one knew, and then I graduated, and I knew that there was no one to rely on, and I worked hard I also made enough money in Beijing, bought three houses, and hoped that my parents would have the opportunity to live in a city when they retired when they were old.

My son divorced his ex-husband when he was more than 2 years old, after the divorce I took him back to his hometown Wenzhou my mother to, when I went back to Shanghai, such a young child did not cry or make trouble, that is, every night when it was dark to stand at the staircase to see if the light in the room where I slept with him was on, and once I was sick and had a fever, I told him that the baby should get better quickly, and my mother would take you home, and his first reaction was to ask, Dad and that woman don't want it? Don't you get mad at us? Can we go home?

It's really sad to hear it, now I take the child back to Shanghai, and decide to give him father's love and mother's love as much as possible no matter what, it's the adult's fault, the child is really pitiful, and he shouldn't be allowed to bear it! Don't know if that's enough? I want him to grow up like all children who divorce.

Many great figures in Chinese and foreign history have not had fathers since they were children, and they either died or were abandoned by their fathers, and they grew up just as great. So don't overstate the bad effects of single parenthood. Single parents are not as good together as their parents, but they are definitely better than parents who hate each other and complain about each other.

If the party with the baby does not always show the inferiority complex of single parents, can live normally and sunny, and be positive and cheerful to influence the child, I believe that there is no big difference between the child and the two-parent family, not to mention that some two-parent families are not happy, and there are parents in single-parent families who are still very responsible for their children.

Why do you have to mention the helplessness of children in single-parent families, is there no longer both parents? In fact, they all exist the same. As long as the child is given care and love, and normal education, there is no difference between a child in a single-parent family and a two-parent family.

Lack of education, love and companionship from another parent. It's troublesome because it's hard to make up for it later.

Ignore your own children and raise other people's babies!

Children who grow up in single-parent families are not the problem babies that everyone doubts and worries about! The most important thing is that in the process of growing up, both parties should not give up the correct guidance and education of their children for their own selfish life! At the very least, there must be one party who dedicates himself to the child!!

Look at you, I will think that my daughter will be like this in ten years, I don't think so, I will accompany her well, I will earn money, she just needs to grow up healthy, study safely and well, fall in love, get married, and have children.

If the child lives in a family where his parents quarrel every once in a while, it is better to live in a single-parent family than to fight in a family.

Divorced and lived together, did not remarry, and it had no effect on the children, and there was a father calling every day.

Some children's parents are not divorced but it is much worse than divorce, the mother is looking for a man outside, the father is looking for a woman outside, and there is no grandparents, the aunt's family eats a meal, the aunt's family eats a meal, just like a begging melon, looking at the parents have no responsibility, so the children who are not divorced are sound?

I'm sorry, my child, I can't give you a complete home, let you be a child of a single-parent family, I hope you grow up healthy.

I feel that sometimes I can't live with my two children and don't bring them a complete home, and sometimes I am glad that my children have been separated from that seemingly complete home.

My child's father is a brute, the family let other women give birth to children behind their backs, and then I found out, I took the child alone, the brute didn't give a penny, and I didn't come to see the child for three years, the child was very sad, and it did have an impact on the child.

My child has no mother at the age of 11, her mother died of illness for a few years and became a Buddha, and the family has no money, so I will explain the current family situation to the child, stimulate his self-motivation, and often do his ideological work, he also lives up to expectations, and his academic performance is also good, four or five years over and gradually accustomed to the careful single-parent life of the father, the most afraid of the New Year's holiday, as a father can only learn to care more about the child's life and learning, reduce the helplessness and lack of the child's single-parent family, A bright future for children is the comfort of parents all over the world.

Children who grow up in single-parent families are psychologically incapable of being loved and loved others. The outlook on love and marriage of modern men and women has changed greatly compared with before. Falling in love has become a very ordinary thing, and getting married has become a very casual thing.

