My classmate s brother got married and asked me to participate, do I need to give a red envelope?

Updated on society 2024-04-24
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The answer to this question is yes, you'd better give the red envelope.

    First of all, the marriage of your classmate's brother is a happy event for their family, and you are invited to the wedding as a sign of respect and recognition. Giving red envelopes is not only a blessing to the couple, but also a way to express gratitude and respect.

    In addition, in Chinese cultural traditions, giving red envelopes is also a custom. On occasions such as weddings, birthdays, festivals, etc., giving red envelopes has become a common practice. If you don't give red envelopes, it may be considered disrespectful to traditional culture and disrespectful to the owner.

    Of course, how many red envelopes to give is also a matter to consider. You can decide how much to give based on your financial situation and relationship situation. If you're unsure, check the local customs or ask the organizer or other friends who are attending the wedding for advice.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you know his brother very well, and he personally invited you, then you should give a red envelope.

    If the relationship is not good, and you are not notified directly, but you are notified through your classmates, then you don't have to give it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First of all, it depends on what kind of relationship you have with your classmates, if your relationship with your classmates is very iron. So at this time, you can take more, like this kind of wedding gift is often a matter of courtesy. So there's no need to worry about it, so if the conditions allow, I think it's 500, but it also has something to do with some local economy.

    As an ordinary friend, 500 is enough, if your relationship is sweeter, you can sleep again, and you can have more if your own financial allows. First of all, you need to determine what your relationship is really like. As my friend's brother, it's enough for you to belong to 500.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This depends on your situation. If you are a minor, or you have not yet lived independently, and you are just a student, that is, you are not financially independent, you can not give it, but you have to send good wishes at that time.

    If you are already financially independent, then you need to give, this is etiquette. My brother is my own family, and I am usually too familiar with it, so if I don't give it, I won't blame you. But my brother's wife, and her family, don't think so.

    As for how much to give, it also depends on your own situation, as well as local customs. Of course, the red envelope is not about the number, the main thing is that you can feel your blessings, and the family will be warmer.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In this case: If the sister has the conditions, it is okay to give! But do what you can! If there are no conditions, my brother will be very happy if it is a blessing!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No matter if your brother is in**, he is going to get married, and as a younger sister, you have to give red envelopes, unless you are still studying and have no economy**, you don't need to give red envelopes, as long as you have economy**, you need to give red envelopes.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If my sister earns money, then she should give it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If my sister has the financial strength to give her brother a red envelope, it is best to give it, it is also a blessing and heart, if there is no money, and the relationship with my brother is good, my brother will understand.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If my brother wants to get married, whether or not to give a red envelope depends on your feelings, not that my brother is in Guangdong or somewhere else, it doesn't matter.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The elder brother wants to get married, and the younger sister will have to give a red envelope if she can already earn money. But if the sister hasn't earned money yet. You can also do without.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It depends on whether the sister is working or not, if the sister is not working, then you don't have to give.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you are an adult, it is best to give a red envelope if you have the financial ability, after all, it is a great event for relatives to get married. If the minor is still in school, then there is no need to give it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you go to work, you can give it, but if you don't graduate, you don't want it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    What is Guangdong like? Folklore. What is Guangdong like?

    One. We don't know. Because we haven't lived in Guangdong.

    Therefore, the living habits of Cantonese people and the living customs of Cantonese people. We don't know much about it. It's just that I usually look up some information on the Internet, and someone has seen some of it.

    As for this issue, it is mentioned in Guangdong. My brother is getting married, is my sister going to give some red envelopes? This is something that you can give if you have it in real social life, and if you don't have it, you won't give it, anyway, your brothers and sisters are the closest people.

    Just give my brother a blessing in words. Give my brother a piece of meat and be happy with my brother, my sister is the best, and my sister is the best. Don't talk about money or not.

    As long as family affection is important, it is the best.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Summary. Personally, I think that if my brother gets married, my brother must decide the money according to his own conditions, and if the conditions are good, you can give a little more, and if the conditions are bad, you can give a little less, and my brother will not say it. You send it according to your relationship with your brother, and then according to your own economic strength, don't compare with others, and ask others if they have a final big answer, this range is too wide.

    In our hometown, there are only hundreds, some thousands, some tens of thousands, and the different results can only be decided by yourself. It depends on the financial conditions of the individual. The elder brother doesn't have to take too much money when he gets married, as long as the relationship arrives, the elder brother doesn't care how much money the younger brother pays.

