How to deal with love in college

Should college students fall in love? 1. Why is the rate of college students falling in love so high? Why are there so many college students in love?

1.When a person is away from home, he often feels lonely, and in this case, he wants to have someone he trusts to confide in and communicate with each otherEveryone comes from all over the world, no longer like high school in the same city, and college students come from different places, this regional gap leads to different temperaments and habits, more mysterious, more attractive!

3.Another is the physiological greed of college students. It is also a physiological need.

4.Many girls and boys get along frequently Second, the benefits of falling in love 1, love should become a spice for learning and a driving force to promote the progress of two people, such as two people to discuss the postgraduate entrance examination together, go abroad together 2, love is very romantic, no money troubles, no worldly hypocrisy, it is more sincere and simple, after work, falling in love is a lot less simple and more material, conditions. 3. Love is a kind of close relationship between people and people, this kind of getting along will expose a person's shortcomings, as well as the shortcomings of the other party, in getting along with each other will let each other learn to modify themselves, tolerate others, and promote the growth of two people.

3. The disadvantages of falling in love 1. Falling in love should never become a burden on studying. 2. Due to their own immaturity, college students do many things spontaneously, including love. caused a lifetime of tragedy, or affected a lifetime of mate selection.

3. There are many gaps between the school environment and the social environment, and the success rate is very low. 4. When you are ready to enter into a relationship, please think about the following questions first. 1. Figure out why you're in love?

Relieve loneliness and loneliness; Hope for attention and recognition; the diversion of lack of parental love; It's a senior year, and it's not normal to not be in love; group pressure, herd mentality; good for the opposite sex; ** In some kind of compensation ......If you are from the above psychology, then it is best not to be too anxious; There are multiple motives behind a banner of love, not entirely in love itself, have you analyzed it? Love issues are the most important issues in your youth and will have an impact on your life, and it will be worth the loss to talk about it at the risk of ridiculousness. 2. Have you considered the factors related to love?

Love and learning, love and family, love and material foundation, love and sexual relations, love and marriage, love and children, love and friendship, etc. are the contradictions of love, which will challenge the two in the process of falling in love, and only by handling it well will there be a better relationship. If you are overwhelmed by these questions at the first sight, don't talk about them. 3. Do you have financial strength?

Oh, the reality of college girls is a fact, boys have to be powerful, but there are also simple and easy to be deceived, it's better to find someone who has a common language.

Compared with many blind dates in society, the feelings of the college days are still quite pure, no matter whether the two bad parties will be together in the future, it is a happy thing to like a person and be liked, and sincerely treat this brother's innocent feelings, to experience envy and feel, in the days to come, it will be a very good memory.

I think that love in college brought me all harm, and most college students don't understand love.

1.Love is complex and requires learning and experience to understand. People tend to love only instinctively. No, it's liking or appreciation.

It's not cruel at all. It's just a matter of liking and appreciating it, and it will fade over time until it's boring. So-called"College students don't stay in love for long"，"Graduation season and breakup season", that's right"Love by instinct"。

2.Love is based on life, the same three views, harmonious life interest, character complementarity and sublimation, and even the same aesthetics. These are the guarantees of love and the reliance on improving the quality of life.

These are all things that take time and process, and you can't lose your mind, obviously exposing problems in the process of getting along, but you are paralyzed and deceiving yourself, that's not okay.

You are boring, you are dark, you lose your rhythm, you have no curved beams to talk about, it means that there is a problem in your life, and what you have to do is to solve the problem. Instead of falling in love, it is not a hasty relationship. Jumping into a relationship when you don't know enough about everything can bring you endless trouble and hurt.

Disturb your mind and shock your view of love. Falling in love is not a lifesaver for you to change your life, and it can even be a straw that breaks the camel's back.

3.Correctly handle the relationship between love and study, after more than ten years of struggle, we have entered the university, and we really need to relax, so it is a good choice to talk about a long relationship. But as a college student, our first priority should still be to study, and everything should be focused on academics.

4.Correctly distinguish the relationship between love and life, love is a major event in life, but it is not the whole of life. Only by handling the relationship between love and life can we achieve success. Correctly understand the relationship between love and the future, love is right, buried luck is love, love is wrong, is youth.

5.Don't get too caught up in a relationship and even give up your life. Treat love sensibly, love is a process that everyone must go through, but this is only a part of it, not all, don't be too blind in the face of love, or even be carried away by it.

College students can fall in love. Many students were disciplined by their parents and teachers when they were in junior high school and high school, and naturally formed the idea that they should not fall in love in school, so they also thought that they should not fall in love in college. But that doesn't have to happen in college.

Because no one cares if you are in a relationship or not, going to college means that you have matured and can have the freedom to fall in love.

Falling in love in college is actually a very beautiful thing, you can have more emotional experience, this emotional experience can pave the way for your future emotional life, and it can also allow you to leave an unforgettable memory, and sometimes you can also envy the spring to enrich the campus life of the mill with you. Since college is less stressful than in high school, you don't have to worry about being in a relationship affecting your studies at all.

It depends on your own learning ability and life plan, and you can decide for yourself.