Many lovers often get married quickly after knowing each other for a short time, which is known as "flash marriage". When "flash marriage" has become a major phenomenon of marriage and love in society, this concept of marriage has also caused the divorce rate to continue to rise. It's fine if you don't have children, but if you have children, divorce can have a big impact on the children.

After their parents divorced, many children were forced to grow up in single-parent families. Children from single-parent families may have some psychological problems, and they will lack the ability to be loved and love others psychologically, and the main reasons are as follows.

1. Children from single-parent families cannot fully enjoy the love of both parentsParents play a very important role in the growth of children, and both are very important for children from ordinary families. However, children from single-parent families are obviously unable to enjoy the complete love of both parents at the same time, and may lack the love of their mothers or the strict education of their fathers, which is very detrimental to the healthy growth of children.

2. Children from single-parent families have to face more complex family relationshipsChildren from single-parent families first have to face the dissolution of their own families, and after that, both parents are likely to have to form a new family, at this time, children have to face very complex family relationships, parents' new partners, and possible new siblings are faced for children. And these complex relationships can be very stressful for children.

3. Children from single-parent families are often more sensitive, and because of their parents, children from single-parent families cannot have a truly complete family. They have a lot of arguments, a lot of changes. This prevents them from growing up as healthy as normal children.

Therefore, children from single-parent families will often be more sensitive, and if they do not receive good education and guidance, some will become very introverted and inferior, and some will be very self-indulgent, and even have extreme personalities. Children who grow up in single-parent families are often very sensitive to feelings because they are not fully loved, and their family structure is more complex, so they will lack the ability to be loved and love others.

is unhappy, because he has lacked the company of one of his parents since he was a child, and his family affection is lacking, and his personality will be different from others, of course, such a child will be more independent and sensible.

is unhappy, because such a child lacks some care since childhood, has an unstable personality, and is prone to tantrums, but will also be very independent and more sensible.

I don't think I'm going to be happy, because there will definitely be some deformities in the hearts of children who grow up in this environment, so I don't think they're going to be happy.

I grew up in a single-parent family, and my parents often quarreled when I was in elementary school, and I successfully divorced when I was in junior high school, making me a "special child".

It's not that single-parent families are special, it's just that it really unconsciously brings me some potential concerns and worries.

When I was young, every time my friends talked about their families, I would joke that my parents were divorced, but I would have two red envelopes every Chinese New Year, and I could also have two places to live, which was still good.

When I grew up and worked, I realized that no place is home, and no place has a complete family.

The boyfriend broke up again, well, and completely became a lonely person.

Girlfriends also began to get married slowly, and after work, the infiltration shed system gradually decreased, not that I didn't want to, but I was tired from work and returned to the rental house, and no one wanted to pay attention to it, so I wanted to have a good rest.

After work, I will meet new friends, and there will be people of the opposite sex, but after getting along for a long time, I don't seem to have the idea of getting married, and I think twice about falling in love as an adult, not so pure feeling, and I don't like any relationship that makes me feel tired.

Hey,,, I don't know what I'm going to do in the future.

Thinking about it, I am only 25 years old, but I feel that I have seen a lot, and I don't know what the future holds.

I am 29 years old, female, unmarried, unwilling to get married, because I know myself too well, I am not suitable for marriage, so I have always insisted on being free, but my city is too small, the concept is stagnant, parents and friends think that after being born and growing so big, I should get married, but why, just because I am old? But I think that China's aging is inevitable, I believe that there will be a good policy to treat the old people who may be old and helpless in the future, I am not worried about this, not to mention, I can make more money while I am young, and stay in the nursing home in the future, excuse me, you are seventy or eighty years old, and you will care about whether there are big fish and meat to eat every day and wear brand-name clothes? By that time, the basic food and clothing will already be satisfied!

What's more, I am a thick and strong person with a strong heart, I don't need companionship, when a person has something to rely on in his heart, it is enough to withstand anyone's company, that's it! But all this is not understood, and I want to ask, am I wrong?