    When my brother gets married, do I have to give a red envelope as a younger brother?

    Personally, I think that if my brother gets married, my brother must decide the money according to his own conditions, and if the conditions are good, you can give a little more, and if the conditions are bad, you can give a little less, and my brother will not say it. You send it according to your relationship with your brother, and then according to your own economic strength, don't compare with others, and ask others if they have a final big answer, this range is too wide. In our hometown, there are only hundreds, some thousands, some tens of thousands, and the different results can only be decided by yourself.

    It depends on the financial conditions of the individual. The elder brother doesn't have to take too much money when he gets married, as long as the relationship arrives, the elder brother doesn't care how much money the younger brother pays.

    My brother is married, but my brother is not married, so it's appropriate not to give red envelopes, right?

    Hello, yes.

    Okay thank you. Yes.

    Is it appropriate for a younger brother to get married as an elder brother who does not give red envelopes.

    The law does not stipulate that the younger brother must give the younger brother a gift when he marries the elder brother, but according to Chinese customs, it is unjustifiable for the younger brother to marry and the elder brother does not give the gift, which is contrary to the traditional Chinese customs, just like when the elder brother's children get married, the younger brother does not give the nephew and niece a gift.

    Okay thank you. Yes.

    But the brothers are not in harmony.

    The brothers are not in harmony, but the cutscenes can also be walked, right?

    It can also be a little less.

    Because when my brother got married, as my brother's family, I was jealous that my parents gave money to my brother to marry, and now my brother doesn't have any contact.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Summary. Dear, our brother doesn't have to give it when he gets married, if it's his brother who marries, he has to give it to his sister-in-law. In fact, there is still a difference, if you are separated, you have to give, if you are not separated, you are not married, you don't need to give a red envelope, if you want to give something, you can buy a little bit of a small gift to please your sister-in-law, in short, you don't have to give it to your brother, even if you want to give it, it is for your sister-in-law.

    When my brother gets married, do I have to give red envelope money as a married brother? Red envelopes?

    Dear, our brother doesn't have to give it when he gets married, if it's his brother who marries, he has to give it to his sister-in-law. In fact, there is still a difference, if you are separated, you have to give, if you are not separated, you are not married, you don't need to give a red envelope, if you want to give something, you can buy a little bit of a small gift to please your sister-in-law, in short, you don't have to give it to your brother, even if you want to give it, it is for your sister-in-law. <>

    <> if you really want to give a red envelope. I think you have to do what you can, and you don't care how much money you have. What matters is your heart. It's good for him to understand. In addition, I wish your brother a happy wedding! <>

    <> the younger brother got married first, and the elder brother got married later, does the younger brother need to give money?

    That's the separation, that's the need to give a red envelope, oh kiss <>

    <> didn't split up. You're married, so you should give a red envelope<>

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Marriage is a very ceremonial thing, and there will naturally be a lot of attention to all about marriage, especially for the wedding red envelope, whether it is to attend the wedding or not to attend, you will be very cautious about this, try to pay attention to it. So, how much should a classmate send a red envelope if they can't get married? How much less is 200 red envelopes for friends to get married?

    How to give red envelopes if you don't attend a wedding?

    If you receive an invitation from the other party, but you don't have time to attend the wedding banquet, whether you want to give a red envelope depends on your relationship with the bride and groom. If it's a good relationship, then you have to give a red envelope, and you have to send a larger red envelope; It is recommended to be between 500-3000 yuan; If the relationship between the two is average, try to send a red envelope, but the amount is not too big, and it is more appropriate to send 200-500 yuan; If the two rarely have contact, and the two are unlikely to contact in the future, there is no need to give a red envelope.

    If you don't attend the wedding, there are two ways to send red envelopes, one is to ask someone else to transfer it, and the other is to transfer it directly on WeChat. If you are friends with the parents of the bride and groom, it may be better to pass it on to the parents of the bride and groom. For other relationships, it is not recommended to use the method of transfer, but to transfer it yourself.

    There are two best times to send red envelopes to the newlyweds on WeChat, one is the day before the newlyweds get married, and the other is on the day of the wedding banquet. When giving out red envelopes, you can talk about the reasons why you can't attend the wedding banquet, and wish them a happy wedding and an early birth to a precious child.

    When is the best time to give red envelopes to a wedding?

