How to choose between noble personality quality and happy life?

As you said, it's because the people there don't have a high level. They are not equal to society. I am not in favor of giving up my life ideals for the sake of "being gregarious".

You don't have to go along with them. You can choose to go to graduate school. That way I can stay in the school library every day.

You don't have to face them every day.

If you can't change the environment, you can change yourself.

But in my understanding, it is to change yourself, make yourself stronger, and have the capital to say no to your surroundings. and not be changed by the environment.

No matter how wrong you are, the result is that your grades can only go there, don't worry about this anymore. Finally, don't give up on your future no matter what.

To be yourself, a person's life is to work hard to develop themselves, and then marry the best wife and pass on their best genes.

Stay away from them, the farther away the better, really.

The Buddha is upside down and has a hundred thoughts.

Read more books on philosophy and life, improve yourself through action, abandon bad habits and faults, and gradually improve yourself.

You can learn about etiquette first, and then keep reading some classics.

Don't care what others think, do what you think is right!

Read more good books, strengthen your literary and artistic atmosphere, and in addition, pay attention to your moral cultivation from daily life, and pay more attention to the small details of life

Look at the world's famous books, listen to ** religious beliefs, and there is a role model, if you have a favorite role model, find him to do.

Find role models first, and then strengthen self-discipline and follow along.

It is to remind yourself all the time, every minute, every second - to be a good person. When the reminders of the hours, minutes, and seconds become a habit, you are a noble person.

All idealism. Be worthy of your conscience.

It's good to collect more setbacks, that's how people grow.

Reading, tutoring, self-management, right and wrong, non-angry youth...

Check out more of these books. Socialize with some noble people.

There is poetry and writing in the belly. Read more.

Read more, think more, and introspect more.

Read more books and recommend a book on Carnegie's Human Weaknesses.

Read more ancient classics: the Analects, Mencius, etc.

A person with a noble personality is bound to have a rough life.

Help others more and then learn to be tolerant of others.

Reading can cultivate your sentiments.

It's good to work hard to develop a good face.

Read more, study more, and do more.

Just recognize it, and you've done it. The following passage is from the answer to the same question, so you can refer to it. Generosity can be tolerated, and the world can not tolerate things.

Tolerance is the most beautiful virtue in the world. He's everywhere. In nature, because of the ocean's non-abandonment of dripping water, there is a "sea of all rivers, there is tolerance is big" of the magnificent waves, because of the high mountains do not abandon an inch of land, there is Mount Tai towering into the clouds.

In the long history, because of the disregard of the past suspicions of the Duke of Qi Huan, there was the hegemony of the Qi State. Because of Liu Bei's three visits to the thatched house, there is one of the three points in the world of Shu. Some people weep bitterly because they have lost their travel or go to tolerance, some people are ecstatic because they have been tolerated, and everyone wants to be tolerated by others, and they also want to have the beautiful virtue of tolerance.

Because tolerance is the first ray of sunshine that warms the earth in spring, the first nectar after a long drought, the first fire in the wind and snow, the first color that blind children see, the first angel sent by God to the world, and the first green leaf that grows from dead wood. Friends welcome tolerance because it is the guardian of friendship, parents and children welcome tolerance because it is the foundation of family harmony, and the world welcomes tolerance even more because tolerance is the foundation of world peace. Without tolerance, the world would seem to have lost its light.

Rodin once said, "Take love away, and the world will become a grave of oranges." "Tolerance is the same, if tolerance is taken away, I don't know how many broken friendships in this world are waiting to be reorganized, I don't know how many broken family ties are waiting to be revisited, and I don't know how many broken peaces are waiting to be refilled.

I don't know where we're going to find the sun. Fortunately, the world has not lost its tolerance. Nor must we lose tolerance.

Therefore, let us all grasp the old town group of the heart tolerantly, and don't let him slip away. Because, life is more brilliant with tolerance! Life is more charming when there is tolerance!

The world is a better place because of tolerance!

1) On the one hand, you should be able to think in an all-round way (preferably from heart to heart) when dealing with and solving things in life. As long as you persist for a long time, you will understand: "In fact, life is the best soil for the cultivation of our humanistic qualities."

Because when you are able to think about others, you will be broad-minded, so you will be tolerant of some things.

2) On the other hand, you can insist on reading some classical humanities works, and you should use your heart to understand the spirit and meaning of the works while reading.

3) When you realize it, you will have a new feeling about many things, and the people around you will be invisibly infected by you.

He was tall and very tall. The round goose egg face has a pair of big watery eyes, which is very exciting. Underneath his eyes is the bridge of his straight nose, which has been an "old neighbor" for ten years with that round, red mouth!

He is a very caring classmate who likes to help others. He is my classmate Liu Zeyu.

One day in a self-study class, I accidentally made a mistake when writing my homework, so I looked for an eraser in the pencil case, but I couldn't find it, and I started to flip through the table again, and I didn't find it for a long time. Oops, what's going on? I'm anxious like an ant on a hot pan – round and round.

At this time, I patted my head and remembered that I must have forgotten to put it in my schoolbag after finishing my homework yesterday. What can I do? This is just the first lesson!

At this time, Liu Zeyu came over after handing in his homework book, and when he saw that I was in such a hurry, he asked me carefully: "What's wrong with you, why are you so anxious?" "I helplessly :

I forgot to bring an eraser. Liu Zeyu continued: "Then you use my eraser."

As he spoke, he handed me a black eraser, and I was very grateful. After the first class, I deliberately walked over to thank Liu Zeyu: "Liu Zeyu, thank you."

But he said, "It's okay, good friend, don't be so polite." This eraser can be returned to me after school today.

I'm afraid that some students don't bring school supplies, so they bring an extra eraser and a ruler every day. ”

I didn't know much about Liu Zeyu before, but after listening to him, I knew that he was a good classmate who was helpful and helpful. I'm so glad to have such a good classmate.