What is a friend, is it a friend who loses profit for him 10

Friend is a sacred word in the eyes of many people, you can make a false friend, but you can never be a false friend; You can give for your friends wishfully, but you must not let a friend have to pay for you; You can make someone who doesn't think of yourself as a friend, but you can never make a friend of someone who regards you as a friend. You can silently miss the friend who is no longer there when someone says how good your friend is with him, but you can never tell another friend how good you are with him. You can forgive your friend when he cheats on you, but never on your friend; You can ask your friend to take someone who looks like you for you after you leave him, but you must not take someone like your friend for him. You can tolerate your friends betraying you, but you can never tolerate your betrayal of your friends; You can live without a friend who treats you as a true friend, but you can never do without a friend that you personally consider to be your true friend; You can forgive your friends for forgetting you, but never forget your friends.

Friends are willing to stick a knife in your ribs and help each other when they are in trouble.

Friends are not calculated by interests, nor blindly pay, on the basis of equality between friends, you can develop the next step of the relationship, I think between friends, is not to say everything, not to say nothing, but without talking, you know what the other party thinks.

Adversity sees true love, and only when you fall will you know what a friend is.

Maybe the insinuation hehehehehe

As we all know, wind is formed due to the movement of air. It usually refers to the horizontal movement of air and can be expressed in terms of direction and magnitude, i.e., wind direction and speed. But if it is used in flight, wind also includes the vertical movement of air, which is what we usually call vertical or ascending airflow.

The wind direction is different.

If a person is in a place where he can say "me" and "mine", that place must be his preferred place. If a person thinks that what is in his own interests is in **, then his dominant force is there. If what he considers to be consistent with his own interests resides in the body or the will or in external things, then his dominant power must also reside in the body or the will or external things.

Therefore, it is only when "I" am in my own will that I can maintain my loyalty, humility, patience, restraint, active cooperation, and relationship for my benefit. Only then will I be able to complete my identity as a friend, son, and father. However, when I put the "I" and those respectable things on either side of the scale, we provide strong evidence for Epicurus' assertion.

For he said, "Those honorable things do not exist at all, and even if they do, they are only things that are beneficial to man." ”

For those who desire to be friends with others, or those who want others to be their friends, you should discard these judgments, hate these thoughts, and mentally eliminate them. When these things are done, there will always be many unexpected benefits: first, a person will no longer be entangled in himself, and he will not live in complaining, regretting, and complaining.

Secondly, he will know how to face different friends. For people who are similar to him, he will be honest and sincere with each other, and treat them as friends. For those who are different from himself, he will be patient, gentle, kind, and tolerant.

He will forgive the other for their ignorance, just as he will forgive a person who has made a mistake in the most important thing. He will practice Plato's famous words: Every soul is willingly lost to the truth.

Therefore, he will not be rude to anyone.

In today's society, the common interpretation of interests lies in mutual exploitation, which seems difficult to refute. We can always feel that we are detached from society, most friends have interests, and many friendships are maintained by interests, which is uncertain. It is undeniable that a friendship that is maintained only by interests is not a true friendship.

What kind of friend is this kind of relationship based on interests, because you only see interests and don't communicate with your heart?

In my opinion, interest is not only a kind of benefit, but also a win-win situation, which is the so-called resource sharing, cooperation and mutual benefit in our social life. People are often inseparable from social activities and are driven by some common interests, because there are not a few people who have reached a consensus and become friends. It may be that the resources of both sides create benefits, but this interest is not too direct for both sides, but lies in frequent contact.

When you find that the other party is recognized in your own heart, friendship, relative to interests, is naturally ranked first, becoming a friend first, sharing resources second.

Many times, even if you become friends for the sake of profit, you are not that vulnerable. Maybe it's just one of the ways to make friends quickly, but it's not the whole story. Therefore, it is better to look at people more and see what kind of mentality they use to face each other in the process of getting along.

Friends made for self-interest are friendships, but they are not real friendships, and true friendships are not about self-interest.

I don't think it can be considered a friendship, and friends like this who are only made for their own interests generally don't care about each other and don't think about each other.

Count as friendship. But these friendships are not strong. If you make friends now because of this, you may be scattered in the future.

Count as friendship. However, the friendship was not strong. If you make friends because of interests now, you may be scattered because of interests in the future.

The word friend has become more and more complex, and its meaning has different concepts in the eyes of different people, so are friends made for their own interests considered friends? Today, I will give you a brief talk about whether friends who make friends only for their own interests can be regarded as friends.

First of all, I think that if you make friends for your own interests, you can't be considered a real friend, because friends should not have interests between friends, if you make friends for your own interests, he may only think about his own interests when he is difficult, and will not help you, your relationship may only stay in each other's interests, such as in your career and life, mixed with many interests, and this kind of friends made in your own interests, She will never be able to make something for you, and we don't make friends for profit.

If it is for his own interests to make friends, he may only get material benefits, not spiritual, this kind of friend will not be able to pay unconditionally for you, because it is impossible for him to do some unprofitable things, no matter what the circumstances do not support friends, it is for the benefit of this statement, there may be some friends who drink and meat to deal with entertainment, or because of a certain interest relationship and involved together, but this relationship can not be called friends, It can only be said that it is a certain exchange of interests, and the interests are not called friends, but can only be called partners.