    1. Give at the registration desk: Nowadays, most people will set up a registration desk at the entrance of the hotel to sign in, and guests can sign in here and register wedding red envelopes and congratulatory gifts at the same time.

    2. Give when the newlyweds toast: If you don't set up a signature registration desk or miss the sign-in, you can send a red envelope when the newlyweds toast you, at this time, many people will embarrass the newlyweds when giving red envelopes, and drive the atmosphere of the wedding, but if you want to embarrass the newlyweds, you should grasp the scale, don't embarrass the newlyweds.

    3. Give when you say goodbye: If you miss the time for the bride and groom to toast at the same time as the sign-in registration desk, it is best to choose to give it before leaving, when the bride and groom come to say goodbye to you.

    4. In addition to the three ways mentioned above, you can also transfer it through the relatives and friends of the bride and groom, if you are friends with the parents of the bride and groom, then give it to the parents of the bride and groom, and then let it be transferred. But since you are attending the wedding banquet, it is better to give the red envelope to the bride and groom by hand, rather than passing it on through others.

    In addition, because network communication is now very developed, many people want to send red envelopes to the newlyweds through WeChat even if they attend the wedding banquet. It is not recommended for everyone to do this, if you are attending a wedding, it is still recommended to give a red envelope on the spot.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Summary. If your own brother gets married, if you are not married and you are a student in school, then there is no need to give your brother a red envelope, because you do not have the financial ability, and at this time you and your parents belong to the same family, and your parents' contribution to your brother is your part. But after all, it is your own brother who is married, and you can send some words of blessing and carefully prepared small gifts to your brother early, which is also good, and it can be conveyed to your heart.

    When my brother gets married, do I have to give a red envelope as a younger brother?

    If your own brother gets married, if you are not married and you are a student in school, then you don't have to guess that it is necessary to give your brother a red envelope, because you don't have the financial ability yet, and at this time, you and your parents belong to the same family, and your parents' contribution to your brother is your part. But after all, it is your own brother who is married, and you can send some words of blessing and carefully prepared small gifts to your brother early, which is also good, and it can convey your heart to make trouble.

    But if you are already working, then your brother's marriage must be done to support Chang to the best of his ability. About 5,000 yuan should be about the same, mainly depending on the individual's economic ability.

    But my brother didn't say anything.

    Okay, wait a minute, I'll take a look at the text.

    Then it depends on whether he has purchased some wedding items, and if he doesn't have any, it may not be expressed for some reasons.

    Nothing was sent.

    Because when my brother got married, as my brother's family, I was jealous that my parents gave money to my brother to marry, and now my brother doesn't have any contact.

    That's probably the reason, the partiality of the parents, which caused the two brothers not to see each other.

    There may really be no way to solve this situation, only their parents can solve it and explain the situation to him.

    In this way, there may be room for maneuver, otherwise it will definitely be unhappy later.

    Parents are not partial, each parent gives an average amount of money to get married.

    If the parents are not partial, then the parents have part of the reason, and the younger brother also has part of the reason, otherwise it will not lead to this situation.

    Okay thank you. Thumbs up for helping, thanks.

    Dotted. Thanks

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Summary. Hello dear, my boyfriend and cousin are getting married, you can give a red envelope, when we go to the wedding of relatives and friends, we need to give a red envelope with this part, after all, when we go to other people's weddings, we definitely need to bless them and send a red envelope, so that they can be together for a long time.

    Hello dear, my boyfriend's cousin is married, you can give a red envelope on the side, when we go to the wedding of relatives and friends, we need to give a red envelope with this part, Bi Qicheng actually when we go to other people's weddings, we must also bless them and send a red envelope, so that they can be together for a long time.

    Your boyfriend's relatives are getting married, and you go with your boyfriend, it's not a matter of etiquette, because you are going with your boyfriend to congratulate his relatives on getting married, and the two of you are one thing, and the outside world and his relatives have already regarded you as the object of your boyfriend.

    It's already a family, so the gift is a piece, there is no need for both people to follow the ceremony, if you also follow, it will seem to be raw.

    In the usual boyfriend and girlfriend interactions, girls are hungry and thin-skinned, and if they encounter some things in a bad celebration, they would rather be wronged and do it themselves, which is not right. For example, if a boy brings his girlfriend to his relative's wedding, he can't let the girl come with the ceremony, but just make the boy with him.

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