We make friends not for profit, but to have an emotional dependence, when you are helpless, to be able to find a friend who can be intimate and worthy of trust, in the face of such a friend, you can tell him the truest thoughts in your heart, and do not have to have a lot of defense, and make friends for your own interests, you may not tell him the truest thoughts in your heart, because there are a lot of interests between you, you can not be very straightforward, You will be able to tell him many of your inner thoughts, or you may not express your most direct feelings to him.

Definitely not, a real friend can share anything in life, there will be no interests, even if there are two people, they will be divided fairly and justly, and they will not make friends for their own interests, this kind of friend is just a comrade-in-arms in the shopping mall.

Not counted. This kind of friend will not help him if something happens in his life, and he will not tell the other party if he encounters any problems in life, but he will have some business dealings and benefit each other.

Personally, I think this can be regarded as a friend, in fact, many people now make friends because of interests, and there are very few people who really think about others.

The understanding of friends is limited to friendships that are of interest. There are many kinds of friends, and those who come together because of interests are not real friends, they can only be called "friends of wine and meat", and real friends are definitely not interest-oriented.

True friends are sincere to each other, everyone is to take their hearts out to communicate, there is no interest, there is no calculation, some things are honest with each other, you can recognize each other's advantages, but also accept each other's weaknesses, and there is no problem with each other's hearts.

True friends help each other and can help unconditionally when one of them is in trouble. Make a promise to your friends and do your best for your friends' entrustment. True friends can share prosperity and prosperity, but also can share weal and bene, whether we share weal and woe is the touchstone to test the relationship between friends.

True friends are mutually accepting, "no one is perfect", everyone will have their own shortcomings, and true friends are mutually understanding and accepting, will not affect each other's relationship because of shortcomings, the more they understand each other, the more they accept each other, the more true friends.

Real friends trust each other, many times we see some friends in TV dramas, because outsiders sow discord and turn against each other, this kind of friend relationship can not be regarded as real friends, real friends should trust each other, because they understand each other, because they understand each other's personality characteristics and personality, and the two sides trust and understand each other.

Real friends are mutually successful, one of the most famous in the relationship between friends is "Guan Bao's friends", Guan Zhong and Bao Shuya understand each other's personality, Guan Zhong also once said, "It is my parents who gave birth to me, but it is Uncle Bao who understands me", it can be seen that the friendship between the two is deep, and the reason why Guan Zhong can become a generation of celebrities is not unrelated to Bao Shuya's virtuous and recommended, so real friends should be mutually successful.

Therefore, only the relationship of interests cannot be regarded as true friends, and true friends are sincere to each other, help each other, trust each other, accept each other and achieve each other.

Friend, what an irony it seems to me now. After experiencing all kinds of people, I found that the kind of friendship that can stick a knife in each other's ribs is a dream after all, and when I wake up from the dream, it will be broken.

I have always been poor at words, and I wore a mask of "indifference" at school all day long, although I never imagined that one day someone would be able to take it off for me, but when a thick wall was built in the heart room again, my heart was still cold, and it was no longer the same as before, but the warm blood was still flowing slowly.

My parents always told me when I was dismissive of those fake friendships that I should make more friends and do things easier in the future. I always retorted: "Since it's not sincere, why give it to him?"

They sneered and said, "How many of these friends are sincere?" It's all for the sake of profit, and on the surface it has to pass.

If you don't have friends, you won't be able to go on in the future! "They say in a flat tone the facts that countless people dare not admit, but I hate these words, why should anything sincere and pure be imagined so badly? Any benefit, in the final analysis, is not for money.

But if you really have money, will you be happy from the bottom of your heart? Of course not, humans are always greedy. When you don't have money, thinking about having money, and with money, you are afraid that one day you will wake up from a dream and return to the past when you were poor and white, and you will be terrified all day long, is this the so-called happiness?

What's the matter if you don't have money, even if you can't make yourself a superior person with what you get through your own labor, it's better than looking at other people's faces! If it is said that it is difficult to move an inch without friends, then those who are already living at the bottom of society, but who are ambitious, diligent, and capable, their friends are nothing more than them, and without the guidance of superiors, can they only be suppressed under this cold social law? I'm sure not.

The eyes of the masses of the people are bright, and you can be arrogant for a while, but you can't be arrogant for a lifetime. People who only rely on relationships, but do not work hard, can only make social development slower, and people who do not have real outstanding talents will only become more corrupt. For a strong country, its historical development trend will not lead to an increasingly depressed society, and the final result is nothing more than the current talent.

No knowledge, no ability, what hard are you! No matter how many relationships you have, but you can't protect yourself, do you think he will take care of you?

If I could, I would love to go back in time. Poor and simple, there is the most precious thing in it, and that is friendship. Remember, it didn't smell of copper, it was shiny and sprouting.

It is not profitable to use it to care.

What about self-benefiting relationships?!When you are lonely, do you take advantage of the company of a friend? When you're happy, find friends to share, don't you take advantage of it?

You have to say such ugly things, you"Utilization"What is the concern of friends for you, and what exists between friends is friendship and exploitation. You've gotten a benefit from a friend, but a friend is still a friend!